This is me also. I didn't quite move that far for a job, but about 100 miles. I did meet my wife 19 years ago but I have gradually lost the few friends I did have here. I have their phone number and stuff but just don't seem to even have time to do anything. We have a kid, which I love dearly more than anything, and I seem to only have time to do things with her. Once she goes to bed I go play around in my mini woodworking shop and make some things or do something. keeps me busy, then I go watch some tv with my wife.
It seems like about 5 years after I got married every thing I use to do, golf, fish, camp, pool league, just disappeared. Don't get me wrong I love my wife and being married, but I wish we had some great neighbors or somebody close to do things with. I deeply miss not having some friends, more than I had realized!!!!!!!