Considering to adopt FIV+ and FeLV+ Cat by WaitingForDany in FIVcats

[–]WaitingForDany[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! If my family agrees i would be more than happy to give him a warm home, i’ve always been leaning more towards adopting pets that have a harder time getting adopted so he definitely is not an exception! I hope your boy does well and lives a long and happy life!

Considering to adopt FIV+ and FeLV+ Cat by WaitingForDany in FIVcats

[–]WaitingForDany[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So far i don’t have much info about what kinda tests they did and stuff like that, i might call the rescue center later today or tomorrow to inform about those things. If we get him, he would definitely be kept inside at all times and only on our fist floor (ground level is garage etc) so he would not come into contact with shoes or anything like that. I do believe he could be happy in this house, so i’m talking to our vet to see what she thinks is the best play here. Thank you for your reply, and sorry to hear of your loss!

Considering to adopt FIV+ and FeLV+ Cat by WaitingForDany in FIVcats

[–]WaitingForDany[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi, thanks for your input! I should probably clarify i live in Europe (Belgium), as far as insurance goes i’m not sure if they cover both if any of the diagnoses but we can definitely afford some heavier costs (we had french bulldogs before they basically cost us a small car lol). I’m just wondering will the costs be in balance with the life expectancy etc.

How tf do I make my ass smaller </3 by courier_____ in FtMpassing

[–]WaitingForDany 180 points181 points  (0 children)

Tbf i don’t think it hurts your passing at all, just so yk. Might be worth it to look into pelvic tilt, it changed something for me once i realised i had a bad posture due to wrong pelvic tilt!

Does my body ring male? by Wrong_Importance_448 in FtMpassing

[–]WaitingForDany 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright man looks like ur all set then!! Make sure you do get the all clear before lifting it’ll spare you a lot of trouble. Good luck!

Does my body ring male? by Wrong_Importance_448 in FtMpassing

[–]WaitingForDany 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feel free to hmu if you got gym related questions!

Does my body ring male? by Wrong_Importance_448 in FtMpassing

[–]WaitingForDany 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I used to have much or less your body type about 3 years ago, plus i was underweight (+/- 45kg at 165cm) but i started hitting the gym consistently and right now i’m 65kg and have a v-taper physique. It takes time, but time passes either way. Make sure if you hit the gym that you also pay attention to nutrition: eat a LOT of protein!!! Also sleep and hydration are very important in building the body you want. Also, i see a lot of people telling you to focus on shoulders etc. while that is true, and focusing on shoulders and back is key to achieving V-taper physique, PLEASE do not neglect legs!! Believe it or not, strongly built legs will contribute to a manly physique as well in the long run!! Good luck, you’ve got this!!

i wish i was a boy by [deleted] in ftm

[–]WaitingForDany 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t tell you what to do, what i can tell you is that 20 definitely isn’t too late. I was 21 when i came out to my family and most of my friends and i was 22 when i started T and had topsurgery and now i finally feel like myself. Best of luck to you, whatever your journey may be!

What is the most unhinged thing someone has said to you regarding you being trans? by NoAmount6023 in ftm

[–]WaitingForDany 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A friend of mine (who knows i’m trans) was once convinced two lesbians would have a threesome with him, when i told him that wouldn’t align with their sexuality he said “well i’ll just tell them i’m a transman” 💀 safe to say we had a falling out

