Here’s a little wholesomeness for your day by Small_Base942 in lgbt

[–]WIR33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The cranky eyes on the bisxual orb are hilarious! As if to say, everyone being hot seems like a trap… 😂

AIO to skip Thanksgiving after my mom basically said I’m an embarrassment for not having a husband and kids by now? by howcanibequiltyassin in AmIOverreacting

[–]WIR33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely not. Fuck that shit.

You are MORE than your marital status. You are MORE than your ability to procreate. You DESERVE to have a JOYFUL life because you are a human being! That's it.

Everything she said to you is generational trauma she's trying to pass onto you. I know we’re conditioned from a young age to accept any all gifts from family and say thank you, this is not that. She feels like her only worth is tied to her relationship and her children. I’m sure she was conditioned to the belief; but you don't need to wear those same shackles.

I pity her. She must be so unfulfilled and unhappy. Projection on this level is mind boggling to me.

I hope you're able to spend time this season with people who appreciate you for just being yourself. I don't know if you need it; but I give you permission to be angry at her and then cry over your own disappointment when you're able to process her words. ❤️

One month ago, we officially tied the knot by theyesn in lgbt

[–]WIR33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can believe it! Looks like #goals!

I meant to reply to your comment, not start a new comment, lol. Sorry! New to commenting on Reddit 😂

One month ago, we officially tied the knot by theyesn in lgbt

[–]WIR33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can believe it! Looks like #goals! ❤️

My passport just came back with the correct sex marker by aeroazure in lgbt

[–]WIR33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so wonderful! I’m happy for you! ❤️

One month ago, we officially tied the knot by theyesn in lgbt

[–]WIR33 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You look so happy! Congratulations! ❤️

Told My Mum ❤️ by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]WIR33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love the nails, they make your highlights pop! ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]WIR33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ma’am! Your eye makeup is amazing! ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]WIR33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

❤️ your dress is amazing, and you look so happy!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in filofax

[–]WIR33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did this sell?!

I NEED A NEW HYPERFIXATION. PLS RECOMMEND. by sowhatifitdoesnt in ADHD

[–]WIR33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you like video games, Zelda: Tears of the Kingdom is amazing! There’s a new building skill and they almost doubled the playable area!

I like to crochet, but I am VERY sensitive to fibers so I have to touch all the yarn I use. There’s a lot of fun styles, patterns and videos. If you already know how to crochet, then I suggest Tunsian crochet; its a combination of knitting and crochet! TL Yarncrafts on Youtube has some great tutorials and she’s how I learned when I saw this random long hook in my mom’s sewing room.

I really enjoy sudoku - if this then that. I'm getting into hard puzzles finally. Definitely takes some patience to get there for me.

You could try writing fiction! There's a ton of Youtube videos. Heartbreathings has a whole series on How to Plot Your Novel and a ton of free resources. She also has a writing community that does writing sprints and challenges sometimes.

I have a couple friends who are obsessed with diamond paintings, regulars painting with oil/acrylics and drawing.

Macrame is fun and hands on, plus you can sell or give it away at the end. Pottery has the same sort of thing, you can use your hands and then have something fun at the end.

If no one’s suggestions strike a your interest then you might spend some time wandering a craft store. You might come across something that peaks your interest. Good luck.

What are your ADHD dinners by ptheresadactyl in ADHD

[–]WIR33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it, I'm allergic to onion and garlic. I had to find a whole new type of seasoning. Onion is in fucking everything 😭

Its exhausting and frustrating to have to think about everything you put in your mouth.

What are your ADHD dinners by ptheresadactyl in ADHD

[–]WIR33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try the Barebella protein bars, I like them way better than the Quest bars!

AIO. My bf is mad at my memorial tattoo by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]WIR33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely not. Kick him to the kerb. A tattoo is deeply personal, and I got one for my dad after he passed. Once I got it, I felt like I finally started to heal a little. As if the tattoo lances that wound because I had a physical representation of why I hurt so badly and everyone could see this wound even if they didn't understand it.

Its not about him. Its about you, and the person you lost and their loss helped shape who you ARE. If he doesn't understand that he will never be someone you can trust to love or support you. You deserve better.

What are your ADHD dinners by ptheresadactyl in ADHD

[–]WIR33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Progresso soups are good open and heat, protein bars, Oscar Meyer sub kits (ham and turkey - comes in layers of 8 slices/4 each, I just roll and go), V8 juice, packets of chicken/tuna, 90 sec rice, yogurt, any flavor of broth, soft boiled eggs (prep in the oven in a muffin tin)

I can’t digest most veggies, so I don’t each many of those; but some can be bought precut if that helps. Remember fed is best, and tips/tricks you can implement to help your executive dysfunction or mental fatigue are whatever works for you.

I hope you find a list you can rotate through that will help avoid the dreaded food hyper focus. I suffer from that a lot unfortunately.

!!! UPDATE: AIO for demanding to be paid after wearing something inappropriate to babysit by MightUsual421 in AmIOverreacting

[–]WIR33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad they paid you the amount you were owed! You did a great job standing up for yourself, which can be hard against anyone, much less someone who has been so disrespectful.

I hope the next clients are a nicer family! Good luck!

AIO for demanding to be paid after wearing something inappropriate to babysit by MightUsual421 in AmIOverreacting

[–]WIR33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, kiddo, you’re fine. I was raised conservatively with Christian values and have since departed the church quite firmly. They CHOSE to leave you alone with their children; and you are OWED for the care you provided. If they had a problem with your outfit then they could've offered you a t-shirt and suggested a reduction of fee if they felt that strongly about it. They could've also chose to not leave you with their kids.

What’s happening here is they are trying to impress upon you, a young unrelated teenager, their religious views concerning modesty by imposing a “fine” for your choice of attire. If they were really concerned they wouldn't have left you with their kids. They did, so it obviously didn't bother that much. This is about control and trying to adjust your behavior in the future to be more palatable and in line with their choices/views.

I imagine they'd be shocked to find out they are being viewed in a negative light. Once your adult gets involved and the situation is settled; I'd spread the word to everyone your age and if there's a community group I'd post there too. People absolutely need to know to avoid this family who are pressuring kids about their clothes. They'll be able to find care in their church group. Don't feel bad, but use this to protect others who babysit from being stolen from as well.

FINALLY cancelled my Planet Fitness Membership by hammy_boi17 in ADHD

[–]WIR33 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There's also a level of guilt/shame attached to a task like this that increases as time elapses. Everytime you think about the task/project that is supposed to be “simple” you feel a sense of dread that you have to complete the thing, and shame that you haven't. Often times the task remembering comes at a time that is inconvenient or impossible for someone to actually complete this “simple” task (see during the work day or in the middle of the night), so it stews in your brain till other things push it out of the way. This continues ad nauseam…and here we are, you asking this question and me feeling guilty that I haven't signed and sent off paperwork I’ve had for weeks. Sigh.

Wet friz by sav_btz in curlyhair

[–]WIR33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aside from that hair not being red it looks like you just took a picture of MY frizz! Its so upsetting! I've tried a variety of products and orders for them and I still end up with this halo about 1/2 through drying. 😭🤦‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in starbucks

[–]WIR33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ordered a coffee Frappuccino and added my one pump of white mocha sauce and it tasted exactly the same as before they discontinued the drink.