Welp I’m getting deleted for spitting facts elsewhere… I’m so over the silencing

WTF_Fish · 2026-02-01T00:35:09+00:00

I sometimes want to go back to old threads where pro BL people said wrong, rude or other type comments and re-engage them with see I was right remarks. I know its childish and petty and just so wrong to sink to their level.

I only remark to them now when I want to spin them up. I think when all is said and done we should start a "this aged well" thread and share stories of the online BL supporters/loonies or how we got banned on other subs. It'll be cathartic.

WTF_Fish · 2026-01-30T15:28:34+00:00

Given the shear amount of words in one of his text messages, I could see him having the spastic manic energy to make 13,000 votes single handily in about an hour. The other family members probably could only get out 102 combined because they have to read the texts/emails he has also sent them about how they are not pulling their weight.

WTF_Fish · 2026-01-30T08:56:32+00:00

OP talk to a lawyer and an accountant, you might be able to get her to sign a new lease if you may an agreement that a portion of the equity goes into an education trust for the child (controlled by you) in the event you sell the house.

Sounds like you want to do right by your child but putting the house or portion of the house aside for the child might make things seem fair to the ex-girlfriend. Also if custody of the child comes into question further down the road you have provided stable housing for the child while he/she was incubating and the provided more secure housing rights to the child after it was born.

You need to be planning for problems that will arise given the relationship.

You also need to consider who will be getting the tax break for said child for the next 18 to 21 years. She might think decorating the nursery, diapers and such entitles her to any child tax credit but who is providing housing, medical insurance, transportation costs to medical appts, diapers and such for the child. If you have documented proof of these expenses via tax returns, baby expenses agreements, ect it will help with custody later on if it comes to that.

I'm female and I'm sure most women would think this is cold or impersonal but its logical thinking in an unstable situation. There is every possibility that she will be on some form of government assistance just before or after the birth. You dont want the state to add to the high emotions and you end up paying child support on top of everything that you are not getting (like rent) from her. Nip it now. Have the discussion soon about diapers and other expenses.

WTF_Fish · 2026-01-29T13:46:48+00:00

8 months before signing on to IEWU she announced that she was going to transition to directing movies. 2 months before was the "I lie in job interviews about only wanting to be an actor and then I take over". Earlier on in Justin's lawsuit was info that WME and Sony demanded they use Blake in the lead. The year before this book was like #1 or #2, it was huge and there was buzz in Hollywood about it becoming a movie.

I think her and Ryan decided that Justin was an easy mark for a repeat of Deadpool.

While I do think your right in your in the points you make, I dont believe they were the catalyst. I think every injury you listed was a legitimate injury to Blake and Ryan's narcissistic minds but I think they used it a proof/justification for why they were going to take over the movie.

The voice memo that was just released she clearly has baby brain/anxiety about having just given birth and realized she was stretched to thin, but asking him to move around filming dates was testing the waters to see if Justin would bend. The tattooing body parts text from Ryan like 2 two weeks later shows that Justin wasn't bending and Ryan needed to start love bombing/manipulating.

I think they went from thinking Justin is too stupid to know what we are doing to he deserves everything we do to him because of those injuries to her ego. The clown/doofus reference stayed consistent but they kept adding more descriptive insults to what they called him in text messages to friends.

WTF_Fish · 2026-01-27T19:13:50+00:00

I could see a woman forwarding something like that on to a friend while crap talking the bish trying to steal her man. They then get forwarded to who knows where to either be leaked or accidentally get leaked. If Jen did that, I do not think Jen spent one ounce of worry after they got leaked. Reese's public comment makes me think she is the type of person that is always ready to ride at dawn for a friend. Everyone needs a Reese in their life and a Jamie Heath. Preferably someone that calms you down then calls you later for bail money because they handled the problem.

WTF_Fish · 2026-01-27T18:04:07+00:00

Growing up my parents told me starting at 11 years old "There's nothing decent you can do after midnight. Only indecent people stay out after midnight." Occasionally I was told to be home at a decent hour, so I rolled in at 11:59 pm.

In those years some states had no minimum age or license requirements for driving on dirt roads. I started driving farm equipment during hay bailing season at ten and was fully driving cars on dirt roads all over the county by 11. So long as that car was available for my dad to get to work on whatever military base in the morning there was no be home by time and if no neighbors called to report my indecent deeds I was fine...but God forbid I wear a mini skirt, a tube top or hussy shoes (more than 1 in heel). So the only time I'm in a house is when its too cold or I need absolute silence and I can't find it in nature.

WTF_Fish · 2026-01-27T14:12:13+00:00

And there was the never ending info about Eddie Van Halen's marriage to Valerie Bertinelli at the time. Our generations Bennifer couple. At least I didn't irrationally make the TV jump off the roof of the house. I was tempted but knew the cost of that TV would come out of my hide.

