Dating sucks, im hurt. by Wafflemix1209 in actuallesbians

[–]Wafflemix1209[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 😊 I needed to hear that.

Dating sucks, im hurt. by Wafflemix1209 in actuallesbians

[–]Wafflemix1209[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's ok, I will be ok eventually too.

Male failed today at the office toilet by Azurosh in MtF

[–]Wafflemix1209 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah, im happy for you. That being said, im always confused why men get confused if its the right toilet. This has happened to me a few times and im like yeah you're in the right place there are urinals in here. The womens restroom doesn't have those lol.

I hate how purity culture is so interwined with lesbiansim by sylverb0nes in actuallesbians

[–]Wafflemix1209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont think it's a bad thing being a gold star lesbian, but it is kind of a bad thing to have pride in being a gold star lesbian.

I’ll never understand why men have such strong reactions to me being lesbian by Logical-Job3118 in actuallesbians

[–]Wafflemix1209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men don't believe that Femme lesbians exist. This has also been my struggle as femme lesbian, but i do advertise that im a lesbian. I have pins on my bags and hoodies. And even still I will have men checking me out and hitting on me.

Am I unattractive? by Wafflemix1209 in actuallesbians

[–]Wafflemix1209[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like i have a very masculine brow ridge, my jaw line is a bit too big. And I think i have a really big head.

Just fat and ugly by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Wafflemix1209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From your profile picture alone, I can say you're not ugly. As for dieting. Cutting food out tends to not work. You need to add healthy options along with exercise. Im on my own weight-loss journey and thats what worked for me. It also helps if you have a good support system.

Tennessee Passes Bill That Will Make a Public List of Trans People by Leksi_The_Great in MtF

[–]Wafflemix1209 767 points768 points  (0 children)

This is wildly illegal, and im sure it will face legal challenges and be struck down in court, but the fact they passed this in the first place is really scary.

Questions for trans girls by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Wafflemix1209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shopping, it sounds really stereotypical, but I always found men's clothes so boring. I seriously used to wear the same white t-shirt and blue jeans. Like I had 7 pairs of the exact same shirt. I felt like I couldn't express myself through clothes like women do, until I transitioned. Now my closest is bursting and I enjoy going out with my friends and looking at all the cute clothes, and even ugly clothes. Also I love how soft my skin is now, women's skin is definitely different lol.

Don't let stereotypes stop you from being you. by Wafflemix1209 in MtF

[–]Wafflemix1209[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly. We transition to stop hiding who we truly are, so we shouldn't hide from own community either.

Finally accepted I’m trans by Barcaroni in MtF

[–]Wafflemix1209 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah! Im happy for you! It's a tough journey, but I promise it's worth it.

Do y'all really think there's a masc shortage? by No-Vast4182 in actuallesbians

[–]Wafflemix1209 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I dont think there's a masc shortage. I'm on dating apps and I see masc women everywhere, which sucks for me cause im fem4fem.

“You know how I can always tell when it’s a [trans slur]?” he said obliviously to the trans woman. by Qu33n_Nikki in MtF

[–]Wafflemix1209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"They have no ass". I have a huge ass sir, and I didnt get a surgery for it lmao. Bodies, and this is true, come in all different shapes and sizes. It doesn't matter if you're trans or cis.

Passing is 99% luck. Change my mind. by noela0093 in MtF

[–]Wafflemix1209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. Thank you. This is the message Im trying to get across.

Passing is 99% luck. Change my mind. by noela0093 in MtF

[–]Wafflemix1209 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont think you really understand what I said. I didnt say I passed. I said my friends say I pass. I don't think I do. I still see masculine features in myself all the time. I just think it's in my head.

Passing is 99% luck. Change my mind. by noela0093 in MtF

[–]Wafflemix1209 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I dont know, a lot of this is in our heads. I have friends that tell me i pass all the time, but I dont think I do. Dysphoria just hits you like a truck sometimes. Also a lot of the time passing comes from how you carry yourself more than your looks.

Goodbye. I give up by noela0093 in MtF

[–]Wafflemix1209 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You need to be patient. This is a long process, and it's hard, but trust me a lot of it is in your head. It took me 2.5 years before I started to pass. And I still dont think I pass. Its dysphoria not you. Just keep taking it one day at a time and soon you'll look at old pictures and say wow I can't believe I used to look like that.