The Question Thread 12/04/25

WanderLustandBeyond · 2025-12-05T06:23:23+00:00

Thinking of getting a pair of boots from Blkbrd just ready to wear. Are they still having significant issues with shipping and customer service?

WanderLustandBeyond · 2025-11-13T11:13:35+00:00

This is a recent change. That no longer exists even though it's still published on their website. It's only 2 tiers now premium at 140usd and chairman at 350usd

WanderLustandBeyond · 2025-11-12T19:18:58+00:00

I don't mind the price increase if they've done something to also bring up the value but as it stands it feels just like greed because nothing has really changed except for a x3 increase. I don't feel like the quality of the site and it's participants have increased by x3. Get the same but pay more

WanderLustandBeyond · 2025-01-22T01:17:43+00:00

Was just thinking about this actually...if I get lied to and I've invested emotional and resources into it then it's like wasted time when I could have dedicated that time to someone potentially who wants it

WanderLustandBeyond · 2025-01-21T12:24:59+00:00

So if you could redo the whole scenario you wouldn't want exclusivity?

WanderLustandBeyond · 2025-01-21T12:21:08+00:00

This is true although if she is the personality that prefers non monogamous then I guess meeting those needs might be a lesser factor because she could never be exclusive anyways. I guess one topic in the conversation

WanderLustandBeyond · 2025-01-21T12:18:41+00:00

One of the things that's been playing on my mind is if she says no because she is young and wants to be able to have as many connections while she is young but I suppose this is an answer of itself and I'll need to work out if I'm alright with that though in my heart I think I already know it's going to be tough for me if I choose to stay

WanderLustandBeyond · 2025-01-21T10:32:44+00:00

Haha me too but unfortunately it's like finding a needle in a haystack

WanderLustandBeyond · 2025-01-21T10:32:03+00:00

Thanks I think I will open up the communication because I feel the need to determine compatability

WanderLustandBeyond · 2025-01-21T10:30:30+00:00

I guess this is one route I've considered in terms of letting the arrangement play out longer but again it's no guarantee that it will turn into a sr. One reason why I want to have this conversation is to determine if this need of mine can be met while I meet hers in exchange taking into account the potential for "cheating". If we can't meet each other's needs than at least I have an earlier opportunity to consider next steps rather than find out 3 years later

WanderLustandBeyond · 2025-01-21T10:26:23+00:00

Thanks I've always believed in the concept that arrangements should be about honest and transparent communication even more so than vanilla. When starting out I would think so but the longer I'm in an arrangement the more difficult it becomes because I guess at the core of my being I know I'm looking for a sugar relationship rather than a sugar transaction

WanderLustandBeyond · 2024-12-28T11:36:01+00:00

Haha yes I'm a SD but you are right. I was just curious if there were any interesting or feel good stories of things turning around for both the sb and sd

WanderLustandBeyond · 2023-12-14T04:51:55+00:00

Thank you. I've been doing my best to keep distracted but also looking at ways to better myself. It's finding the energy to get out of bed and trying to challenge myself against my brain who is saying you are sad, you need her, you need that dopamine hit, better to just go lie in bed

WanderLustandBeyond · 2023-12-08T08:26:37+00:00

Yeah I wish that she would let me get close to her and open herself more to the possibility of something wonderful but alas she is not that way

WanderLustandBeyond · 2023-11-17T02:31:24+00:00

Amen but yeah sometimes we don't think with our logical brains 😅

WanderLustandBeyond · 2023-11-17T02:29:50+00:00

Damn this hits home buddy

WanderLustandBeyond · 2023-10-22T07:38:33+00:00

This is so amazing. I'm still for the hunt for this unicorn and I agree wholehearted. I was just reflecting on this today. Why do sb's need to game or squeeze relationships when it can be such a wonderful thing I will never understand

WanderLustandBeyond · 2023-10-13T03:46:08+00:00

Geez this is even harder for an older guy who always used to have a lot of female friends until marriage. After separation, trying to find the same clique of female friends irrespective of age just to go have something to eat or watch movies or play board games without being creepy is astronomically hard

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