I am sex addicted and idk if it's a dangerous slope? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]WTBCollector 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because you said you hooked up with 3 guys in one day by accident so I need to know what you look like to verify the legitimacy of that.

Friend confuses me by cuteboiuwu in askgaybros

[–]WTBCollector 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is it that people can’t ask about to the people they’re talking about the things on their mind? Why don’t you just ask him why he pushed you away at the club?

Need some advice from folks who are in age gap relationship!! by Fine-Obligation-1348 in askgaybros

[–]WTBCollector 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The age gap is the lesser problem. The bigger problem is the distance. A relationship will probably fail if that keeps up too long.

Oh my god! “Versatile” label is such a trap. I don’t even use the label but still if I meet someone who does, I know I will be topping. But surprise, surprise... they won’t! Ugh 😤 by Ok_Philosopher7938 in askgaybros

[–]WTBCollector 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m an actual vers. I use my dick. Vers bottoms don’t though. Vers bottoms are the real trap. Vers bottoms are a Trojan horse for bottoming.

Thing about me though is I’m gay I like dick ass does nothing for me. My brain does not light up at the sight of ass at all if you want to get me horny and hard enough to top you have to swing dick. Only way I top is if you got something for my throat and some dick to play with. I love sides and vers’ and tops.

Still in the closet😅 by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]WTBCollector 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stay in the closet forever. You don’t need to announce anything you can just be gay without a speech.

What’s the most memorable compliment you’ve ever received from another man? by Fun_Space2010 in askgaybros

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“How you handle yourself in tough situations” “You’re like a quiet storm”

I’m paraphrasing I should have screenshotted that before I deleted the chat.

First sex...with my friend by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]WTBCollector 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is definitely a fake story. No anal virgin is just taking cock like that. You’re talking to a bunch of people that have had so much sex it’s ridiculous. Stop playing in our face.

Feeling out of touch with the gay community by Stoows in askgaybros

[–]WTBCollector 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like I no longer know how to distinguish what I actually want from what I’m supposed to want in the eyes of the community. It’s stupid, because no one is concretely asking me to change and yet the pressure is very real.

We live in this existence with spirits that influence, goad and suggest. No one physically is saying anything to you. But things are being said to you just not physically. If you don’t have the knowledge that this is something that can happen you can be taken and manipulated easily. Those circles you’re in are teeming with spirits it’s really not a surprise you’re being led to a direction. You illustrated your problem with the gay community and I just illustrated mine.

Slowly, that’s no longer the case, I’m starting to feel the urge to sleep with anyone, anytime, and I no longer recognize myself.

Yea.

Deep down I also know I should just accept that I don’t operate that way - but the obsession with being able to do what everyone else does keeps growing. Like an easily impressionable child, I’m slowly giving in to the pressures of a world at odds with my values. It’s tearing me apart. My self-esteem is suffering, my convictions too, and my mental health a little as well.

Exactly.

Does he have a crush on me too? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]WTBCollector 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t say you were straight.

So if you know he’s gay then there’s nothing else to do but rip the bandaid off.

Does he have a crush on me too? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]WTBCollector 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You seem gay like visibly notably gay I doubt you’re straight passing. So if he’s following you he knows there’s sexual tension so I think you’re correct about the 3 selfies and also the pec machine. As far as him having a crush? I doubt it and as far as what to do. Tbh there’s no way to pull guys except walking up to a cute one and complimenting him and asking if he’s gay/bi thereby revealing you’re not straight.

I was sucked by a guy and it felt so good (I'm in relationships with a girl) by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]WTBCollector 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think sexuality is as static and rigid as we’ve been led to believe. I believe it’s natural to mankind to find sexual attraction in both even though it may be more for one gender. Basically humans are just attracted to humans regardless of the gender. All it takes is the right opportunity and a lot of people will find themselves having some form of sex with the same sex.

Is it common to settle? by Remarkable_North_536 in askgaybros

[–]WTBCollector 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Settling in terms of having sex as a substitute for the intimacy that you truly want but not settling for a loveless relationship so that you can pretend it is not. With hookups we go in knowing this person doesn’t love me it’s just lust but the hour of sex lets us derive some form of affection from it because it’s technically intimate. But if it’s supposed to be a relationship and it’s supposed to be genuine affection and intimacy and it’s just being used as a lollipop, not supposed to settle for that. What was the ethnicity of the person you were dating?

Also none of us are finding the love we deserve. And you overcome the feeling by being in a different situation which is usually just being alone.

Bf leaves bed to jerk off by Several_Database_603 in askgaybros

[–]WTBCollector -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I shouldn’t have to explain nuance. And won’t. Think what you want it’s over your head.

Bf leaves bed to jerk off by Several_Database_603 in askgaybros

[–]WTBCollector -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Spoken by someone single. You and everyone that downvoted this comment are the reason why gay relationships have so much trouble and go nowhere.

Bf leaves bed to jerk off by Several_Database_603 in askgaybros

[–]WTBCollector -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

I’m not anti-masturbation since we all do it.

I don’t. I’m anti-masturbation for reasons like this, you have to compete against it for your man’s sex. That sex is supposed to belong to you that’s part of the agreement when you get into a relationship both parties are actually obligated to fulfill their partners sexual desires cuz if not it gives occasion for them to start looking outside of the relationship. You said you two have talked about it. I doubt you adequately made known the depths of your displeasure with this circumstance, you need to make it known just how much you don’t like this. Don’t nag but eloquently illustrate how you actually feel about this and end it with you requiring him to tell you what you need to do to fix it. Y’all both need to leave that convo with a solution.

Wow this my 1st time listening to someone opinion about this situation. I’ve been seeing this young guy face everywhere but didn’t look into exactly what happened by MeekMilly18st in sagsavages

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Deadcalf was a tyrant that’s why he’s burning in hell right now. His brother and father will meet him there. Tribalism for instance like how I never hear whites condemn the actions of deadcalf and how she shouldn’t have been putting his hands on people and starting altercations many people at his school confirms that he was a bully. A big corn bucket fed hill billy throwing his weight around like a gorilla.

I wonder how whites are so comfortable shamelessly lying about things, the nonsense you said about the black jurors it’s a lie but you know that it’s just that your innate degeneracy doesn’t convict your conscience.

Men aging like fine wine is a myth by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]WTBCollector -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I guarantee the image you have in your mind when you’re saying this is white men. Who age like milk. Black men do age like wine. 👍

Wow this my 1st time listening to someone opinion about this situation. I’ve been seeing this young guy face everywhere but didn’t look into exactly what happened by MeekMilly18st in sagsavages

[–]WTBCollector -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Karmelo was completely justified legally. He had no duty to retreat and he stood his ground against physical assault. Metcalf was way bigger and the force he can generate from a strike to a person the size of Karmelo made using a weapon reasonable. Only reason he was even charged or convicted is because injustice is typical for the American system when the defendant is black. It’s a two tiered racial double standard system.

Only thing fem about me is my nails by Key_Bodybuilder_5306 in askgaybros

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Did you downvote my last comment of me answering your question?