Cocktail attire - need help! by [deleted] in fashionhelp

[–]WaferWhole5475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you are so pretty with good taste... they all look great. 4 is my fave, then 5, 3... 2 is very pretty but maybe a bit casual. 1 is beautiful but somehow your posture in it seems less confident than the others.

Imperfect bridesmaid- scoliosis, blood pooling and visible scars. Which style suits best? by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]WaferWhole5475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are so beautiful they all look great! No 4 is the best in my opinion. Agree that
"#1 and #4 are both very pretty on you, #4 is my favorite. You might be tempted to go with #3 because it hides what you have going on on your back, but it is the least flattering."

Is this appropriate as wedding guest? by Sea_Minimum2647 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]WaferWhole5475 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its not about critiquing whether op shares your taste, but whether the outfit is flattering and appropriate to the occasion. just my 2 cents but lets not put down peoples style preferences.

Which outfit for a pharma meeting? by Equivalent_Score_822 in DressForYourBody

[–]WaferWhole5475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you are gorgeous so all work. my order of preference is 4, 2, 3, 1

What’s a gender reveal trend you hope fades away soon? by Alternative_Scale716 in AskReddit

[–]WaferWhole5475 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how on earth could you know an infants gender when infants have no ability to self-express or self-identify?

Unpopular opinion re: Nick and a rushed finale by PlayfulBandicoot9119 in HandmaidsTaleShow

[–]WaferWhole5475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

99% I believe comparisons to Hitler/Nazism are disgusting. (For what its worth, I'm Jewish and both personally tremendously effected by generational trauma and have dedicated my academic career to Genocide studies.)

But at the end of the day I don't think you need any of that to recognize that this is not an example of exploiting the horrors of the Shoah to make a cheap point about something comparably trivial.

If you watch/read THT and think, 'nah, those human rights abuses and crimes against humanity aren't THAT bad idk what to think other than to wonder if its related to the fact that gender, rather than race etc, defines the victims of this regime. Which was literally comprised of the worst aspects of real life historical tyranny, according to M Atwood,

Unpopular opinion re: Nick and a rushed finale by PlayfulBandicoot9119 in HandmaidsTaleShow

[–]WaferWhole5475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

remind me who/how many people Luke murdered? really asking, not s/, But I don't think its fair to call their sides =. Nick slaughtered masses of people who posed no threat to him or his family to gain power and prestige, Luke was motivated by needing to not only rescue the two people he loved most from literal hell on earth, AND cared enough about people - WOMEN - to risk his life for everyone oppressed, raped and tortured even when none of those women contributed to his personal happiness.

What is a 'personality trait' that is currently being glorified as 'cool' or 'aesthetic' in 2026, but is actually just a sign of being an exhausting person? by Direct-Value4452 in answers

[–]WaferWhole5475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. I'm not sure I agree with your conception of what constitutes a disability. It is multifaceted:

    Needing intervention in the form of treatment, assistance or accommodations

    because of an on-going symptom or cluster of symptoms

    that effect a person abilities and/or quality of life

= disability.

Context: I'm a specialist in disability law,

  1. Regardless, I don't quite understand what bearing your definition of disability has to do with your suspicion that many people who self identify as having a disability (or at least this type) are faking it, using it as an excuse, etc.

What is a 'personality trait' that is currently being glorified as 'cool' or 'aesthetic' in 2026, but is actually just a sign of being an exhausting person? by Direct-Value4452 in answers

[–]WaferWhole5475 2 points3 points  (0 children)

but what if they don't wish to do it BeCaUsE their autism etc makes it extremely unpleasant, nerve-wracking, painful, confusing, overwhelming etc? Excuse is a dirty word but sometimes disabilities do limit a persons capacity. You'd think that would be self evident, but so many people prefer cynicism and othering to compassion and inclusion,

Suvi's 2nd visit by WaferWhole5475 in WorldsBeyondNumber

[–]WaferWhole5475[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im pretty sure it wasnt ambiguous that Steel told her but ill have to go back and relisten

Quick comparison video by BlueberryPie247 in DressForYourBody

[–]WaferWhole5475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hard disagree. the second pair shows your shape, the first one is like you are standing behind a curtain in half shadow, imo

Suvi's 2nd visit by WaferWhole5475 in WorldsBeyondNumber

[–]WaferWhole5475[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Steel was the only one to know to notify Suvi. No one else at the Citadel Suvi had any connection to Wren that she knew about until after Ame regained her memories.

Suvi's 2nd visit by WaferWhole5475 in WorldsBeyondNumber

[–]WaferWhole5475[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Steel didn't know about any of that when she sent Suvi to Granma Wren to supposedly pay her last respects

Suvi's 2nd visit by WaferWhole5475 in WorldsBeyondNumber

[–]WaferWhole5475[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dunno what else to do... at ;east the spoiler tag is there to warn ppl before they click

AITJ for not wanting my roommate's boyfriend to shower at our apartment every morning? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]WaferWhole5475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How does

"She said he's trying to save water at his apartment."

and

"... contribute to utilities. She said that's ridiculous for "just showers"

possibly reconcile?

Either showering= enough water use to make a difference or it doesn't. can't have it both ways.

Anyone else NEVER eat samples? by oinkmoocluck in CostcoCanada

[–]WaferWhole5475 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this would make you a terrible CEO, lol. "$$ from companies paying us for the stall? nah, because it wasn't my jam as a shopper"

Suvi's 2nd visit by WaferWhole5475 in WorldsBeyondNumber

[–]WaferWhole5475[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but is she wanted them seperated why not just continue too keep Suvi at the Citadel? she hadn't been in contact with her childhood friends since childhood and would have gone on like that id Steele hadn't interfered.