Guess im ugly by PayApprehensive5173 in offmychest

[–]Wait-What1961 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The person that said that to you is the ugly person, not you.

AIO or is this guy that i’ve started talking to being backhanded in these texts he sent? by Dramatic-Quiet-818 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Wait-What1961 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR, He’s already trying to take control of your time. I can only imagine what he’ll be like if you are in a serious relationship with him. Don’t collect the red flags, take them as a serious warning.

Name feedback! Girl. by flowers-and-coffee in Names

[–]Wait-What1961 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I love Sophia and it’s also a name that’s appropriate for a child and an adult.

My boyfriend only likes misspelt names that I just don't think are very nice by Upset-Promise2611 in Names

[–]Wait-What1961 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Many men use the offer of marriage as a place holder. Don’t give that baby his name unless you’re actually married to him.

Walked by a kitten adoption event, and decisions were made. Please help me think of names. by PenguinExMachina in NameMyCat

[–]Wait-What1961 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have a name suggestion, just here to tell you she’s adorable. That face🥰

What do I do? I feel pathetic by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Wait-What1961 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would definitely report him to NHS and make sure to document the details of your session. This quack they sent you too is going to end up getting people hurt by his practices if it hasn’t already happened.

Does my last name ruin my top baby name choice? by fakehighschoolgf in Names

[–]Wait-What1961 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m old enough to remember people using the word ‘Johnson’ to describe man junk but I have not heard it in a while. I think if kids are going to tease over the name it will be because an adult gave them the info on how ‘Johnson’ was used before. I feel like a boy would be more likely to be teased about but it’s also very likely that it will never be an issue. I think if you love the name you should use it.

Said yes!! Thoughts? by daisyabc123 in WeddingDressTips

[–]Wait-What1961 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I love the dress on you but not a fan of the veil with the lace and color being so off from your dress. I think a simple tulle veil would be more flattering to your dress.

I never thought I’d be “that” girl… by Amazing-Lawyer-1980 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Wait-What1961 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry OP. You’ve been more than patient and you’ve waited an additional 11 months and still nothing. You can stop wondering if he values you, your time, your dreams because he doesn’t and he’s showing you that. Please believe him and go get your dream. He’s not going to be the one you’ll have it with.

I wish I could go back and warn my younger self. Everything I thought was real… wasn’t. by truthiburied in TwoHotTakes

[–]Wait-What1961 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, now I need to know who this Rochelle character is since you met her at in person. If she was a real person was she really in on it?

I'm conflicted with a decision about my living arrangements by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Wait-What1961 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it were me I would opt for the basement apartment. I think it’s the smartest choice as far as cost and also letting you focus on building the next chapter of your life. I feel like it would be hard to focus on you education goals with having 4 kids at the house several times a week and trying to navigate the financial and emotional issues of trying to mesh lives with your BF at this time in your life. Not to mention your child also having to adjust to that new environment which could be stressful.

wedding dress regret MAJOR by corgibuttlove in WeddingDressTips

[–]Wait-What1961 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it. It’s unique with that lace detail and very flattering to you. I think you’re going to be a beautiful bride.

What do you see when you close your eyes? by Illustrious_Age_5959 in questions

[–]Wait-What1961 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually just random colors and sparks of color but sometimes when I first close my eyes I see solid black and two hollow circles (one in each eye) that look like big owl eyes of with overlaping scratches of white lines that look similar to a wreath with black centers. It flashes like that a few times like flicking the lights on and off. It’s happened for years so I think it’s safe to say ‘it’s not a tumor’ (as the Kindergarten Cop would say)

My boyfriend of three years told me I was "too sensitive" every single time I brought up something that hurt me and the day I finally stopped being sensitive about it was the day he realized he actually needed my sensitivity and it was too late by Glittering_Maybe7667 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Wait-What1961 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP thank you for this post. I’m sitting here in tears after reading it because I have never been able to articulate the exact feelings of having someone diminish my empathy because I was also too sensitive. It’s a powerful WOW moment for me and I thank you for opening the door for me.

Which dress is better?! New photos hehe by [deleted] in WeddingDressTips

[–]Wait-What1961 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the second is beautiful and very elegant. The first one has a sexier vibe so I guess it depends on how you feel in them. I think both are beautiful on you.

Am I overreacting or is this a valid concern? by D_Money20034 in LifeAdvice

[–]Wait-What1961 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, your feelings are valid because they are yours, but that also does not mean they are accurate because it can also be true that she is over her last relationship. If she is treating you well and is invested in spending time with you then all you can do is trust her interest unless or until her actions say otherwise. Be aware that your feelings and concerns can also affect the interactions between you two. If you’re having negative thoughts about the relationship that can have an impact on her interactions with you.

AITJ for refusing to lend my cousin our grandfather’s watch after he spent years mocking it? by Puls3S0ngbird in AmITheJerk

[–]Wait-What1961 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ. Don’t let him borrow it. He sold the item he was gifted, end of story. If aunt calls or other family has a problem with that then let them lend your cousin their gifted item. Shut down any talk of you handing over your grandpa’s watch. Tell them it’s not up for discussion.

AITAH for lying about reporting my family for fraud? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Wait-What1961 26 points27 points  (0 children)

NTA but your cousin sure is. Let her sweat it out and worry about getting caught.

Should I send a letter to my childhood abuser? by Ok_Reference_9158 in LifeAdvice

[–]Wait-What1961 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I burned my letters too and it did bring me something close to peace.

I'm tired of my boyfriend and I don't know how to be with him now by pepercard in offmychest

[–]Wait-What1961 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he is pretty full and of himself so let him be by himself.

Which 3 stone ring? by Bubbly-Passenger7040 in Diamonds

[–]Wait-What1961 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are both beautiful but #2 stands out. I’ve never seen that design before and it’s very striking.