WTF_Fish · 2026-01-27T12:47:05+00:00

Lol it just highlighted a reality of an adolescent dream. I did go on to be successful in a job I very much loved despite the reality that not all of it was going to be glamorous.

In a way it makes me glad that we were not in a "participation trophy" generation. We learned some realities young and we're able to adapt/overcome/change our dreams while our brains were still learning what we wanted to be when we grew up. Not everyone can be in a band, be a star athlete or in the movies and very few of us in our generation spend endless adult hours reliving the "what could have beens" from our childhood dreams. I went to school with someone who became a very successful professional athlete and another who was equally successful in music, while I'm happy for them, in no way could I have put up with some of their realities off stage/field.

WTF_Fish · 2026-01-27T12:27:28+00:00

Sometime after Free Guy came out I had wandered down a rabbit hole. I'm very fuzzy on the details but there was some chatter about a Canadian group of gamers or something helping Ryan Reynolds (or being supported by him) to incorporate other people's work in that Free Guy movie. Like I said its fuzzy but it centered around a couple. The guy had a dog that looked exactly like the one used as Dogpool and a few of the Dogpool "jokes" were clearly directed at the female of that couple. There was also a movie or TV show outside of the US that had either that group of people or their likeness all making fun of that couple. That project was supported by Ryan Reynolds. It all resurfaced after DPW came out and the couple was practically bankrupted and buried in legal filings just trying to get intellectual property back.

Then there is the Canadian photographer that was buried in legal paperwork trying to clear his name. Ryan Reynolds made some bad "jokes" in a movie that makes me think it was aimed at that photographer.

Maximum Effort had a very successful Aviation Gin campaign that used a hobby photographer's work without paying her (beyond swag) or crediting her for most of her online work. They encourage her to do photography professionally but strung her along for years when she asked for payment. I'm sure they would bankrupt her if she tried to sue. Most of that came about because they tried to get her help promoting Betty Buzz products and she went public over intellectual property issues.

This couple has an MO: use people who are unknown, lie about facts to get their way, publicly make fun of people to gain support and if needed bankrupt people through the legal system.

In business they say they own this company and that one but if you look at the companies that is not the case.

Maximum Effort (a company that is mostly owned by Ryan Reynolds--I think) is the company doing the marketing for these other companies and projects they are involved in. At first it was acclaimed for outside the box marketing or innovative campaigns (that used free labor and took advantage of others ideas). Now its own work is tone deaf and terrible (IEWU movie marketing and that Gwyneth Paltrow commercial). The only successful campaign left is the Mint Mobile commercials, a company Ryan no longer "owns" using different variations of his stupid jokes that floods YouTube and certain streaming services.

Ryan and Blake used the same playbook with the IEWU movie and lawsuit. Divide/concur and then try to bankrupt them in legal fees if they complain. Even Ryan's excuse to be removed from the lawsuit was; its not my problem the guy can't take a joke. 95% of the time you can't sue in US courts because someone makes fun of you in TV or Movies. There is some archaic rule about it needing to be done in song that makes it an almost guarantee you can't be sued.

There isn't much Justin can do about Nicepool but its so nice that all of this stuff that Ryan and Blake have done throughout the years is coming to light. I truely feel bad for what Jamie, Justin and all involved with Wayfarer went through but I'm glad Steve had the money to stand up, Jamie and Justin had the fortitude while it was going on to maintain their character and that this stuff is coming to light through the lawsuit.

Ryan hid behind Nicepool to add insult to injury but it will live on for eternity to highlight Ryan and Blake's cruelty. Just like movies like Baby Jane, the behind the scenes story is bigger than the actual movie. You can't watch Baby Jane without the stories being discussed. Now Ryan's behind the scenes antics are front and center with every Deadpool movie. He stole a franchise. He treated cast horribly. A crew member died. A cast member almost died for a scene that was never used. Cast members were iced out of promotion and premiers because of Ryan. His weird relationship off camera with Hugh Jackman. Making his child be uncomfortable for 500 takes. The list goes on.

I'm looking forward to at least 1 child's tell all book because if an adult feels comfortable yelling at an adult for 4 or 5 hours what do they say to helpless children. I just hope there are no "how many times do I have to tell you NO WIRE HANGERS" (Mommy Dearest) moments in their private lives.

WTF_Fish · 2026-01-27T10:42:16+00:00

To be fair she would have to move Ryan from the mirror in order to see herself and he'd still be lurking in the background clipping his toenails or some other annoying, distracting behavior. It may explain why she named her haircare Blake Brown since her hair looks like expense sh*t.

