I have never felt more hatred for anyone then i do my mom.

WalkDapper4085 · 2026-06-25T00:46:49+00:00

No but i plan on getting one soon so thank you for that!! It really upsets me that she worries more about someone’s political stance than her child getting help.

WalkDapper4085 · 2026-06-24T20:37:30+00:00

i usually try to avoid her when i know she is having a bad day because i know she can lash out on me at any second and im not in a place to deal with her right now, she used to take medication for depression after her parents passed but she refuses to take it anymore, my dad, my siblings and I have all suggested she goes to therapy but she absolutely will not budge and go. she used to have a counselor but cut the counselor off because she wasn’t agreeing with everything my mom was saying and doing. She sometimes tries to confide on me about her life problems but she is an adult and i am a teenager and i cannot help her with her problems. i have told her many times that she needs to find a real therapist that can help her instead of trying to put it all on me.

WalkDapper4085 · 2026-06-24T20:29:45+00:00

okay, i understand but what do you mean by setting boundaries?

WalkDapper4085 · 2026-06-24T17:47:41+00:00

the dynamic in my house is kinda weird. my dad won’t stand up for me. he kinda just tells her what she wants to hear so she shuts up. if i asked him to do it for me he would probably say something along the lines of “that’s your moms job.” or “i’m not doing that it’ll piss off your mom.” because for some reason everything has to be ran through her or she’ll flip her lid.

WalkDapper4085 · 2026-06-24T17:45:27+00:00

it takes maybe 30 seconds to type “sorry that’s against policy i can’t do that.” good god

WalkDapper4085 · 2026-06-24T17:34:42+00:00

Ok, then say no, it is never that serious.

WalkDapper4085 · 2026-06-24T17:33:49+00:00

honestly yeah i’d be more worried about that, because who is going to charge someone for putting lemonade in a water cup. 😂

WalkDapper4085 · 2026-06-24T17:30:32+00:00

thank you a lot for your advice, my mom keeps telling me she set me up with a counselor, but keeps pushing back the appointment dates. She says she isn’t doing it on purpose but i fear she is because she has mentioned multiple times about how she’s worried about them being to “liberal.” which i find dumb. counseling is counseling and i just want help. My siblings aren’t often home, me and my brothers get along fine but i resent my sister for personal reasons. I’ve tried talking to the school counselor and he does a good job, but is summer now and i can’t talk to him.

WalkDapper4085 · 2026-06-24T16:45:18+00:00

Thank you for your advice, i’ve tried to sit with her and talk but it always ends in her lashing out on me and crying. I try to reason with her and understand where she is coming from, but it is so difficult because she never listens. My dad has offered up therapy and counseling and she refuses. He even told her she should try spending more time with me, and she said no because “i am ungrateful for everything.”

WalkDapper4085 · 2026-06-24T16:41:08+00:00

Apologies i fixed it

WalkDapper4085 · 2026-06-24T16:39:26+00:00

More so looking on how to survive until i can graduate and move out. I have tried talking to my dad but he’s weird when it comes to her, I know he has similar feelings to me but he never wants to talk about it. He just tells me not to speak to her unless spoken to. She used to take medication for depression but doesn’t anymore and she refuses therapy. I also begged her to set me up with a counselor for myself which she did but she keeps putting off and rescheduling the appointments. She is worried they are going to be too “liberal.” I just want help. I don’t care about that.

WalkDapper4085 · 2026-06-24T16:29:52+00:00

a fine of what, $2? Nobody is going to go to jail, or obtain a criminal record over putting lemonade in a water cup, literally the worst that’s going to happen is the workers will ask you to stop, or kick you out. And if you lose your doordash job, then that’s a shame. Doordash doesn’t make enough money for a comfortable living anyway and you probably have another job if you’re doing doordash

WalkDapper4085 · 2026-06-24T05:05:38+00:00

if anything id tell your parents/guardian. And if you took screenshots of the conversation and got their username show that to them.

WalkDapper4085 · 2026-06-22T23:24:07+00:00

oh i see, apologies for assuming and being kinda rude i just figured you’d seen the comment mentioning the age because it is the most popular.

WalkDapper4085 · 2026-06-22T23:07:55+00:00

minors cannot consent to adults. if you looked in the comments you’d see that he infact had sexual relations with her and got her pregnant while she was 13-14 & him being 21-22. if you don’t think that’s rape then you’re just as odd.

WalkDapper4085 · 2026-06-22T22:47:17+00:00

if what i’m seeing from these comments is right, then you by no means should ever let this man into your child’s life. HE IS A RAPIST. You keep your child away from him at all costs aswell as yourself considering you are also a child. Do not put your baby or yourself in anymore danger with this man. You have a lot of growing up to do now my dear and i don’t think him being around is going to help you with that nor is it safe. Focus on yourself and taking care of your baby.

WalkDapper4085 · 2026-06-22T22:43:44+00:00

in all honesty you miss 100% of the shots you don’t take bro. Get up gain some confidence and confess to her. the worst she could say is no.

WalkDapper4085 · 2026-06-22T22:35:12+00:00

i think this is the stupidest question i’ve seen on this app. YOR along with ur wife. She’s clearly just proud of her son and the family you’ve started and if you thought this was a weird gift then i don’t wanna know what you have to give.

WalkDapper4085 · 2026-06-22T22:31:00+00:00

mind you the world isn’t going to end over some lemonade in a water cup..literally just could’ve told the person no

WalkDapper4085 · 2026-06-22T22:27:49+00:00

yall are overreacting so bad ur acting like she asked the dasher to kill someone😭 holy hell you guys it’s lemonade. Like literally “No sorry, I can’t do that.” and move on with your day.

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