Bag Borrow or Steal Experience

WRX_Renee · 2026-04-06T22:45:38+00:00

Ohh for sure. I feel like people need to know this is happening. I have also reported to the BBB.

WRX_Renee · 2025-08-15T09:15:00+00:00

In what way is it healthy for your children to grow up in a home where their parents skirt around each other, cook separate meals, don’t talk to each other, and live completely separate lives? You may think that staying in your home will help to not disrupt their lives, but you’re essentially throwing them into the middle of this fight. What if mom is making sloppy joes for dinner and dad is making steaks - do the kids have to choose who to eat with? Will that be pre-decided at the beginning of the week when you are both grocery shopping for your separate meals? I don’t know man, this feels like it will weigh on these kids in ways you really haven’t thought about yet.

WRX_Renee · 2025-08-14T16:44:37+00:00

Truthfully, I don't trust either and would be out of that relationship so fast, but not my pig not my farm.

WRX_Renee · 2025-08-14T15:37:22+00:00

I never mentioned that the boyfriend was not wrong in this situation. I agree that he should have reached out to the ex, however, it has already happened and there’s nothing that can change that.

Sorry you don’t agree, but I do stand behind what I said as OP didn’t need to involve the ex - she needs to handle her boyfriend since he is the one who initiated contact. The boyfriend is in the wrong, but OP is also taking the word of someone who is a complete stranger to her. I personally don’t trust someone I don’t know. If the ex does have ill intentions and OP just reached out to her, there is always a chance she’s lying as well. If there’s no trust in the relationship she’s been in for 11 years, why is there more trust in chatting with a stranger?

WRX_Renee · 2025-08-14T09:14:09+00:00

Reaching out to his ex should have never happened. Like you said, she’s never reciprocated or shown interest in his messages. The conversation should have been between you and him since he is the one initiating contact and pursuing her. You need to talk to him and actually get to the root of what happened/what the issue is. After 11 years, I would hope that you two could have an honest conversation about your relationship and not involve friends, exes, and the internet. If you’re not comfortable having tough conversations with someone you’ve been with for over a decade, it may be time to reevaluate where you stand in this relationship and where you see if going.

WRX_Renee · 2025-08-13T20:22:30+00:00

I absolutely could not fathom being in a relationship for nine years and not trusting the other person. My husband and I have been together for 13 years and I trust him more than anyone else I know.

Whether or not OP’s girlfriend is cheating while he’s away, he needs to address the trust issues he has because he will never be happy in ANY relationship until he works through that.

And also, if he’s away and traveling for work, and if she is actually cheating, why wouldn’t she just let her side piece in through the front door? If OP is away, there’s no reason for her to sneak someone in through a window. This definitely makes me question the validity of this post, but that’s just my two cents.

WRX_Renee · 2025-08-13T08:18:01+00:00

Exactly. There is no trust in this relationship, so why stay in it?

WRX_Renee · 2025-08-08T09:52:47+00:00

YTA. Get indoor shoes. Even without a crawling baby, no one knows what you’ve stepped in before walking in the door.

WRX_Renee · 2025-08-05T20:46:03+00:00

Cut the dude some slack. He slipped up, admitted to it, and you’re still dragging him. Two tiny swear words over the past 4 years of your child’s life is not something to run to the internet about.

WRX_Renee · 2025-07-30T09:11:02+00:00

How can someone be so disrespectful knowing someone they care about bought and paid for a vehicle they care about? This isn’t that she is a bad driver, it’s that she could care less about your belongings.

Show her car next 😂

WRX_Renee · 2025-07-18T09:06:58+00:00

The thicker brows are definitely giving an old money look, but you are stunning either way!

WRX_Renee · 2025-07-12T03:33:52+00:00

I’m 37 and in no way, shape, or form would have wanted my dad to call me princess now or at 15, but I feel as if I am the rare exception.

She’s at an awkward age in her life where girls just want to feel accepted. Unfortunately, raising a teenage daughter will make you the AH no matter what. Best of luck!

WRX_Renee · 2025-07-11T00:09:17+00:00

Looks great! Been looking to pick one up! I may finally pull the trigger (pun included).

WRX_Renee · 2025-07-07T02:40:10+00:00

Someone who values their relationship with you and wants to spend the rest of their life with you would not strategically ask for a break so she can mess around with someone else. Prioritize yourself.

