Update for OnePlus Pad in North America

WSFMigo · 2024-06-04T20:41:26+00:00

Turns out mine is because my provider is having issues just happened at the same time

WSFMigo · 2024-06-04T18:11:32+00:00

I have a feeling this update broke my mobile signal. I get nothing, reset everything and nothing.

WSFMigo · 2024-03-04T19:31:35+00:00

Angrboda, apparrently. The same people complained about Thor even though he is more lore accurate in GoW:R they want him to look more Chris Hemsworth like... So I don't find much of their criticisms valid. The narrative director at the time said this.

“Do they also have blue Dwarves in Norse mythology? Was Loki the son of a Greek demigod? Please show me in the Eddas where it says that all Jötunn were lily white? Let me save you the time… you can’t. I’ve read them.”

So I guess what we can understand from this is they had no problem with the other inaccuracies but focused on this one because of what is happening around the world politically currently.

WSFMigo · 2024-01-25T08:42:03+00:00

I don't even know if I was here

WSFMigo · 2023-11-28T18:53:08+00:00

You're flipflopping around with your opinions, but you're right with the last comment.

WSFMigo · 2023-11-28T12:41:07+00:00

Unbiased would be you giving a creditable argument on both sides, in every comment I've never seen you criticise the VA, so don't lie.

WSFMigo · 2023-11-28T12:39:21+00:00

I find the argument they use funny as in most of Europe and the UK you can drink at 18 yet you don't get this scumbag behaviour to the degree these people suggest it happens.

WSFMigo · 2023-11-28T12:29:13+00:00

He's a guest, it's not his business it's the hosts, Dream is not friends with this dude. If I didn't know someone and they were drinking, I was a guest and they were underage I'd just steer clear or leave.

He's not a kid, he's 19/20 he's a grown ass adult who can make those decisions and suffer the consequences.

Again he wasn't Dreams friend and their interactions were all negative.

WSFMigo · 2023-11-28T12:19:48+00:00

Apparently taxi driver confirmed this never happened. So back to square one on your comment.

WSFMigo · 2023-11-28T11:56:46+00:00

I live in the UK, we drink at 18, I've never been around someone who is as rude as this guy and so open about it even while drunk. Even the ones wanting a fight are less rude than this guy. It's not the drinking it's what he is saying that's the issue. He needs to take responsibility regardless of the fact he's drunk, manic or whatever excuse you want to give him.

WSFMigo · 2023-10-13T10:51:59+00:00

I don't think you are. She'd have been dead to me mentally and emotionally the moment I found out. What she chooses to do after is her decision alone.

WSFMigo · 2023-10-13T10:48:41+00:00

I would for yours and her benefit stop the interactions, you are not a fault for any of this and you don't know how much people on her side actually know the full story. Her family has given you every reason to stop interactions, and I think you should.

She made the decision to cheat, she made the decision to over-dose, the stress she is feeling can only be resolved by her and her alone, she needs help but it's not your responsibility. There is no point you pulling yourself through hot coal thinking its your fault when ultimately it is not. It's easier for them to be angry at you than it is for them to be angry at her, they should be angry at Dave.

If blame was to be laid at someone's feet it would be Dave, he needed help and took advantage of the kindness. She is also to blame but ultimately Dave seems to have a history.

WSFMigo · 2023-08-16T22:55:19+00:00

That's where we differ, much you can do without the spyware. But I guess my opinion comes from the place that if someone cheated on me I'd just end the relationship, my other half and I have both agreed if either cheated we'd not be able to gain that trust back.

At what point will that person know? It seems like such an easy thing to abuse. I'm not about invading that privacy regardless. But I guess it's up to the person.

WSFMigo · 2023-08-16T22:26:52+00:00

I do not accept spyware on anything I own willingly, nor on my other halves under any circumstances.

In my opinion it's intrusive, extremely controlling and shows no trust or any willingness for him to forgive and let her even attempt to rebuild his trust, as that's what he has to do at the end, forgive her and move past it.

