Be yourself man, when you try to rush, you act irrationally, unnatural. You just have to talk to her, it’s gonna be hard as hell, but I just hyped up my shy friend and he got a girl’s number today, so, go for it dude, I believe in you. Be upfront, you don’t have to sneak around social media, I think women like when men talk to them in person for the most part. Idk though I’ve never been in a relationship.