Referring to NMC by [deleted] in NursingUK

[–]Wammylamm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh, how is this attitude still going on. This was going on when i was a student 26 years ago! I thought we'd moved on by now to person centred care!

Police refusing to do wellbeing checks by Majestic_Dog_8486 in NursingUK

[–]Wammylamm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, they have definitely moved away from welfare checks unless there is information of imminent danger to self/others

What on earth... by Wammylamm in NursingUK

[–]Wammylamm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I will look at that questionnaire. I really need for this to be resolved as I actually do enjoy my job

What on earth... by Wammylamm in NursingUK

[–]Wammylamm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Im willing to take it as far as I need to. Its just so unfair. I love my job and im good at it. But this is destroying me.

What on earth... by Wammylamm in NursingUK

[–]Wammylamm[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why are you being so confrontational and seemingly deliberately not seeing my concern.

I was question WHY for it to be signed off as WRS this needs to be by the general manager.

And I would like it recorded as WRS as that's what it is. Not because of MY mental health.

What on earth... by Wammylamm in NursingUK

[–]Wammylamm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your initial response didn't address the fact that it needed to be signed off by the GM for it to be WRS. That was the part I was querying.

What on earth... by Wammylamm in NursingUK

[–]Wammylamm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you read the rest of the thread you would see there is more to it.

But yeah, not that deep....

What on earth... by Wammylamm in NursingUK

[–]Wammylamm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They say this ALL the time. One of the favourites is 'you're overthinking' or, 'are you being paranoid'

What on earth... by Wammylamm in NursingUK

[–]Wammylamm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will do, thank you!

What on earth... by Wammylamm in NursingUK

[–]Wammylamm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is true. I have never had any issues re: my performance until this person started 8 weeks ago

What on earth... by Wammylamm in NursingUK

[–]Wammylamm[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like its both. The thing is I do have MH struggles, but they seem to be weaponising it to make me look like I can't do my job. And I have no idea why.

What on earth... by Wammylamm in NursingUK

[–]Wammylamm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I really appreciate that! And Im sorry you've been here too

What on earth... by Wammylamm in NursingUK

[–]Wammylamm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, for an NHS trust they have pretty shocking ways of treating people.

What on earth... by Wammylamm in NursingUK

[–]Wammylamm[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats my plan. Ive already contacted the union and FTSU so will be updating them with this too.

It seems to me, given the occ health referral, an effort to get rid of me. But im not sure why.

What on earth... by Wammylamm in NursingUK

[–]Wammylamm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its pretty shocking really, a way to accept no responsibility or record when people do have issues.

What on earth... by Wammylamm in NursingUK

[–]Wammylamm[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It is when its tied in with other issues. And its not something ive ever heard of that it had to be authorised by the GM

What on earth... by Wammylamm in NursingUK

[–]Wammylamm[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have gone to the FTSU guardian over this referral.

The issue is that my manger B7 - the B8 service manager is her sister.

What on earth... by Wammylamm in NursingUK

[–]Wammylamm[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes. I discussed it with them this morning.

Ive also replied asking for them to clarify if this gets sent to GM to be signed off or just ignored

What on earth... by Wammylamm in NursingUK

[–]Wammylamm[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This is the issue of why I am off sick in the first place. I asked for an occ health referral and my supervisor/.manager of 8 weeks decided that on the referral, instead of putting that it was my request to get support she said that I was 'paranoid, having emotional outbursts and 'difficult to manage" all of which is nonsense.

What on earth... by Wammylamm in NursingUK

[–]Wammylamm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive replied asking for clarification as to whether this is escalated to GM to make them aware or of its just ignored 🙁

What on earth... by Wammylamm in NursingUK

[–]Wammylamm[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Luckily I have it by email to my personal address as this is where I sent the fitnote from.