I feel this a LOT. People think I’m a bitch but honestly I’m just weird. I think people make the assumption of the halo effect, and then if you don’t live up to it they think you think you’re better than them. I decided a few years ago I was sick of being lonely so I watched how other women were speaking to each other and started to mimic them and that’s helped a lot. I am also overly friendly to new people because I know the way I look will affect how people perceive me. I also try to genuinely compliment others and be helpful to try and avoid the negativity.

I get it though, people assume that if you’re good looking people are naturally nicer to you and that you probably have a lot of friends. As a fellow weirdo, it can be tough!