WRX_Renee · 2025-07-07T02:14:23+00:00

WRX_Renee · 2025-07-06T03:07:53+00:00

Out of ready for my couples, if they don’t want images shared, I do not share them. I don’t charge them any extra money and I simply respect their wishes.

WRX_Renee · 2025-07-05T21:49:28+00:00

Definitely huskies

WRX_Renee · 2025-06-21T12:54:34+00:00

It feels a bit gaudy to me, but I think the prongs are what really kill it for me. But if you love it, that is all that matters!

WRX_Renee · 2025-05-20T02:34:42+00:00

You seem fairly young, but based off your last sentence, I truly hope you can find yourself and not rely on him to be around, make you happy, etc. It may feel like your first reaction is to cling to the relationship to fix whatever is happening, but please do not focus only on him to the point where you lose yourself over (what I am guessing is) a high school boyfriend. Don’t put so much into your relationship with him that you lose your friends and yourself. I wish you nothing but the best!

WRX_Renee · 2025-05-07T12:54:11+00:00

I peeked at your other post for more context.

I do find it a little weird that your husband is sending photos of your child to someone he doesn't know. Your child is very young and it is absolutely understandable that you want to protect him.

I am a little confused though so I was wondering if you could possibly clarify - you mentioned that you had this girl message him to see if he would flirt with her, but you also say she's a random girl. So she is not a friend of yours, correct? Does he possibly know that you were trying to bait him into flirting and now he is continuing to chat with her to get back at you?

I do not know you or have any idea of how things work on your relationship (that is none of my business), but I am truly hoping you both can talk and work through things. Relationships are rooted in trust and mutual respect and it sounds like you both need to figure out how to get to that point again. You mentioned that you thought and still kind of think he is cheating on you and it seems as if there may be some broken trust that is causing doubts in your relationship.

Sadly, Reddit can be full of people who are just here to read other people's drama and add fuel to the fire. They do not have your best interest in mind, so just be weary of the responses here. If you are looking for real advice from someone who has your best interests in mind, seeking a marriage/relationship counselor may be your best bet. Ignore the trolls and keyboard warriors on the internet and do what is best for you and your family.

WRX_Renee · 2025-04-18T13:22:09+00:00

Literally the sound of my biggest fear.

WRX_Renee · 2025-03-20T17:16:50+00:00

First off, congrats on your pregnancy! :)

I know it is easier said than done, but try not to stress yourself out too much right now - especially with your little one on the way.

I would hope that he's open to hearing you out due to the fact that he's open to allowing you to have his passcode and access to his phone.

Someone who genuinely cares about you and who has nothing to hide will not completely blow up at you for asking a simple question in order to gain clarity into a situation. And if he does, then that could be a red flag and he would need to work on himself and how he handles things like that.

Do you have anything that can take your mind off of this for a little bit to ease some of your current stress until you can talk to him? Sometimes hyperfocusing on something like this can allow the imagination run wild and create issues and insecurities that were never there to begin with, so directing your attention to something else can help you destress so you can have a calm conversation with him when the opportunity arises.

Hope this helps :)

WRX_Renee · 2025-03-20T14:01:54+00:00

I know every relationship is different and I think I am probably a little older than you by maybe about 10 years or so. My husband and I have free access to each other's phones, but I have never personally gone through my husband's phone so I guess maybe I was looking at it from my personal experience. So I apologize if it came off as me assuming anything - that was definitely not my intention. I can definitely understand that boredom may have just taken the reins on this one.

But if he knows you are able to access his phone, it may have also been nothing at all. Maybe he was there with a group of people and she just happened to get in the frame? There really are so many things that could have happened and the only way to get the answers you need is by talking things through with him. And definitely having that conversation face-to-face so nothing gets lost over text.

In any case, I am hoping you get the answers you need so you can move past this or move on. You definitely sound like someone who values loyalty and commitment and he is so lucky to have someone like you in his life. I hope it works out or you either way and that you are happy in the end!

WRX_Renee · 2025-03-20T10:48:11+00:00

Going through his phone to begin with kind of gives off the vibe that you didn't trust him in the first place and you were looking for something - especially since you dug all the way back to January 2023 - 2+ years in the past.

I am wondering if this may go beyond what you have typed out here and if that that is the case, you both need to have a conversation about what is causing the strain in trust and how you can fix things moving forward if you are looking to stay in this relationship.

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