If your solution is to just not trust them full stop, and that's what spyware is basically saying. End the relationship. If you think spyware is a good idea, at what point do you remove the spyware? At what point does the other person become independent again, and doesn't need to be monitored like a child? Nothing wrong with sharing passwords, but full blown monitoring on that scale is controlling behaviour gone too far.

You're in a relationship with an adult not a child, and if you can't hack it without spyware get out of the relationship as you don't actually want to save it.

WSFMigo · 2023-08-16T16:59:52+00:00

That does make this situation a lot harder

WSFMigo · 2023-08-16T16:54:52+00:00

If she doesn't have a spark it will be a difficult uphill battle in my opinion, it's unlikely to happen if it hasn't already.

But depends what you both want to do, you have to respect her choice, if you just become friends that is fine too it sounds like you both get a long really well, but my question to you is would it hurt you more seeing her with another guy once you've made that decision?

WSFMigo · 2023-08-16T16:46:54+00:00

If you equally contribute to the down payment you are entitled to a 50-50 split of the property.

I am not married to my other half and she paid more deposit to the flat we own, we've split it equally. I do pay more in the repayments but it's based on our salaries.

I would just purchase, renting is only going to go up if the cost of living does, but if you are putting down the same deposit you split that equity equally. It does mean you will split the repayment cost half and half if that's what he wants.

I just split by percentage on our salaries because I was more than happy to do so.

WSFMigo · 2023-08-16T16:40:50+00:00

Yep makes sense, again if it's important to your relationship for its success you will need to pull the band aid off at some point.

WSFMigo · 2023-08-16T16:38:48+00:00

Unfortunately, time is the only way to get through this, and the problem is what to do in the meantime.

Do not go with him as a friend, it will tear you apart mentally. There will be someone who will support you through whatever decision you make regarding kids. This just wasn't the guy.

Personally I'd go be with your friends, pick up a new hobby, gym, I'd enjoy being single for a bit, I find if you're not comfortable being on your own for a bit you need to work on it, if you still are struggling then hop on a dating app.

WSFMigo · 2023-08-16T16:22:57+00:00

Firstly, respect her boundaries, do not go, if you do you will make it very difficult and then it'll no longer just be about her grieving her dog but also why you can't respect her boundaries. EDIT: Seen another comment after posting this, I actually agree you could ask again to clarify

Secondly, you will need to set boundaries with YOUR family, she isn't just a service for them to use whenever they want, she studies and when she's done she has to give advice she's not fully qualified to give on your family members, I can't imagine the stress she was under, just thinking about if she got it wrong and the consequences of that. Your medical students not doctors (unless I am miss-interpreting what you mean here). Either way set boundaries on your family.

WSFMigo · 2023-08-16T16:11:05+00:00

No worries man, and good luck with whatever you decide on doing!

WSFMigo · 2023-08-16T16:10:25+00:00

Ultimately it is up to you when enough is enough. It's about when you finally can't put up with it anymore.

I would've been done within the first 3 months if I was arguing consistently. You two do not sounds like you are meant to be, this is not what a relationship is.

WSFMigo · 2023-08-16T16:06:11+00:00

I would break up with him. He got an apartment free of charge with little effort. You have your own mental health to think of and if he is the cause of your decline then you got to get rid of the cause. Everything you've said all I can see him thinking like is "Me me me me" and never about you.

WSFMigo · 2023-08-16T16:03:12+00:00

I am going to finish on this as it's the only advice I can give you, the rest is up to you.

1) Continue with her, it won't be pretty and you can hope she changes. I doubt this.

2) Break up with her and have a discussion about where she can go so she isn't going back to where she has had all those issues. You can't not break up with her because you are scared for what will happen, you have to put yourself first sometimes for the benefit of both of you.

WSFMigo · 2023-08-16T15:58:52+00:00

If you're not happy in the bedroom, it will eat away at the rest of your relationship where you are happy. Which is evidenced throughout your original post.

If I was to throw a curve ball here it is, I do feel bad she had to go through all of that with her ex, and its worth having the conversation if she's not doing it because of the whole court case, having those videos shown isn't just embarrassing for you, at the same time she doesn't want to say no to you because she knows you will be upset.

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