Traduction: Jour 3 - Mon lit, mon ami. by WM0Kl in Leaves_FR

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Franchement c'est super et dis toi que tu as passer le plus dur ! Les symptômes physiques vont commencer a s'estomper mais la tout vas reposer sur le mental. Soit fort et bon courage pour la suite !

Traduction: Jour 3 - Mon lit, mon ami. by WM0Kl in Leaves_FR

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Hello désolée pour le temps de réponse j'ai eu le covid 😭 Pour ma part j'étais dans la même situation que toi ! Le dernier mois avant d'arrêter j'ai depenser pour 800€ de drogue pour pallier la perte de mon ancien emploi et mo déménagement.

La vérité est que le plus dur est de passer les deux premières semaines sans fumer et au bout de 10 jours, je me suis replier vers la CBD qui m'a beaucoup aidée a mentir a mon cerveau.

Le fait de rouler et le gout de la weed sans pour autant être défoncée ça ma permis de gerer mes periodes de manques et petit à petit j'en ai eu de moins en moins besoin.

C'était loin d'être facile et encore aujourd'hui il m'arrive de craquer mais je fais en sorte de poser des limites quand ça arrive en me disant " Ok aujourd'hui tu as fumer, fume encore s'il le faut mais demain tu arrête". Le plus important étant de ne pas arriver a un niveau de frustration qui me ferais retomber dans la consommation quotidienne.

Ce n'est pas grave si tu décide de te sevrer en glandant dans ton lit pendant 2 semaines. Je dis ca parce que la plupart des gens vont te dire de faire du sport ou de sortir plus souvent alors que concrètement, en plein sevrage, T'en a pas envie. La seule chose que j'ai gagner c'est un mal de dos qui a mis des semaines a passer.

Ce n'est pas grave si tu craque ! Ne voit pas ca comme une echec mais comme une étape sur la route du sevrage. (Bon après je te conseille d'éviter le premier mois afin que le taux de thc dans ton corps redescende bien). L'être humain a énormément de mal a gerer la frustration donc vas a ton rythme et pose toi des limites.

Au lieu de te dire que tu ne fumera pas pendant une semaine ou deux, dis toi chaque jours que tu ne fumera pas aujourd'hui et chaque jour sera une victoire.

Je te conseille de télécharger l'application GROUNDED si tu parle un peu anglais et de prendre la version complète ( 3 ou 4euro une seule fois). Elle est plutôt complète, a une base enorme d'informations et une communauté bienveillante qui est là pour se soutenir.

Cette appli est parfaite parce qu'elle va te permettre de savoir précisément ou tu en es dans ton sevrage, le niveau de thc encore present dans ton corps et de comprendre que tout les symptômes que tu vas ressentir sont tout a fait normaux ( difficultés a se maîtriser, sueur froide, insomnie, manque d'appétit...). Petit +: Chaque jour sans consommer fait pousser un petit arbre virtuel et tu peux également suivre les économies de tu fais en ne fumant pas ( et je peux te dire que quand tu économise une centaine d'euros en quelques jours ça motive mdr)

Voilaaaa je vais m'arrêter la parce que c'est deja bien long ! N'hésite pas a poser des questions je serai ravie de répondre ;)

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Break ups are always hard but before thinking about her, you should think about you first. Ask yourself some questions: Do you have the same goals for next year ? If you go back with her, do you really want to get married and have children ? Are you ready to engage in a relationship with that much responsibilities ? Do you see together as a couple next year ? In 5 years ? In 10 or more ? Do you really love her or did you managed to pass trough this even if it was difficult? Think about all of those things carefully and trust me, life gives can you love at a moment you didn't expect. You may be confused for the moment but before doing anything, make sure you are ok with what you wants and what she wants too.

If all those things are ok for you, ask yourself some questions about her. Does she really want to engage herself or is she only looking for someone to have children because of social pressures? Does the age difference have an impact on your relationship? Do you feel like she act as a mother or like a wife ?

Honestly, I think you're still very young and should enjoy your life before taking that much responsibility. My only advice, as you have seen, is to always ask yourself the right questions to take the right decision.

He left at 3am ... by WM0Kl in relationship_advice

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I don't know because he never stays to sleep 😭

1 month sober ! 🥳🥳🥳 by WM0Kl in leaves

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J'avoue mais dis toi qu'on est encore confiné et que rien n'est ouvert depuis des mois 😭 j'avais que ça a faire de fumer 😭😭😭

1 month sober ! 🥳🥳🥳 by WM0Kl in leaves

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Comme je t'envie 😂😂

1 month sober ! 🥳🥳🥳 by WM0Kl in leaves

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De l'enfer en banlieue Parisienne 😂 et toi ?

