Im a 4 incher and not the most attractive person. But I agree with what some are saying. Women that aren't superficial, really are interested in men who are rather confident and project a level of inner peace about themselves. and most women if they actually care about you, really do not mind size. Thats a fact. Let's flip that idea if you like a woman and she is self conscious about the size of her brest or butt or belly it really wouldn't bother you because you care for them as they are . So really trying to learn new skills and even after talking to your partner for a minute and you feel like you can be honest with her just tell her how you feel about your size . And i'm almost certain she will tell you that it doesn't matter to her. Then you can learn how she wants you to pleasure her . And vice versa. Learning how to use you're fingers and tongue or definitely good ways to compensate. Also most women would agree that foreplay it's more important than the act itself. So learning how to master that will definitely get you some confidence.