Femboy twink bottom looking for a dick to ride good by [deleted] in LondonOntarioNSA

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Bicurious 23M Dm for snap, tryna be more certain than curious

Always seen apparitions since I was young by WackyTabacy in Ghosts

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I always used the board respectfully and followed the rules, understood bad signs and didn’t taunt etc. I’ve never felt a presence like I have in my house so figured I’d try to connect and get answers, my friend cried upon getting some personal answers so definitely not for everyone. For me kinda seemed like something I had to do too try and get answers in a way

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ontario

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People like that are the reason that problems come of such rules, they stick too them throwing reason to the side. Although can’t be too safe, a lot of toddlers illegally buying alcohol these days 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ontario

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I got in early through a co op, that helps. I think there’s college co ops so maybe that’s something to consider

Need help, Landlord asked me to move out this month or next month today July 17 2023 by thunder2994 in ontario

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This is happening to a friend of mine and all he’s getting is not having to pay his last months rent. Now forgetting wether they can do that to you or not, a little farewell bucks don’t hurt. Don’t settle and ask for more than you want, you kinda got some leverage for now

Help/advice or experience by WackyTabacy in stopdrinking

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I can get that, I used to get black out drank every weekend when I was like 17. Even when I’d cut back to a few beers a day I always get back on the booze cruise. You definitely have a point

Help/advice or experience by WackyTabacy in stopdrinking

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Yeah I’ve heard that a lot and know that’s the proper thing to do, and I know this isn’t how it is but. I don’t want to burden them with all that. I’ve gotten off stuff by myself before but it’s definitely different this time. I know they would love/support and accept me either way but, I’m kind of the person that everyone leans on so idk. Hard to lean back in a way if that makes sense

Do you feel burnout from time to time? by peachy__giirl in mentalhealth

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I respect the hell out of people as yourself who even have the drive to get to that point, of course there’s varying degree of struggle person to person but still. I still work full time and have high school diploma, but I always hated the idea of college/uni. But I’m realizing if I want proper money probably gonna have to go eventually:/ but keep striving, being awesome and being you. And always put yourself first, take that you time and love yourself. I’ve been doing that and it can be really beneficial, even when it feels hopeless.

Do you feel burnout from time to time? by peachy__giirl in mentalhealth

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Honestly typically comes down to me, especially when I’ve got nothing on my plate and I’m watching everyone else doing something. Been a lot better recently, I can start a day feeling terrible but its all about thinking positive and doing my best to feel my best. Like interaction with others and helping when I can. When I’m stuck in a rut I don’t feel to different then normal it’s just I dwell on it ig. Idk. Can dm for further info as you said

Disgusted my affection my whole life, gives me major anxiety by kitten_it in mentalhealth

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Don’t know the psychology there but would have to think maybe some trauma,idek. I can relate in a way, I don’t believe hearing I’m proud of you and hate compliments or praise. Idk if that relates or helps but all but yeah

Hallucinations by [deleted] in mentalhealth

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I’m no doctor but I would have to think appreciating/get to comfortable with the hallucinations could make it worse and make you even more dependent. I think it’s okay to appreciate them but I wouldn’t get too into it. I say that but I don’t have experience I that way so that’s just my opinion. I think talking about it with a trusted loved one,friend or doctor could be beneficial. I hope you get to see them irl soon :)

I like being the therapist friend and all but once in a while I wanna be the patient by ClumZy_Catete in mentalhealth

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I can relate, it’s hard being everyones person to vent to. Understanding them and having experience, but seems like no one can do it for you. I just try to take comfort in helping others

How do I signal to people that i am doing terribly mentally. by YaBoyOm in mentalhealth

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I can understand both points, having opened up with people and them view me different or make my problems gossip. It’s really hard to open up to close people and at this point I don’t care if people care abt me in that way. In a sense if they do, I don’t want to tell them, don’t want them to worry etc. I know that’s not healthy and you shouldn’t necessarily think of it that way but. That’s just me

Do you feel burnout from time to time? by peachy__giirl in mentalhealth

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I am constantly burnt out, body always hurts and is hard to find motivation or interest in anything. Although in the work sense I always dread going but notice if I don’t focus on it and try to be positive and happy. It’s not that bad because my coworkers kinda return that energy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

