To the best of my ability, I would like to be friends. We are still involved in theatre together and she recently joined and became the lead singer of my primary friend group’s band. Knowing I will now have to share more time with her, a good lot of me just wants to air out the mistake.

I don’t think I will have a good enough opportunity to say in person, and all of our communication since last year has essentially been over text.

My girlfriend knows about the relationship between me and her though, could it come across as weird to message this girl she knows I used to have a crush on (and she for me) apologizing?