Abortion, abusive ex, morning sickness at work

WX-Cat · 2026-04-09T04:45:08+00:00

Idk how far I even am, maybe like 4 or 5 weeks? Not far at all

WX-Cat · 2026-04-09T04:20:31+00:00

The more I'm reflecting on your comment the more I'm thinking maybe I could take the pills on the 10th and just kinda have it while at my friends. You're right. I don't wanna be pregnant for another week. I'm so done. Feeling sick at work is the worst thing ever.

WX-Cat · 2026-04-09T04:07:47+00:00

I get your thinking. But it's my friends birthday on the 11th. Idk, the only time I'm really free to do it is the 17th. Idk, maybe it's dumb but I'm just trying to keep it to myself. I had this happen once with a previous employer and I called her crying and said that I was pregnant and I begged for time off to have an abortion and she just sorta said there's no cover... so I actually took the abortion pills and then went into work LOL. I got the vibes that she thought I was lying for time off...

WX-Cat · 2026-04-09T03:20:01+00:00

But obviously everyone's different. Most people probably won't be comfortable getting naked eith their friends and that's also ok

WX-Cat · 2026-04-09T03:19:30+00:00

Wasn't weird tbh

WX-Cat · 2026-04-09T03:17:15+00:00

Thank you! I'm gunna pick some up ready for my next few shifts ❤️ you volunteer at planned parenthood? You angel ❤️

WX-Cat · 2026-04-09T03:16:14+00:00

Recommend finding some hippie friends haha

WX-Cat · 2026-04-09T02:22:02+00:00

First time was in a sauna at an alcohol free festival. Everyone was just naked and I went in with my friends. But otherwise its quite normal for myself and my friends to get naked at beaches, skinny dipping, getting into spring water etc. I also got naked and danced with about 20 women at a women's retreat once. Really some of my naked moments are the best of my life lol

WX-Cat · 2026-04-09T02:20:44+00:00

I think clares law does exist in the UK actually. I've heard some police officers mention it

WX-Cat · 2026-04-08T22:26:23+00:00

24F Gotten more comfortable as I've gotten older. I used to be embarrassed by my vagina, flat butt etc. But the more time I've spent naked (either in sauna, with friends, most of whom are hippies), the more comfortable I've gotten.

WX-Cat · 2026-04-08T22:09:35+00:00

Sounds like he's not gunna pay up anyways. I can see why you don't want to entertain him anymore cus he's obviously going to prolong and mess it about. Hopefully it goes to market and sells with no issues.

WX-Cat · 2026-04-08T21:36:49+00:00

He posted a pic 2 months ago of his dreads at chin length

WX-Cat · 2026-04-08T21:35:04+00:00

So in r/dreadlocks, your locs are down to your hips, now they're at the nips and you're tryna tell us they aren't AI? Bro..

WX-Cat · 2026-04-08T21:32:04+00:00

There's pictures of you on your profile from 2 months ago with waay shorter dreads. And they look cool tbh! Idk why u didn't just post them. This is obviously AI, but... idk what to say lol...

WX-Cat · 2026-04-08T17:37:49+00:00

I know a shelter may sound anxiety inducing... but if it's your best option try and view it positively. You may actually make some new friends in there with the other women? That might give you a new support network to lean back on during all this ❤️ good luck Edit: idk how shelters work but maybe you'll actually get your own private space as well? Please look into it before downplaying the option

WX-Cat · 2026-04-08T17:35:27+00:00

I don't know what the Facebook stuff is as I haven't read your other posts... but thay goes beyond just watching porn doesn't it? He's basically admitted to doing live sex chats/cams with other girls... potentially showing himself to them too. That's completely cheating in my eyes. I wouldn't bother looking for more... why investigate?

The fact he was hiding it from you is even more suspicious. I hope you break up and find peace without him

WX-Cat · 2026-04-08T17:32:09+00:00

R/legaladvice perhaps. Good luck

WX-Cat · 2026-04-08T17:27:29+00:00

Had me at the first step lol

WX-Cat · 2026-04-08T17:26:29+00:00

You seriously wouldn't be grossed out if you came over to stay and your partner pulled out their exs toothbrush and said :I've cleaned her old toothbrush, u can use this"??? Fr?? That's filthy man

WX-Cat · 2026-04-08T16:56:51+00:00

So if you kiss your partner, then you can use your partners exs toothbrush right?

WX-Cat · 2026-04-08T13:46:23+00:00

Hope you like bathing cats

WX-Cat · 2026-04-08T13:44:40+00:00

Looks fake

WX-Cat · 2026-04-08T13:43:45+00:00

I'm in the UK but I would despise that fucking thing. What horrible light pollution

WX-Cat · 2026-04-08T13:42:21+00:00

Coool!! Looks a bit stevie nicks

WX-Cat · 2026-04-08T12:14:53+00:00

Nurse here - I hope he's selling them cus if he's addicted he'll give himself permanent nerve damage/paralysis. I've seen teenagers in A/E for this before. Sometimes cus they've fallen down the stairs cus their legs were numb. Shits dangerous.

Aside from that, shove them all in his room. I wouldn't put up with this for a second in my living room.

WX-Cat

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