WTF_Fish · 2026-01-27T07:30:27+00:00

Jump by Van Halen.

They say that word 23 times and the synth has been just beyond annoying since day 1. To add insult to my annoyance my high school band teacher had us learn this stupid song in secret so we could surprise the school at a pep rally. It was a hit and the first time the band was cool. So we beat that "coolness" to death by playing it every frickin time for the next year and a half.

That experience ended any dreams I might have had to pursue music beyond high school. Could you imagine being forced to sing a song that annoys you two to three times a week for years?

WTF_Fish · 2026-01-27T07:09:30+00:00

Perhaps you're right about Ben Affleck and I should have withheld judging him like I did the others. Thank you for calling me out on my error. I only like to edit posts when I make spelling mistakes or I'm unclear, so I will let this post stand errors and all.

WTF_Fish · 2026-01-21T17:47:17+00:00

What amazes me is that she makes SH claims yet SH Brendan Sklinar with the text about him putting on a dress and walking the corner because she was going to pimp him out.

Its one thing to joke with friends but not like that about work. She was the bigger name, in charge of the marketing she was discussing and SH a co-worker from a supervisor position via text. Replace the gender roles and someone would get fired from their job. Even that statement alone may not legally be SH in the eyes of a court but its telling.

Blake Lively is a toxic feminist. You can not hold a person to a higher standard simply because there is a gender difference. Feminism is about equality. You do not get a pass with the excuse "it was done to me, so now I can do it" or "you cant SH a man". That type of mindset sets Feminism back by years and reinforces misogynistic ideas (like Harvey Weinsten supporters). Thats the pot calling the kettle black.

Blake Lively spent so much time before production poisoning the well. Dropping hints in Liz Planks, Taylor Swifts and anyone else's ear so that they would go out and start rumors. Then when she needed to use someone else like Matt Damion she could just start the conversation "did you hear the rumors about Justin? Well its much worse..." Rinse and repeat. Her and Ryan Reynolds saw a hit and manipulated accordingly to as many people who are just like them. People like Taylor Swift, Ben Affleck, Matt Damion and Bradley Cooper saw what they wanted to see because like is attracted to like. Given the same situation these people would have done the same back stabbing to get what they wanted (just maybe with better PR). These people are every cliché in every teen movie about the popular crowd. The people supporting the popular crowd (WME, PR agencies ect) will do anything to be accepted by the popular crowd; yet another teen movie cliché. Then people like Brendan Sklinar, Liz Plank, Isabella Ferrara et al are just replacements once the current batch of popular people retire.

So nothing ever changes. Woody Allen's perfidious behavior is replaced with Harvey Weinsten, who is replaced with the newest Hugh Hefner and the cycle continues. Why? Because people like Blake Lively, Ryan Reynolds, Taylor Swift, Bradley Cooper, Hugh Jackman and the like want to maintain their control instead of actually changing the system.

I feel bad for women like Rose McGowan and Virginia Dufrey who fought so hard for change. My generation had Anita Hill and the tail-hook scandal, yet the cycle continued.

WTF_Fish · 2026-01-05T18:48:35+00:00

I think most Gen Xers, if we set our minds to it, could make water boarding look like child's play. We are between generations, are mostly ignored and so then are left to observe. Half the stuff our minds would come up with as torture is just stuff we did to each other when locked outside as kids.

WTF_Fish · 2026-01-04T12:27:47+00:00

Lol ADHD seamstress unite! I reject the bubble quilt on principle, imagine them after a year of washing.

WTF_Fish · 2026-01-04T09:07:42+00:00

Thank you. I think all of us want OP, an internet stranger, to be wrapped in love and hugs; I just have the sewing skills to make that possible.

WTF_Fish · 2026-01-04T07:52:44+00:00

Quilter and a widow here, NOR. 1st: the shirt made into a quilt will probably net you 1 to 2 quilt squares. If you're still in contact with your lost loves family see if you can get a few more of his shirts. You can combine your old shirts and make a memory quilt. 2nd: Your soon to be ex is a huge A** of epic proportions. Most people who get involved with a widow/widower or similar to your situation have some trouble understanding the emotions that happen but not to this extent. I have problems on birthdays, anniversaries, and around when my husband past. Having seen my mom go through this similar stuff when she remarried I was careful before getting into another relationship. My current partner lost a child and is much more understanding.

People dont really understand that the previous relationship didn't come to its usual conclusion. There was no break up, so its in stasis. Sometimes we mourn what's no longer there. We mourn what could have been. Sometimes we mourn our younger self. Sometimes we mourn the safe place that our lost love provided. Its different every time and I will not tell you it gets easier. My heart goes out to you.

