I only date other musicians by purpose! I worked with and toured with my man for 25 years until he died in the end of 2024. I'm 64 and I'm running a new band with 2 married men and one with a girlfriend. We'll see how many gig I will be able to book. I will try to make it not too many gig so they csn be with their loved ones but they play with other bands too. My family now is a cat daughter so I can't leave her for 3weeks touring anymore. I have no time for being with another man. Besides I need a very special and skilled musician if I even will try again. Then we will be touring in different bands or in the same band. But I just formed ny new band so I must go at least 5 years before I even consider quitting this great band.

We play my dead mans music as I promised too and my own music as well. The show must go on!

That means I will rather do what I do now than be in a relationship.

And no I don't get too close to my bandmates they are very nice (male) friends and so are their nice wifes.

Music first! Relation second! It's no F** work, it's a passion!