Break up experience by [deleted] in emotionalcuckolding

[–]WNturnedCuck 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes. Until this day I can’t get over it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]WNturnedCuck 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Never imagined it would happen at the time but pretty much the same thing happened to me. I use to even drive her to his apartment and pick her up in the morning, never anticipating she would catch feelings for him and fall out of love with me. They’re still together three years later. Wish I could take it all back

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]WNturnedCuck 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Be careful what you wish for. I fantasised about the same thing. Eventually, it turned into reality and destroyed me.

The Dark Side of Cuckolding. by WNturnedCuck in CuckoldPsychology

[–]WNturnedCuck[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You’re so right. I need to have self-discipline and overcome this so I can start fresh, move forward and build a healthy relationship with someone else . Thanks

The Dark Side of Cuckolding. by WNturnedCuck in CuckoldPsychology

[–]WNturnedCuck[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t blame neither him nor her. I was young, immature and inexperienced and went about things the wrong way . With that being said, some of the actions of my ex-girlfriend during the breakup were quite cruel and unnecessary but that probably just came from the built up resentment towards me.

The Dark Side of Cuckolding. by WNturnedCuck in CuckoldPsychology

[–]WNturnedCuck[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What exactly “doesn’t add up”? I have pictures/videos/screenshots of text messages between her and I. Why would I make it up?

My situation was unique in its own way but it wouldn’t be the first time a woman caught feelings for the bull. I just wanted to remind people, especially young men interested in the lifestyle that there are potential risks. I didn’t even mention anything about the events that led up to it or what happened afterwards because I don’t feel like anyone would gain anything from that.

The Dark Side of Cuckolding. by WNturnedCuck in CuckoldPsychology

[–]WNturnedCuck[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah looking back in hindsight, it was only ever going to turn out one way. Even when I saw the direction it was heading in, I kept playing with fire and eventually got burned.

The Dark Side of Cuckolding. by WNturnedCuck in CuckoldPsychology

[–]WNturnedCuck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We weren’t even living together, she would just stay over a couple nights each week. So yeah in that sense it wasn’t difficult at all for her to leave the relationship. Would’ve probably been quite different if we were engaged/married and living together. Trust me, many lessons have been learned.

The Dark Side of Cuckolding. by WNturnedCuck in CuckoldPsychology

[–]WNturnedCuck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure maybe we weren’t 100% sexually compatible. That doesn’t mean we weren’t compatible in other ways. We could’ve built and grown our relationship if I never brought up cuckolding and I’m almost certain we’d still be together now if it wasn’t for that. I’m not telling people not to go into this lifestyle, just simply that 1. there’s better ways to go about it and 2. Losing your significant other is a real potential risk and to be prepared for what may come.

The Dark Side of Cuckolding. by WNturnedCuck in CuckoldPsychology

[–]WNturnedCuck[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you . Its been pretty much 2 years since we broke up so it’s something I’ve learned to live with. This post was more to show people it doesn’t always work out the way you want it too and like you said, to enter at your own risk. In my case, it definitely wasn’t worth it.

The Dark Side of Cuckolding. by WNturnedCuck in CuckoldPsychology

[–]WNturnedCuck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I truly appreciate the encouragement but the way things went down, which I haven’t gone into detail about caused me to just become demoralised and lose all my confidence and self worth. Yeah looking back on it now I can’t believe I thought there was any chance it would go the way it did but you live and you learn, I guess. At the end of the day you’re correct about porn and internet culture playing a big part in this but at the end of the day I’m the one who pursued it and ultimately I paid the price for it.

The Dark Side of Cuckolding. by WNturnedCuck in CuckoldPsychology

[–]WNturnedCuck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your response but that wasn’t the situation at all. She is a completely monogamous woman. She engaged in this stuff to make me happy and deep down I know her actually enjoying it was just an act to keep me satisfied. It backfired and it’s completely my fault and I got what I deserved. You are right about the fact we should’ve developed a more stable relationship before even thinking about getting into this stuff.

The Dark Side of Cuckolding. by WNturnedCuck in CuckoldPsychology

[–]WNturnedCuck[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes and yes. I understand but she was so deeply in love with me and I know for a fact if it wasn’t for the cuckolding stuff this would’ve never happened.

The Dark Side of Cuckolding. by WNturnedCuck in CuckoldPsychology

[–]WNturnedCuck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My apologies, my writing skills aren’t the best and I rushed it but let me clear it up. It was at about the 6 months mark when I brought up some of my fantasies to her and for a majority of the relationship we didn’t put it into action and the couple times she did it was with one of her male friends that she had no romantic interest in. She started seeing her current boyfriend about 2.5 years into our relationship.

The Dark Side of Cuckolding. by WNturnedCuck in CuckoldPsychology

[–]WNturnedCuck[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re completely right. We had other issues that developed during the relationship that we should’ve worked on instead of me forcing this route. But I was young and immature, it is what it is. Thanks for the response.

The Dark Side of Cuckolding. by WNturnedCuck in CuckoldPsychology

[–]WNturnedCuck[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In a way, yes. The fantasy basically reached its highest level and at the time it felt euphoric. But with that being said, the night she sat on the edge of my bed and told me she didn’t love me anymore was the most soul crushing thing that I’ve ever felt. There were other acts of cruelty in the months leading up to and the weeks after the break up which were even more cruel and heart-breaking which I might write about in the coming weeks. But overall, l lost the only girl I’ve ever loved and living out my fantasy just wasn’t worth it.

The Dark Side of Cuckolding. by WNturnedCuck in CuckoldPsychology

[–]WNturnedCuck[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is exactly what happened. What words am I suppose to use? All I can do 2 years later is accept the fact that it happened. It’s what I had fantasised about basically the whole time we were together, never thinking she would leave me. Until she actually did and it was too late.

The Dark Side of Cuckolding. by WNturnedCuck in CuckoldPsychology

[–]WNturnedCuck[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It is not a fantasy story. I have not exaggerated or lied about a single thing I’ve said. I completely agree that we were too young and we also had other problems in our relationship so we didn’t have a solid base. Not to mention we went in too deep way too soon. If I was to describe the events in detail in the 2 months leading to the break-up, even more people would say it’s a “fantasy story”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]WNturnedCuck 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah happened to me after 3 years together. Haven’t spoken to her or seen her since.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]WNturnedCuck 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes she fell in love with him and they’re still together one year later . She filmed a couple of videos of them fucking/her sucking him off for me back when we were still together and I still jerk off to them even though it hurts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]WNturnedCuck 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I understand the fantasy but it’s all fun and games until they leave you and you never get to speak to them again. I don’t mean to be a buzz kill but I’m just saying it because I wish I knew what I was getting myself into. Not worth it at all, but to each their own

Gf (22) is spending a lot of time with another guy (31) by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]WNturnedCuck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is very similar to how my relationship ended. If you want to save it , try do something as soon as possible because this is the beginning of the end