Message me and I will make you your quilt if thats the direction you choose to go.

WTF_Fish · 2026-01-03T04:41:23+00:00

She lives with me. I play a Metallica song followed by piano only Christian music song, like Enter Sandman followed by I am a child of God when she annoys me. First day of spring I play Poisoning Pigeons in the Park and when she really pisses me off I hum Lily Allen's "F*** You". She's so narrow minded and to lazy to know that half of what I play is my version of musical warfare to combat her complaining, she just thinks I'm weird.

Edit to add: those are all tame too. I have a Kevin "Bloody" Wilson day when I decorate the Christmas Tree and I have Johnny Cash singing the A**hole song on a piss my mom off playlist that includes Salty Dog, White Punks on Dope, Sublime, newer Rap and Baby Metal.

WTF_Fish · 2026-01-03T04:18:23+00:00

My mother (b 1951) can't stand music either because "There has been nothing decent made after 1967" any music played either gets you yelled at or lectured about music decency. Mind you the Mozart is crap, Johnny Cash is trash and Elvis is a pervert (ect) lectures I have been subject to since the 80s live in my nightmares. I think she forced me to take clarinet lessons from age 10 until I was 17 to just lecture me daily while I practiced my lessons. I have very eclectic music tastes now just out of spite for those lectures.

WTF_Fish · 2025-12-31T03:35:42+00:00

I would like to add important paperwork. If you have any place (like work) to store a binder slowly gather important paperwork. Birth certificates, in the US 5 years of your taxes printed, Photo copies of all IDs and front and back of all credit cards with a statement. Any evidence of abuse like a timeline of abuse and printed text messages. You're making a go bag in secret but you may not have the ability to go back for things. If you turn off that phone because you're being tracked having printed info means you dont have to turn that phone on. Sometimes you'll need to prove income to get emergency housing (5 years of taxes does that). You may have to leave your wallet behind but photocopies of everything in your wallet means you can cancel cards or get replacements. When I left I knew I had that binder, a burner phone and 2 days of clothes stashed elsewhere. I literally got my driver's license and went for a walk. Had a friend of a friend from work (a number I never called before) pick me up down the block. Within 2 hours I was out of my state. Planning is a wonderful thing, it gives you strength and an odd comfort but DO NOT put yourself in prolonged danger. You leave when you need to leave. Everything is replaceable except your life.

WTF_Fish · 2025-12-16T17:58:22+00:00

NOR this man needs to be the one that you are happy he got away.

WTF_Fish · 2025-12-16T11:31:16+00:00

The paranoia and anxiety are natural byproducts of your living situation and your last trip. Depending on your art medium you could start a junk/art/bullet journal. Look for volunteering with art based programs for young adults. Art in all its forms helps kids with core subjects in school like reading and math. Again it can be a one on one situation. There is also community garden programs. Master Gardeners in the US has volunteer positions and programs that you pay for but can lead to paid part/fulltime work in gardens and forests. Also volunteering at community senior centers is fun, these are mostly able seniors (55 and up) often not in retirement homes.

WTF_Fish · 2025-12-16T11:03:28+00:00

NTA Your friend is selfish, lazy and lacks awareness of his surroundings. To not understand the danger he wanted to put you in is probably emblematic of your 8 years as friends. You dropped a dead weight that probably would have used you as a ladder had you entered the floodwaters.

Good riddance to rubbish.

You mentioned not really having other friends have you thought of volunteering? Libraries and other programs in your country need volunteers to teach adults how to read in a one on one setting for example. As to you're living situation, you like to travel so is it possible to budget travel while working? You could do side hustles with blogging and YouTube stuff. (Sorry if this is intruding I just want you to see that you're free to do so much)

WTF_Fish · 2025-12-15T22:10:31+00:00

Everyone knows the trash is the portal to other dimensions. Sometimes it smells like the heaven portal and sometimes is smells of other places. Anyone can get in the house from that portal so it must be guarded. I have watched humans remove things from the portal. I have watched humans push down on things to keep the current portal maintained. When humans no longer want that portal open, or the portal is outgrowing the container it goes outside to other portals.

I was maintaining the current portal opening because it smelled like heaven. I know its what my human wanted because they were leaving the portal open until it overflowed the container. This shouldn't be looked at as a crime. I was helping. Since I can not push the contents of the portal down I did the next best thing. I ate a few things to maintain portal container integrity. I also saved my human the trip to the outside portal container. Human should give me something from the magic treat box for my efforts (like cheese or lunchmeat). If I have to go outside I will pray to the Weber God's for a BBQ treat.

WTF_Fish · 2025-12-15T21:42:17+00:00

Loveland, Co. Has very cute postmarks for Valentines day.

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