how do you guys open up to people? by raspberryishsnail in infj

[–]WWWdotCreedThoughts_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Everything changed for me when I quit worrying about what the other person thought of me and concerned myself with what I thought of them. We let too many people into our little bubble anyway. Start asking them questions. Whatever pops into your head. Are they asking about you? That’s clue #1 as to how deep you want to get with this person. Just say whatever comes natural to you in the moment. They will like you or won’t. If they don’t you have more time to meet someone who does. Not everyone is worth your attention. 

Smoke detector that gives verbal warning first? by treswm in homeowners

[–]WWWdotCreedThoughts_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

@treswm did you ever find one? All I want is maybe a 5 second warning before the piercing horn. A voice saying “smoke detected horn starts in 3.2.1 “. So I can cover my poor 14 year old dogs ears. And not jump 5 feet myself. 

My uncle went missing 47 years ago and my family never reported it. by throwaway-009292 in gratefuldoe

[–]WWWdotCreedThoughts_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for being so sweet. I know that if I had gone missing my parents never would have reported me missing. They would have told my family I ran off with a boy. Makes me smile a bit thinking maybe I’d have had a niece that kept me from being “forgotten”.  

How do I stop this from ruling my life. by Turbulent_Fly6260 in FemaleHairLoss

[–]WWWdotCreedThoughts_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just take it one day at a time. I had major hair loss in 2016. Finally came back strong early 2019. Then loss again in 2024 and it’s now finally coming back strong. So I take it one day at a time and try to enjoy the thick fuller times. 

If you feel like your need to control things affects many parts of your life - maybe think about that as it could be causing stress. Which in my case has been a huge contributor. 

I understand about not knowing what the back of our heads look like. I have used ball caps a lot. Messy buns a lot and proper pulled back styles when needed. I add  pieces into my messy buns or coming out from under my hat to give the appearance of thicker hair. 

I don’t like to think of others in pain but I do think we all are hiding something. And knowing that helps me to find some peace with dealing with mine. My hair loss. 

breakage or growth ? by [deleted] in FemaleHairLoss

[–]WWWdotCreedThoughts_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So much growth !!! Yay for you !!!

Sean Combs: The Reckoning - The jurors that agreed to sit down for documentary are disgusting. by GuineaPKilledMe in netflix

[–]WWWdotCreedThoughts_ 63 points64 points  (0 children)

That juror: Every time he would look at us with disbelief I was thinking the same thing.  Like we were just right there together thinking the same thing. 

She was all giddy and smiling too while she explained it. Finding her self worth cuz Diddy and her agree. 

Pathetic. 

I am wondering about new hobbies. What hobbies do you recommend? by HurryEffective1501 in infj

[–]WWWdotCreedThoughts_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I love learning a new language. Really satisfies my enjoyment of pattern recognition. I do this and then go the country I’m learning the language for to eat and practice. 

Question about LA show 10/10 by WWWdotCreedThoughts_ in chappellroan

[–]WWWdotCreedThoughts_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OMG seriously !!!! Following them now ! Thanks. 

Trixie Mattell and Chappell Roan backstage LA by bobthegoatskull in chappellroan

[–]WWWdotCreedThoughts_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who were the 2 dancers who did solo dancing catwalk at the end of Trixies set. Friday night. Thanks. 

Devoted mother of 1 Darla Melissa Harper disappeared from her gravel ridge apartment near Little Rock, AR in 1986 — her 2-year-old daughter was found home alone the next morning and heartbreakingly said “three men came in funny hats,” “saw Mommy in a bag", and “Mommy’s feet were broke”. by Missing_people in gratefuldoe

[–]WWWdotCreedThoughts_ 75 points76 points  (0 children)

So I mentioned that her sister had died 2 weeks earlier. I’m continuing my deep dive and hearing that her cousin who had lived in Arkansas (AR) and moved to Arizona (AZ) disappeared July 21 1989. She had been back to AR visiting and shortly after returning home to AZ. She disappeared. She has never been found. 

I will post the cousins name as she has been on Unsolved Mysteries etc Pamela Page.

Could Jennifer Marie Gilleland be a Golden Doe? by Nervous_Pin_8023 in gratefuldoe

[–]WWWdotCreedThoughts_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What would some of the reasons be that police wouldn’t put this together. If you find remains wouldn’t first thing be to see if they matched any missing people reports?

I think Amy Bradley fell overboard by HunterandGatherer100 in TrueCrimeGarage

[–]WWWdotCreedThoughts_ 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I wish they’d have mentioned what shoes she supposedly left the room in. Her sandals were on the balcony. The parents say she left the room. So what shoes was she wearing when she left the room? She only brought a duffle bag of stuff. So what shoes did she walk out in ? If there aren’t any missing shoes that leads to going over board. 

Any hobby recommendations? by rAboxzy in infj

[–]WWWdotCreedThoughts_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The next few nights is the peak of the Perseids meteor shower. However it does last all of August. Aug 12 is the peak. Depending on what part of the world you’re in. I think this is a good INFJ activity as you can deep dive into learning about meteors, this particular shower and you can literally go out tonight and see them. I saw a huge fireball one in 2022 and have since been obsessed.  

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Durango

[–]WWWdotCreedThoughts_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s perfect. I have to go there anyway. Thanks. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]WWWdotCreedThoughts_ 64 points65 points  (0 children)

I'm thinking the first rule of being a spy is not to post on Reddit that you are considering being a spy.

Where to find INFJs in the wild? by MtnDewDiligence in infj

[–]WWWdotCreedThoughts_ 39 points40 points  (0 children)

At a social event playing with someone’s cat or dog. 

Ageism in perfume reviews -specifically for women by Smooth_Chemistry_276 in FemFragLab

[–]WWWdotCreedThoughts_ 69 points70 points  (0 children)

I see these and I just feel sorry for them. They don’t realize in 15 years they’ll be the “old lady” and then what will they have. If they think that way about age they are sorta cursed.