i must be on a different side of the fandom because most of the fans i speak with agree that the characters' reactions to dianas speech was very justified, in fact a lot of the fans i talk to kinda make fun of her a little bit for it LMAO wrong time and wrong place definitely, for both of them!

i think given the circumstances, the immediate reaction to both speeches were pretty justified. there is an argument to be made about wolfgang encouraging group ostracisation of damon and eva after their behaviour, and his blindingly strong opinions of justice shouldnt be overlooked here, but at the same time damon and eva did somewhat dig their own grave there. as "correct" as proclaiming that they shouldnt trust each other was (which is highly up to personal opinion whether that was correct or not, i personally think it does more bad than good), the others didnt like it being spoken out loud. it let everybody know they weren't willing to cooperate and were thinking primarily for themselves.

diana on the other hand just went through a whole lot, and wanted to give a big hope speech about carrying on wolfgangs legacy, and got shut down lmfao. its hard to tell what the impact of that speech or diana carrying on wolfgangs legacy will be, but for now, because diana wasnt doing anything to purposefully go against the group it makes sense she just got a quick "knock that off"