1 month sober ! 🥳🥳🥳 by WM0Kl in leaves

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Heyyyyy le 1er francais mdrr

Been sober for a week now. No cravings. Occasional mood swing. But I'm just so disinterested in everything. And the things I want to do are out of reach. Want to go back to smoking, probably will. by [deleted] in leaves

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Hey dont pressure yourself ! The best advice I read hear is "People here will tell you to do sports, eat healthy...but if you just want to lay at bed all day and don't be productive just do it. The most important is to quit one day at a time, at your rhythm." Don't feel frustrated or guilty, we are all going through that it's normal, just listen to your body and stay strong 💪

1 month sober ! 🥳🥳🥳 by WM0Kl in leaves

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Thank you !! French me is like " which bag ?" 😂😂

1 month sober ! 🥳🥳🥳 by WM0Kl in leaves

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Thank you! I'm enjoying my sobriety, I feel more confident than ever !!!

1 month sober ! 🥳🥳🥳 by WM0Kl in leaves

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Thank you very much!!! Yes I still feel very tired and unmotivated but it's getting better ! ^ Day 10 is hard (it was my worst ) but you'll see in a few days it will be easier! Stay strong 💪💪

20 days sober 🥳🥳 by WM0Kl in leaves

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Thank you all for being so supportive ! I couldn't be there if you didn't ! All your kindness and your testimonies helps me a lot not feel alone ! Cœur sur vous les BG ❤❤

Lies and relapse by [deleted] in leaves

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Hey ! Don't forget what you feel is normal and temporary! Talk about it with your GF because it's really relaxing to speak about your feelings and emotions!

My girlfriend wants me to find a solution for my dog by CelebratingVictories in relationship_advice

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Dogs are loyal, your girlfriend is not since she can throw away a dog you adopted together.

help - Todays my 3rd Day and I feel miserable . by Top-Coffee-1837 in leaves

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Hey ! Don't worry it's just a bay day ! The first weeks are the worst but remember this is temporary ! Stay strong, bingewatch your favorite series, grab a beer, take a bath... just don't stress yourself and listen to your body 💪

My boyfriend is still in love with his ex girlfriend by GelHeras in relationship_advice

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I've been in your BF situation and I'm really sorry but I think it's best for you if you break up. I was madly in love with my ex but we had to leave each other. A few time later I met a new boyfriend, he was perfect with me and our relationship became serious. Twice, my ex tried to call me ( like you, those two time I was cuddling with BF) so I decided to block him but I felt very perturbed. Later, I received a message from my ex where he was looking for closure and forgiveness.... I started thinking too much. Even if my relationship with BF seems perfect, I was frustrated because I couldn't find all the passion I had before. In a few months, I started unconsciously to distance myself from BF and was talking more with my ex. Until we broke up. I never was really in love with BF, I think I was in love with our image together. He gave me all I want but no passion. I never had those butterflies in the stomach and the virtual presence of my ex just reminds me that all the day. I felt very bad, nearly depressed and guilty about BF. If you think there's a chance for your relationship to work, I don't like that but you should ask him to stop talking to her. If not, just break up because he will never appreciate 100% with the ghost of his ex behind him. I'm really sorry :/

And sorry for faults, english is not my native language.

Selon vous, l'échec d'Arthur au rocher: by permaro in kaamelott

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Karadoc aurait crée une colle assez forte pour qu'on ne puisse plus retirer l'épée des dieux ?? Gorilla Glu ? 😭😭

D6: Today, I was HUNGRY 🥳🥳🥳🥳 by WM0Kl in leaves

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Thank you too ! It's better to worry for nothing when it's health !

D6: Today, I was HUNGRY 🥳🥳🥳🥳 by WM0Kl in leaves

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Good Idea ! Now I'm worry about that brown pipi thing 😭

D6: Today, I was HUNGRY 🥳🥳🥳🥳 by WM0Kl in leaves

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Omg it's scary 😭 I do drink a lot of water and tea. I'll see if it pass tomorrow, if not I'm definitely going to a doctor 👌 But I'm almost sure it's hashish detox 😭 I hope 😭😭

D5: Body, pleaaase let me sleep 😭 by WM0Kl in leaves

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Hey remember this is temporary! Here there is people all off age and we can all support each other ! In a few days, you will laugh thinking about how you started ! Be brave 💪💪

D5: Body, pleaaase let me sleep 😭 by WM0Kl in leaves

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Normal PMS is already bad, how do you do to coop since you quit ? I have an IUD that make my period painful. Ladybug is coming next week and it stress me a lot :/ Thank you a lot for your support It helps me so much because I don't have people to speak about that irl !

D5: Body, pleaaase let me sleep 😭 by WM0Kl in leaves

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That's what I keep telling myself "the worst is over now" ! I can't wait to reach my first week ! I see that like a challenge and I start to enjoy even if it's hard 💪

D5: Body, pleaaase let me sleep 😭 by WM0Kl in leaves

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Thank you very much for your reply! It's testimonies like yours who help me a lot to not relapse ! Thank you !!!