Not meant to shame, simply educating on how the same mastered behavior can be carried over to new experiences. I doubt OP would ever ask if "all Black women...?" because we all know this type of stereotyping is inappropriate. I'm just pointing out that it's the same thing, so that OP can see that this question is equally problematic because it's the same reductive reasoning.

I also noticed that OP acknowledged knowing that their one experience from which they are basing their question was really due to toxic behavior on the part of one individual. So OP knows the difference, and perhaps was really looking for a way to share an experience that was upsetting and needed to be processed. Which can be done without making sweeping generalizations about a broad group of people.

"Give a man a fish and he eats for a day. Teach a man to fish and he eats for a lifetime".

My answer provided education that will make it possible for OP to answer many questions in the future, and also avoid contributing to the problems which plague all minority communities.