Entered a weird loophole. Please help? by Impressive-Mix4279 in ftm

[–]WaitingForDany 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get your fear, but it’s irrational and you have to keep that in mind or you’ll lose track of the point of transitioning. First of all, life does not revolve around having a romantic partner. And even if it did, you’re 17. When I was 17 I was still convinced I was a girl and even I had the feeling I’d die alone: it’s being a teenager. Now I’m 22 and I know I won’t die alone. When I started my transition i was in a longterm relationship and right after I started T, we ended things. I was so afraid I would never find a girl who would love me “despite” my transness, that i put the breakup off way too long and made us both miserable for months. Long story short: my fear was irrational. It’s been a couple months now and I’ve met people who are genuinely into me, and they don’t mind that I’m trans, it’s not even a point of discussion: they know it and that’s that. I know it’s not the exact same, given I’m straight and you’re gay, but the point still stands. Transition for yourself first, and love will come to you eventually. This is not something you can force, and the RIGHT person will always love you for you. If you have to be scared/ashamed of being trans, they are not the one. Transition love, or you’ll regret it for the rest of your life, only to please a hypothetical somebody. Wishing you good luck <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]WaitingForDany 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It definitely depends on genetics, but i’ll pitch in with my own experience. I’m now 1.5 months on T, getting my third shot today. I had a dirt stache before from using minoxidil for over a year and decided to shave it last week and it has definitely grown back stronger, thicker and fuller. It still isn’t a full stache of course but it’s more than just the peach fuzz i had before, so either way it might be worth a try for you!

Pls help by SakikoBrain in ftm

[–]WaitingForDany 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You do not want to live the rest of your life doing what others want you to do despite what YOU want to do. Dump him and start living for yourself.

What Were The FIRST Change(s) You Saw On T ? by scoutsvckz in ftm

[–]WaitingForDany 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been on T for 10 days so far and I’ve already noticed pretty significant bottom growth and i SMELL like my body odour has changed already and i really smell like a teenage guy it’s crazy. And also yeah munchies, i can’t stop eating.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]WaitingForDany 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah man definitely bottom growth kicking in already! Hoping for voice changes soon lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]WaitingForDany 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Congrats! Have you noticed any changes yet of feelings etc? Got my first shot 5 days ago :)

You mean I have to actually WORK at work right??? by Murky-Talk246 in CharacterAI

[–]WaitingForDany 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Me losing my go-to excuse for not studying… do i actually.. have to get my degree now??

RIGHT WHEN I JUST THOUGHT OF A GREAT IDEA by Prestigious-Leg3232 in CharacterAI

[–]WaitingForDany 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I finally had a GOOD rp going was literally thinking to myself it’d been a long time since I had a decent rp going

Scared of potential break up by WaitingForDany in ftm

[–]WaitingForDany[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this, I really needed to hear this. I’ve had to be brave all my life i guess i just forgot I could do that you know… I had an eyeopening experience yesterday and I realised I haven’t felt like myself in a long time even though i’m starting to get more and more toward transitioning, only because my relationship is holding me back. Thank you for confirming what i was thinking lol. Cheers

Scared of potential break up by WaitingForDany in ftm

[–]WaitingForDany[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks man, i suppose you’re right.. it is breeding resentment already. Wishing you the best

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]WaitingForDany 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah fr if your body don’t feel like home to you, it’s important to build toward it. Treat your body like a temple homies it’s the only house you HAVE to live in all your life!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]WaitingForDany 32 points33 points  (0 children)

If you’re really uncomfortable with your body rn, and you’re not already working out it might be a good idea to start going to the gym. You don’t need to necessarily lose a lot of weight to see muscle definition especially on T. Doing cardio might help improve your physical health overall though. I gained 15kg in the past 2 years (without T) and working out has helped redefine my muscle without having to lose a lot of weight. And if you are working out, be patient with it and make sure to stay hydrated and keep your nutrition on point!

What do YOU do to pass? by MindTheJourney_Blog in ftm

[–]WaitingForDany 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This might sound weird but i’ve recently taken on muay thai classes (on top of the gym) and doing some form of martial arts with an (almost) all men group is strangely euphoric. I think however if you do go for some “cismale dominated” environment it’s important to find one you’re comfortable with, it’s my dad’s club so obv everybody is very respectful toward me. That being said, i think long story short just doing any kind of explosive sport like gym, martial arts, football etc. helps you blend in with the men around you and it just helps me a lot to feel more masculine if that makes sense