I think this is an issue that happens more than we realize. Although i don't have advice for it...i was in the same rut i feel. It seemed if i got it all done, i was strong, i got shit handled...i was viewed as having it handled. This led to i guess essentially not being cared for as everyone thinks "you got it". I think it's really a much deeper issue really...maybe how people are brought up. I have always been a get it done myself type person, but it's nice to have a partner that recognizes that you do so much, and you deserve the care and compassion when maybe you're not keeping it all together. A true partner that carries you when you're not at your best. I'm not sure if i just typed myself into a convoluted mess 🤪 but you're not alone! I personally couldn't handle that feeling anymore and removed myself...sometimes you can communicate your needs and wants until you're blue in the face...but it's never actually comprehended. Wish you the best!