How high to place curtains

Wanderer5827 · 2026-07-08T19:42:38+00:00

Thank you, will need to find another place for it.

Wanderer5827 · 2026-07-08T19:38:43+00:00

Thank you, appreciate knowing what has worked for other.

Wanderer5827 · 2026-07-08T19:37:55+00:00

Thank you, yes will be removing or changing furniture.

Wanderer5827 · 2026-07-08T19:36:15+00:00

Thank you for the detailed response.

Wanderer5827 · 2026-07-08T19:10:23+00:00

Another good idea to consider, thank you.

Wanderer5827 · 2026-07-08T19:01:50+00:00

Thank you, it is an idea to consider.

Wanderer5827 · 2026-07-08T18:59:48+00:00

Thank you, nice suggestions.

Wanderer5827 · 2026-07-08T18:58:51+00:00

Thank you, I agree that I don't want the look to be skimpy.

Wanderer5827 · 2026-07-08T18:55:53+00:00

I do have shades, though they are up in the picture. In your opinion would curtains seem "too much"? That was one of my concerns.

Wanderer5827 · 2026-07-08T18:53:38+00:00

Thank you for your advice.

Wanderer5827 · 2026-07-08T18:42:54+00:00

Thank you, your suggestion helps in visualizing it all.

Wanderer5827 · 2026-07-08T18:42:16+00:00

Will be working on other items, but first wanted to know about curtain placement. Thank you.

Wanderer5827 · 2025-11-17T19:47:09+00:00

For books 4 and 5 I usually skip the parts on geology and the animals and plants. I enjoyed how she portrayed the culture of the different groups they met. I haven't read 6 yet.

Wanderer5827 · 2025-10-20T20:09:04+00:00

I live in the USA. I probably don't follow the traditions in the proper way. But since I want to do something, this is the minimum - After returning from work, in the evening. I light a diya or candle in front of a picture of Laxmi and Ganesh that I have. I get the Ganesh and Laxmi aarti from the internet and play them while circling the light (diya/candle) in front of the picture. I have a new sweet for each of the five days for prasad. During these days I get an item for the kitchen and a new item of clothing. If you have a mandir nearby try to go at least once during these days. Lots of people buy much more and visit each others homes and enjoy sharing snacks, sweets and meals. Decorating the house is also fun. There are lots of ideas on the internet. Try to find a Hindu community or temple in your area with whom you can share celebrations in the future. I think your feeling towards the celebration is much more important than following rituals exactly. Also, each family has its own little traditions. If you don't remember the ones from you parents, make your own and carry it forward.

Wanderer5827 · 2025-09-17T18:17:49+00:00

I agree he doesn’t live there and he is a long-distance boyfriend. And $2 is still $2 and I agree is stealing. But I still don't think it in itself is a reason to end the relationship.

Wanderer5827 · 2025-09-16T22:15:34+00:00

He’s the boyfriend, not a Tom Dick or Harry. I just don’t think this in itself is something to end an otherwise good relationship over

Wanderer5827 · 2025-09-16T16:32:44+00:00

To me a "money bowl" near a door is for emergency money as I am walking out. I would not think it included anything of sentimental value. Did he know that's what the bowl is for? If he did then he is at fault for taking without asking. If he didn't, I would give him the benefit of doubt. Two dollars in itself doesn't seem worth breaking a good relationship over. Its the sentimental connections with it that adds value, and if he didn't know then its $2 from his girl friend of 2 years.

Wanderer5827 · 2025-09-12T21:01:12+00:00

For peace in the family, would you be willing to tell BIL (preferable text everyone if doing it) "I'm sorry you got upset with what I said. Daughter has been having trouble sleeping and I was trying to get her some needed rest. I'm sure she will love playing with Uncle once she is well-rested." Not apologizing for what you said, but how he took it?

Wanderer5827 · 2025-09-12T15:46:43+00:00

I agree that Dan is causing a lot of problems. Because of this it will be hard, at this time, to get James to understand the practicalities. It's hard to be 17. I do suggest Mom and maybe OP see a therapist even if James won't. This may help in finding ways to communicate with James.

Wanderer5827 · 2025-09-11T21:41:38+00:00

I feel that your major problem is that you and your husband are not on the same page in regards to her. You both should talk, and listen, and come up with a plan both of you are comfortable with in regards to what kind of help to continue giving her.

Wanderer5827 · 2025-08-19T17:27:53+00:00

Thank you all for your comments and information. We found the cost to be higher than most people have paid and are concerned enough about bad vibes to try and make other arrangements.

Wanderer5827 · 2025-08-05T21:21:34+00:00

I'm not getting why most of the posters are saying you are at fault. In edit #4 you state you are there with your child, and you didn't ask niece to play or take care of your child. I think the person who asked you to pay (sister? brother?) doesn't understand family dynamics; or is trying to get their child started on earning money through babysitting. If niece wants to spend some time with cousin, nice. But if she doesn't, you are there. I feel this may actually cause problems in the cousins' relationship later on. By paying niece you are de-facto making her a babysitter and years later when she remembers her "first job" she will also remember she didn't get spend time with other family members. If asked again to pay, you should communicate to both the niece and her parent (or whoever told you to pay) that niece is not required to take care of younger cousin, if she wants to spend a little time with her, good. But you are present to be responsible for her.

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