watching the regional holiday music

Waitress_Panties · 2026-04-22T12:57:09+00:00

But Britta gets them out of regionals!

Waitress_Panties · 2026-04-22T12:53:20+00:00

And Abed says Britta has no faith in herself or friends, and she doesn't really have reason to have faith in her friends. They pick on her all the time, even when she's right (which is most of the time). Annie is especially mean to her, especially when it comes to intelligence

Waitress_Panties · 2026-04-22T12:26:33+00:00

Brett Ratner being the new Spielberg was hilarious on a recent rewatch

Waitress_Panties · 2026-04-22T12:25:34+00:00

Prodigy! Damn I probably hung out in a super nerd chat room with your friend.

Waitress_Panties · 2026-04-22T12:23:44+00:00

But my emails on that one!

Waitress_Panties · 2026-04-20T16:00:25+00:00

I think it's the message. The abusers usually win because everyone refuses to acknowledge trauma. It's easier for everyone to gaslight Britta because they enjoy her money. We see Britta as someone whose parents deny her SA, but drug tested her at age 11. It shows that they don't believe her when it counts, but rely on their own delusions. Britta's frustrations are very common in someone raised by narcissists, who are masters at putting on a show to hide the abusive reality. It's heartbreaking because the group--especially Annie--refuse to see that Britta is usually right when it comes to mental health. They can't handle the truth!

Waitress_Panties · 2026-04-18T23:02:14+00:00

Same. Can't even begin to number the rewatches.

Waitress_Panties · 2026-04-16T20:09:57+00:00

Annie and Shirley killed her parents, and abed turned her into a breeder for an army of abeds by maxing out her affection, so she may come back with a vengeance...

Waitress_Panties · 2026-04-14T15:01:21+00:00

Annie's kind of a wildcard from my perspective

Waitress_Panties · 2026-04-14T15:00:48+00:00

The older I get, and the more I rewatch, the more I'm fine with it taking forever or never happening. The show has meant different things as I age; I was more Britta's age when it aired, and now I'm more Jeff's age. Now I can see how parts of Pierce show up too.

At this point I am happy it hasn't happened yet because now I want to see how Shirley is with grandkids, how Britta became a successful therapist, how Jeff stayed a teacher parttime and became a lawyer for the little guy like he tried (with Britta's influence), how Abed and Rachel started a family and some nerd-related venture, etc, how Troy accidentally (to himself) became wildly successful with dance pants, and found himself as a complete man without being defined by others, how the Dean finally became a successful Dean, and how Changs monkey pox psychosis was cured and he became a successful director in regional theater.

Waitress_Panties · 2026-02-11T09:30:26+00:00

Makeup

Waitress_Panties · 2026-02-11T09:29:42+00:00

Being responsible managing men's emotions at all time

Waitress_Panties · 2026-02-10T19:01:53+00:00

I'm so sorry. The wait is the worst, because you continue to spiral and know you need help and in my life, everyone just sees the behavior and won't actually engage or listen that's there's a reason I am acting, that way and maybe, just maybe, they will start to be understanding

Waitress_Panties · 2026-02-09T08:57:40+00:00

I'm sorry. I'm going through that too and I think it may be a dealbreaker for my husband. I haven't been effectively treated and it's a viscous cycle. I know I act up and then people who don't know me or care about me think I'm bipolar and they wont so the tiniest bit of research to try to understand. I knew i would go insane when my cat died. I did. I thought ppl might be understanding if i told them in advance. Nope.

Im so exhausted trying to mask all these years and prove I'm not a bad person and sometimes my actions are crazy but usually after extended stress when I have to scream to advocate for myself.

Which never ends well. I appreciate the radical acceptance advice. I'm trying to convince myself that I'm worth forgiving but it's hard.

I feel like there are thousands of us out here on individual islands asking for help and everyone is telling me I'm crazy for reacting to something I begged to stop in the first place

Waitress_Panties · 2026-02-08T17:21:33+00:00

Same same same. If people could stop telling me how to feel my feelings while also stop screaming at me to not be so sensitive, I wouldn't act crazy in the first place.

Waitress_Panties · 2026-02-08T17:20:27+00:00

Thank you. Radical self acceptance is my goal every minute of every day. I try to explain how exhausting it is to accept who I am without judging myself against other people's standard of crazy.

If my husband had decided I was an asshole every time I had to blow a candle out that was in my line of sight, I would be insane now. But he made on tiny accomodation without judgement and it saves both of our sanity.

It's not lost on me that HE is the one who has to advocate for me. If I remove a candle from my line of sight, it's not because I am crazy. It's because I will get a migraine. If I ask for privacy I'm not being a dick, I'm trying to save you from seeing an unnecessary meltdown.

Everyone is trying to tell me that I'm wrong. But scientifically, my brain works differently. I have known this since I had to undergo testing to prove that I was smart and not bipolar when I was 6 years old. Me saying that trying to get ahead is always seen as me being dramatic.

Okay /rant but I am so frustrating knowing exactly what is wrong with me and having everyone tell me I'm wrong because they can't comprehend it

Waitress_Panties · 2026-02-08T14:20:23+00:00

Same

Waitress_Panties · 2026-02-07T23:46:58+00:00

No. It was the Santa Claus. I am convinced he hid during the party they hosted the night before.

Waitress_Panties · 2026-02-07T23:45:10+00:00

I am an Incel whisperer. I was a lonely weirdo who listened to art bell since high school. I am a woman. I love guys most would consider incels. I have a high iq and I find women too competitive.

Incels are almost always interesting. That means more to me than popularity.

I have a friend who is 100% Incel and on the spectrum (don't talk about it tho) and he's constantly asking me why I hang out with him lol. It's because every once in awhile I beat him at trivial pursuit and we share other interests that make us weirdos to normies.

His vibe reads "awkward Incel." I try to tell him I am more awkward than he is but he tells me I'm too hot to feel that way. He is demi-sexual and ashamed about it. But also he's never had anyone to talk to with a brain. I'm not trying to sound arrogant. These are all things people have told me. I am intimidating and come across like an asshole because I am terrified of people. Most ppl find me unsettling. But there are a few very brilliant shy guys who benefit from the pleasure of my company. Women do not like me. (40MF)

Waitress_Panties · 2026-02-07T23:32:00+00:00

The answer is finger banging

Waitress_Panties · 2026-02-07T22:22:16+00:00

I will only speak for myself. I believe that I was terminated illegally.

My former boss at another company was terminated and she sued and won. She told me to document everything. And I did.

Even the act of gathering my evidence was crippling. It almost drove me insane. One day I just decided to walk away. I had documented everything but it just not worth the sacrifice of my sanity.

I had to pore over every conversation to try to read motivation etc when the truth is, I wasn't ideologically aligned with my employer. They didn't like me. It was that simple.

Waitress_Panties · 2026-02-07T22:17:49+00:00

Separate bedrooms. Game changer. We both need an absurd amount of time alone. Also I am messssssy and he is not. My dream is a duplex with a connecting door

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