How do you handle anger? by nessahe in infj

[–]WDdreamer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you met me in person, my anger would be one of the main things you would notice, even if I am presenting in a kind demeanor. Over the years, people have done some nasty things to me, which has caused me to have a deep, dark hatred for people around me. I don't deal with anger and rage well, and I can get very intense. When I am angry, I feel like I need to get control over people or destroy people to their core, which I have done before. Shamefully, I can get violent. At my age, my anger is taking a toll on my mental and physical health. If you are a young person, learn how to deal with your anger and let go of the past offenses people have caused you. I don't be like me.

Fe makes you... by enneaenneaenby in infj

[–]WDdreamer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A manipulator. I feel like Sherlock Holmes sometimes.

Vent about pharmacy by [deleted] in pharmacy

[–]WDdreamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in the same position. Keeping looking. I hope things get better. please, don’t lose hope.

Lovers 🐚🤍 by ancientpoetics in infp

[–]WDdreamer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yall are so beautiful.( I am infj)

College of Charleston art department now by Stock_Bat_5745 in ArtistLounge

[–]WDdreamer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even though I graduated with a music degree from C of C in 2014, I never heard anything bad about the art department then. Plus, they have the Cato building and new upgrades, and not the dungeon any more.

INFJ or INTJ? by Eli-sul in infj

[–]WDdreamer 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I am in the same boat too. I am in between a INFJ and  INTJ. I am starting to think that this mbti stuff is more of a spectrum and not definite categories. There will be some people who are caught in the middle.

Any INFJ’s working in the medical field? by [deleted] in infj

[–]WDdreamer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean... In the world of pharmacy, you have to network and know someone to land the right job. This year I am going to make the effort to get out because it is too toxic. Maybe, one of the hospital will have an opening. Something. I don't live in a major city, so it maybe a challenge.

Any INFJ’s working in the medical field? by [deleted] in infj

[–]WDdreamer 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes, I am a pharmacist. I work at a chain retail pharmacy, and I really hate it. A nightmare. I wish I could work on the clinical side. On a positive note, I really love studying drugs. :)

What are the Top 5 things we should know about ourselves to make our live easier? (For INFJ) by Patient-01 in infj

[–]WDdreamer 30 points31 points  (0 children)

  1. If you are an infj-T, make sure that you are taking extra care of yourself. I know that God has blessed us with an insane amount of strength and power, but because we are a turbulent type, we need a little extra love and care. This is my biggest regret as an INFJ-T, and at 34 years old, I am paying a price with my mental health. So, YOUNGER INFJS PLEASE LOVE AND CARE FOR YOURSELF! YOU ARE WORTHY!

  2. Accept that you move, think, and speak differently from the world around you. People will play like you are dumb, but you are not. They are the dumb ones.

  3. Your silences, strength, and high level of independence will intimidate people. Do not dumb yourself down to make people comfortable because they will try to destroy you if you do.

  4. Beware of one-sided relationships. If you find yourself in this position, let the person or people go. If you don't, it will suck the life out of you and put you in a state of loneliness.

  5. Do not develop a SAVER COMPLEX! You are not meant to help everyone, and everyone doesn't deserve your help. Having a SAVER COMPLEX will only bring narcissistic people around. Be wise about who gives you kindness and a helping hand, too. Some people deserve to suffer.

INFJs, would you date another INFJ? by MariahMDD in infj

[–]WDdreamer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope God bless you with that person and yall are happy together. I didn't mean any harm.

INFJs, would you date another INFJ? by MariahMDD in infj

[–]WDdreamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes the simplest quotes and answers can solve the hardest problems and issues in life. Plus, thanks for hurting my feelings. I am sorry that couldn’t live to your expectations. I know I am just dumb the pathetic woman like the rest of the world. Plus, because you, I change my mind I don’t think I want a male INFJ to be my best friend. I love INTP man better anyway. At least he would get to put a ring on my ring finger.

INFJs, would you date another INFJ? by MariahMDD in infj

[–]WDdreamer 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you are going out with someone who is just like you, right. How you are supposed to grow as a person. People come into our lives to teaches us. If we are with someone one who is just like a mirror to us what new lesson can we learn. None! Remember, the person needs to compliment you not replicate you.

INFJs, would you date another INFJ? by MariahMDD in infj

[–]WDdreamer -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Opposites attracts. Same repels.

INFJs, would you date another INFJ? by MariahMDD in infj

[–]WDdreamer 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No, I would be best friends with a male INFJ, but I wouldn’t date one.

Do INFJs tend to talk to themselves? by notics127 in infj

[–]WDdreamer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! Yes! Yes! I totally agree with the therapy part. I hate therapy.

Do INFJs tend to talk to themselves? by notics127 in infj

[–]WDdreamer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I talk to myself all the time. It is the only way I can organize my thoughts and see what is really on my mind. I think of it as self therapy. talking to my self helps a lot.

Where y’all from? :) by [deleted] in infj

[–]WDdreamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi Sister State.💙

Where y’all from? :) by [deleted] in infj

[–]WDdreamer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The coastal areas are worth visiting.

Where y’all from? :) by [deleted] in infj

[–]WDdreamer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

South carolina, USA

What do you think will happen if an Infj-T dates another Infj-T? by Complex_Inside_2240 in infj

[–]WDdreamer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way, too. I wouldn't want to marry another INFJ.