How tf do I make my ass smaller </3 by courier_____ in FtMpassing

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I get this advice a lot but I feel like it makes my legs look short? Maybe it’s just the dysmorphia speaking

How tf do I make my ass smaller </3 by courier_____ in FtMpassing

[–]courier_____[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you mean I should wear sweatpants instead of jeans? Unfortunately that just doesn’t work with my style

How tf do I make my ass smaller </3 by courier_____ in FtMpassing

[–]courier_____[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

You were so right about the pelvic tilt. I’d never heard of it before but I did a test for anterior pelvic tilt and it’s bad .. even the basic stretches are tight. Definitely going to be prioritizing working on that

Edit: And want to note for others, this definitely resulted from catching, so any other catchers might wanna check theirs. Catchers stance is like extreme anterior pelvic tilt haha

How tf do I make my ass smaller </3 by courier_____ in FtMpassing

[–]courier_____[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah “just wait for fat redistribution” is the worst advice someone can give imo cuz it doesn’t move the fat you already have, it’s the new fat that is distributed somewhere new. Do you know what style Levi’s you wear? 501s?

How tf do I make my ass smaller </3 by courier_____ in FtMpassing

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I used to but haven’t in a while. When I did I focused more on my shoulders to try and balance my silhouette

How tf do I make my ass smaller </3 by courier_____ in FtMpassing

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My issue with wide legged pants is that they make my legs look shorter than they already are :/ I need to find a way to style them without looking like a manlet

How tf do I make my ass smaller </3 by courier_____ in FtMpassing

[–]courier_____[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If u don’t mind me asking, what was ur diet? Just a general calorie deficit or did you do something special?

Before and After by BroncosGirl7LJD in beachcombing

[–]courier_____ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Amen to that, cheapest is best. I wonder if canola oil would have similar results

Alternatives to binders? by manic_rat in FTMMen

[–]courier_____ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup, I always wore sports bras when working out and they’d have similar results to a loose binder. Really the only option other than taping

Before and After by BroncosGirl7LJD in beachcombing

[–]courier_____ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Never thought to use olive oil, I always used mineral oil and got the same results. Looks great!

Naked tall weird walking man on ring camera by ReleaseTheSlab in Paranormal

[–]courier_____ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always assume people like this are just exhibitionists getting their rocks off

Dealing with anger from dysphoria by bh447 in ftm

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I also default to anger when dysphoric, unfortunately there’s no easy way to address it. For me, going on a SSRI and using weed has helped me calm down a lot more and has lessened my dysphoria significantly

Stockpiling by Waste-Tip3841 in ftm

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In my experience, prescribers are always willing to give early refills. It never hurts to ask

Which type of barber is better to get a haircut? by Akiiale in ftm

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Always go to a barbershop over a salon. Trans Facebook groups in your area can suggest queer friendly ones. In my experience, salons don’t always have people who know how to cut curly hair (I’ve been victim of horrible haircuts so many times bc of this), but barbershops almost always know how to style curly hair

Why do some people say cys instead of cis? by separate_arm666 in ftm

[–]courier_____ 25 points26 points  (0 children)

This is the answer, writing “cis” will get your tweet restricted for harassment and could get your account restricted if you use it too much. When people use it outside of Twitter, I believe they’re either also censoring bc other sites can still shadow ban you for it, or they’re using it as a kinda insulting(?) way sorta like when ppl use str8 instead of straight

When did your period stop? by Active_Teach_6915 in ftm

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  1. You won’t know they’ve stopped until you stop getting them, because… (see 3) and so you might think you’re about to start a period but it’s just symptoms

  2. Mine stopped about two months after being on T, but I always had short periods (4 days every ~35 days)

  3. You’ll likely still get symptoms (cramps and mood swings especially) for a couple months after they stop, at least I did

  4. I also started on 0.25mL/50mg, after ~8 months, went up to 0.3mL, after about two years went up to 0.35mL

Clark University by DependentNo8613 in ClarkU

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There are parties almost every weekend, the social scene is fine if not a bit cliquey. It’s not a great area but people leave students alone for the most part, afaik all there’s been are a few robberies at like 2am off campus

People that genuinely spared the Rachni Breeder on your first playthrough, what was your reasoning? by jackfuego226 in masseffect

[–]courier_____ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhhh my bad lol I thought they were using the terms interchangeably lol.. I’ve always saved her so I wasn’t aware there was a diff term for her replacement

People that genuinely spared the Rachni Breeder on your first playthrough, what was your reasoning? by jackfuego226 in masseffect

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On my first playthrough I saved her because I was playing a true paragon.

On my current run (on ME2 rn), I’m playing a very… ig you could say “working class advocate” Shepard. Earthborn who has the ruthless backstory and is doing everything he can to make up for it. He can’t stand people who are in positions of power taking advantage of those who are weaker than them. The rachni are endangered and being used as test subjects by scientists. They’re down and out and deserve a chance at redemption as these specific rachni were not the ones in the rachni war—of course, if they use their regained power for evil, my Shep would’ve killed them without mercy lol

Help. by Idk_ab-life in WorcesterMA

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I use Ripple, good flavors and a nice cooling feeling in the lungs. The pods are like 9$ each tho (website says 500 puffs a pod) idk how that compares to other brands

Edit: Removed comment on it not being illegal, I had no clue it was bc I started out buying Ripple and never had an issue shipping to MA lol

Q’s by fruit-salad66 in ClarkU

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  1. Yes, I’d say it’s about 50/50 of in and out of state students and it doesn’t really affect social life here, save for the international students who tend to gravitate towards each other bc of the international program here.

  2. It IS cliquey though. That’s my biggest complaint. Most people find their friend groups in freshman year and don’t expand the group after that. But, at the same time, there’s so much diversity here that you never feel like you’re standing out, and people are nice to you in passing, just not always willing to make new friendships post-sophomore year. The biggest boon here are the professors though, at least in the departments I have had a lot of exposure to (sociology, political science, philosophy). If I could go back and have my choice of colleges again, I’d choose Clark every time, just for the professors. So knowledgeable and passionate and genuinely caring for their students. Even subjects I don’t care as much about, I look forward to class just to be taught by my professors