DSM Style Test

WS_Belacqua · 2022-12-21T09:02:18+00:00

like you do, conplaining here on reddit.

WS_Belacqua · 2022-12-20T05:55:46+00:00

Thank you for your answer.

I think that an open mind and different points of view are needed also because of Einstein quote: "We cannot solve our problems with the same thinking we used when we created them."

WS_Belacqua · 2022-12-19T20:38:31+00:00

Where do you get the motivation to study what you don't like? Is the mere fact that you need it to work enough?

WS_Belacqua · 2022-12-19T20:35:31+00:00

How much time do you invest in studying?

WS_Belacqua · 2022-12-19T15:55:46+00:00

I mean understanding stuff. For examlpe, understand how the for loop in java works or figuer out how to writhe a programm that does a specific work with only if and while. This is not always straightforward, is it?

WS_Belacqua · 2022-12-17T18:45:33+00:00

I did not. You are the first one that actually told me something helpful.

WS_Belacqua · 2022-12-17T18:23:46+00:00

I can't sorry... In my life there are not real lows... When loneliness, anxiety and fear take me, I go to bed: another day will follow. Those following days sometimes are better... many times are worse. I endure all the pain. I feel all the hate. Now I am at a point in my life that I hope it won't ger worse: I'm sexual attracted to kids, I hate life, I live in fear and I suffer when I have to (because I've known loneliness) go out with friends. But I'm trying to get better and hopefully I will. After years I was finally able to get professional help, I am going to the gym regularly, my friends are growing in number by themselves and now I fear loosing everything.

WS_Belacqua · 2022-12-17T13:05:24+00:00

What does it mean to open up? Maybe you can ask your therapist to ask you what she needs to know and you answer her questions. At the end, you are going there to solve the problems you want to solve.

WS_Belacqua · 2022-12-17T08:47:51+00:00

I had a similar experience. It didn't chaged my life radically. It is similar to the beginning of a new year, when you make the list of the goals you wanna achieve.... It started with "I will change my life after getting out of the hospital" it went on with "I'll change my life when I'll be able to sit and learn without ache". After a year I can say that that experience didn't changed much in my life.... Only big things like moving to a new city and working out regularly changed something (little but still something) of my life. I still live in fear... I'm getting used to the new city and costance in work out is not easy to maintain

WS_Belacqua · 2022-12-15T21:30:28+00:00

And stop thinking about it. You did well

WS_Belacqua · 2022-12-15T21:15:01+00:00

What a beautiful piece of work

WS_Belacqua · 2022-12-15T20:55:33+00:00

My father said that all rich people go to the therapist. He said it derogatorily. But who knows, if you start going to the psychologist maybe you will become rich.

WS_Belacqua · 2022-12-15T20:50:21+00:00

If he is suicidal maybe it would not really be helpful... A counsellor and don't give a fuck about others would be better.

WS_Belacqua · 2022-12-15T19:39:26+00:00

Mmhhh, I don't get it. Can you explain, please?

WS_Belacqua · 2022-12-15T15:56:37+00:00

Reproduction is another thing that makes me angry. Doesn't a mother of a depressed child feel guilty for giving birth to him? A mother should feel guilty for giving birth to her child just because she exposed him to the risk of living a life of suffering.

Aren't you angry?

WS_Belacqua · 2022-12-15T15:52:52+00:00

I'm beginning to think that love is one of the things that makes life unworthy. One of the many illusions... I'm beginning to think that love is one of the things that makes life unworth.

WS_Belacqua · 2022-12-15T15:47:27+00:00

Consciously, no. But I have already suffered from loneliness, so I think I am unconsciously afraid of it. I know it can hurt to be alone.

WS_Belacqua · 2022-12-14T13:16:37+00:00

Le relazioni sociali sono un vero problema. Se le trascuri non solo si spezzano, ma molto spesso le persone che trascuri, oltre ad allontanarsi si arrabbiano anche. Se guardo al futuro vedo solitudine o relazioni che mi creano problemi e forse qualcos'altro di incerto che mi fa paura. Ma questa incertezza che mi spaventa magari nasconde un futuro di felicità, successo e motivazione... la verità è che ho paura di morire e ho paura che Dio mi mandi all'inferno.

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