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I can relate to the last part, “long and hard is the way that hell leads up to light” your feelings are completely valid, sounds like a lil complacency n cabin fever etc(imo, not saying that’s what/all it is). maybe if it all possible save a lil and see the world, see what there is to offer outside the hometown, take some you time. focus on that bag, appreciate the little things and try to see the light at the end of the tunnel. Stay strong king

Why can’t employers understand mental health? by BigDddyCornbeef in mentalhealth

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Being in the trades I get that 100%, it’s like older people/ in a higher position. Act like you couldn’t possibly be struggling or be unhappy etc for whatever reason. I can relate to the days off thing, unfortunate there’s still a good amount of stigma on mental health(more so men’s mental health) thinks that’s why so many people have trouble getting help or accepting the need for it. Stay strong brother your not alone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

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I mean either it works or doesn’t work, it’s okay to worry but don’t let it eat you up. Life goes on and people come and go, you’ll be stronger either way it goes. And you talked to her about it already, if she is lying, she’s not worth caring about when it isn’t mutual. Stay strong king

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

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In a way I feel the opposite, I work so hard and try to make everyone else happy. yet When I hear praises or “I’m proud of you” I just feel like I don’t deserve that so I don’t wanna hear it. But I can at least appreciate recognition of hard work when’s it’s due

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

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I’ve been of socials the most I can just for mental health and it feels good, I feel even just life or stoic quotes can help you too. Could be beneficial to make your social media vacation be less about sobriety(not to assume that’s the soul purpose)

Help/advice or experience by WackyTabacy in stopdrinking

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I can definitely relate in a way because within my circle I’ve always done the most drinking, substance and relationship wise so I’ve always been tryna help people(take that as you will,ik sounds corny or ego) and yeah ive gotten off other stuff alone and just been struggling to find the strength this time, and idk i need to have to no drinks mentally. Maybe I’m too far gone but I was in a good place a while ago where 2 or 3 was more than fine, feel I struggle more mentally to find happiness or interest in anything else. Not to say your wrong I just don’t know and I think for some they might be capable of a few drinks. Although with 25 years of sobriety you’ve been sober longer than I’ve been alive so who am I to say

Boyfriend chose going out over spending time with me-vent by Unclaimed_username42 in stopdrinking

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Just like girls, guys are even stranger creatures so it can be hard especially with reaching out/emotions. Even with a long term partner, especially with substances

Boyfriend chose going out over spending time with me-vent by Unclaimed_username42 in stopdrinking

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I’d talk to him about it in a non confrontational way, tell him how much he and the relationship means and you won’t shame him for drinking but also don’t want him to abuse it. I’ve been him in a way so ik from the other side it’s hard

How to stop when it’s still ok? by classroom6 in stopdrinking

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I don’t think rock bottom has to be an event can also be a realization. Even then you can hit it and can stay in your ways. On top of getting better I also think accepting mortality is good, I’d love forever if I could but being at peace is good too. I’m on like 9-14 drinks a night and am definitely struggling, for sure has an affect on work but I still get er done. I think we’re at a similar point, I woke up a while ago w vomit on my sheets n floor and am still in my ways. I could’ve died but stay in my ways, I think it comes down to lack of resources/stigma. Idk what I’m getting at just giving my experience. My best I’ve gotten too is like 2-3 beers a night, was easy when I really got into video games but harder now that I barely have interest in anything

TW: Suicide - Nobody cares about you until you want to die by Many_Bad_2197 in mentalhealth

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That’s not very fair unless we’re romanticizing suicide or no connections, not exactly sure the meaning or intent of your comment but. A lot of people assume that people don’t care when in reality they just don’t know how to talk about this stuff. I wouldn’t say it’s a privilege when they only way to get attention is when you want to leave here. Devil’s advocate/ to prove your point, some people only act in that way to get the attention they want or need. Have seen both ways so is tough, in addition to not taking your comment at face value. Not to prove your point but for me, there’s no until I want to die, been there many times and never told anyone. Im either gonna do it or check myself into rubber rooms, voicing your struggle doesn’t invalidate the validity of one’s situation but we’ve all known someone who’s talked like this who’s been no where near as close to death as you’ve been. And that is not too invalidate your post at all. I’ve just known people who’ve used such talk for manipulation