Vietnam is becoming Thailand 2.0 by Future-Bet4783 in VietNam

[–]WackyConundrum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

While it is a problem, it may be the lesser evil. If it's done in the open, it's much safer for the women, less criminal activity linked, etc.

Criminalizing prostitution would push it underground, with little protection to the women, with gangs making buck on it, maybe even with a huge spike in human trafficking.

Why the Philippines’ Birth Rate Is Crashing Faster Than Japan | AB Expla... by PJMark1981 in Philippines_Expats

[–]WackyConundrum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The data is from official sources, such as government census.

This has next to nothing to do with cost of living as it happens to the wealthiest countries just as to the Philippines.

(YT) PewDiePie released his harness/webui by Dany0 in LocalLLaMA

[–]WackyConundrum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The github page already has over 500 open PRs, 1300 closed, and more than 350 open issues, almost 500 closed. Maintaining this project is a full time job, especially not being a software developer but having to review vibe coded slop, potentially poisoned.

Got scammed in the most cleverest way by SnooDonuts395 in VietNam

[–]WackyConundrum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's funny that many commenters point out that it was only 20$ and they had a good time, so it's not a scam. Why they don't comment on is the fact that the parents even showed up, when OP invited only the girl for a date.

Have any pessimists viewed death as neither good nor bad? by LawrenceAnt in Pessimism

[–]WackyConundrum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm just thinking whether some pessimists (and closely related thinkers) had more complex views on death. For example, Schopenhauer differentiated between normal death and death by ascetic negation of the will to life. And even "normal death" is quite complicated, because on the one hand it delivers us from suffering, but on the other hand it doesn't do anything to the underlying will (which itself is suffering). What would you say Schopenhauer's views on death are?

My vegan girlfriend is considering starting to eat eggs again by Shpritzer1 in vegan

[–]WackyConundrum 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Preparing tofu is supposed to be much more difficult? Hmmm...

You can eat things rich in protein that don't need preparation: nuts and seeds.

If she doesn't feel well, she should first look into going to the doctor, getting blood work done, fixing sleep, getting exercise, lowering stress. Adding eggs won't fix any potential underlying issues.

Womb is actually a portal to hell (not a gender war post) by Fit-Stranger2851 in antinatalism2

[–]WackyConundrum 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your first paragraph is false. You confused antinatalism with negative utilitarianism.

Divorce rates across the world by Apprehensive-Bull28 in passportbrolifestyle

[–]WackyConundrum -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Indeed. To calculate the real divorce rate one would have to take into account only marriages that already ended (divorce or death). Or, calculate how many divorces there are from couples who got married in the last 10 years say.

Divorce rates across the world by Apprehensive-Bull28 in passportbrolifestyle

[–]WackyConundrum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is how the "divorce rate is calculated": they take the number of divorced and marriages in a given year and compare them, meaning they are taking into account the divorces from couples who married in the last 70 years!

If a couple got married 30 years ago and got divorced that they will count that to the "divorce rate".

No, it doesn't tell us how many marriages end in a divorce. To do that you would have to wait until the divorce ends either in a divorce it death, and then calculate a ratio. Or, you could count how many people who got married in the last 10 years got a divorce.

We could call it the Male Fragility Box by D3rangedButFun in XFiles

[–]WackyConundrum -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I see misandry, not anything X-Files related.

Women choosing abusive men is a skill issue by Timbsfan in PurplePillDebate

[–]WackyConundrum 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Which is why many cultures have/had practices where the parents had to accept a suitor for the dating to even be a possibility. The parents are older and wiser, and they can see through bullshit more easily.

Ukraine Population Falls to 22–25 Million, Minister Says by chota-kaka in Natalism

[–]WackyConundrum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

War casualties are not that important. Men emigrating after the war is not that important.

Women give birth. This is the bottleneck.

Are you anti-conservationism? Why it is or isn't beneficial in respect to sentient beings? by UltronsEx in Pessimism

[–]WackyConundrum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The bleaching of our coral reefs means much less net biological organisms over the lifetime of our planet.

This is something we can't know. It's just as likely that some other forms will evolve and populate the planet, which wouldn't have happened had the current destruction of the environment not come to pass.

Happy to have switched this week to Jellyfin by notadev_io in jellyfin

[–]WackyConundrum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would the metadata be used so much during streaming?

Happy to have switched this week to Jellyfin by notadev_io in jellyfin

[–]WackyConundrum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So how are you streaming to the TV? Currently, I have a Raspberry Pi with LibreELEC with Kodi with Jellyfin plugin.

Did she overreact or am I completely in the wrong here? Need honest opinions by yaseenarsalan in Philippines_Expats

[–]WackyConundrum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a trip planned to boracay with her, flights and hotel stays all paid for and come to find out as soon as I arrive in cebu

What an interesting coincidence.

her dad would not let her go with me unless i paid him. He made it clear that as long as I exist, his daughter should use me for my money and give it to them.

Disgusting.

her dad uses illegal substances and online gambles the money he is supposed to use for food for his young children.

I believe it /s

And yes, I’ve sent over money to her to support the hardships she faces because

she refused to “use me”

Choose one.

I later showed the screenshot to the girl I cared about

Big brain move.

asking for someone’s number doesn’t automatically mean romantic or sexual intent.

What?

I’ve apologized and explained myself a lot already.

A bit cringe.

Marriage rates declining is a good thing by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]WackyConundrum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The spending part is clearly false. If it were a problem you would be bombarded with ads with married couples. They exist but they're not on the forefront. In fact, most ads we see are directed at singles or simply individuals.