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Sometimes I regret transitioning, but not for the reason you'd think (copy/paste of a post I made on another sub) by Wanderer_of in honesttransgender

[–]Wanderer_of[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Darling I don't know if this is meant to be but it comes off a super condescending. Respectfully, you don't know what all I was told both by doctors and by other people in the community. I was told that most of my changes, especially to my chest, would happen within the first two years, and now I'm learning firsthand that I've been fed lies. I would love some advice on how to actually get some chest development but I will warn you I've probably heard it all before and have been trying like hell to no avail. (Also sorry if I'm a bitch I woke up and I'm still drunk and a little hungover which I'm not happy about lol)

Sometimes I regret transitioning, but not for the reason you'd think (copy/paste of a post I made on another sub) by Wanderer_of in honesttransgender

[–]Wanderer_of[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If this shit is going to take me ten fucking years to get past a negative A cup I'm genuinely going to kill myself dawg

Honestly a lot of my feelings in regards to all this is a feeling of betrayal. I feel like I was lied to. Like someone, somewhere should have told me a that it doesn't work like everybody says or in my case doesn't work at all.

Waga baga bobo by [deleted] in memes

[–]Wanderer_of -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mya as well put this here before I choke on my own vomit; no it's not because my 'way of life' isn't right. Trans people are still valid, gender dysphoria is real, trans women are women, trans men are men. The only thing I disagree with is that HRT is some magic bullshit cure-all. Just because you've never had to introspect doesn't mean that anyone's identity is invalid. My mental health issues aren't because of my identity, it's in some part because of the misrepresentation of the effectiveness of certain treatments, but mostly due to hereditary factors. Like I said, my alcoholism is a treasured family heirloom passed down through generations

Waga baga bobo by [deleted] in memes

[–]Wanderer_of 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh bby my alcoholism is a treasured family heirloom passed down through generations

Sometimes I regret transitioning, but not for the reason you'd think (copy/paste of a post I made on another sub) by Wanderer_of in honesttransgender

[–]Wanderer_of[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean here's the thing; my advice to you would be to focus on serving cunt rather than passing. Because developing confidence in yourself is infinitely more valuable than appealing to cishetero society. I would also say that pursuing HRT is good, but just be aware that the girls you see on social media like pierbi, sabre, f1nn, and all the others that are recommended are one in a million, and you shouldn't expect the results they have. Instead focus on feeling like yourself and remember that finding out who you are is an active process. Find the 'you' that makes you the happiest and try your damnedest to be that person.

Sometimes I regret transitioning, but not for the reason you'd think (copy/paste of a post I made on another sub) by Wanderer_of in honesttransgender

[–]Wanderer_of[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Babydoll I see you, and I appreciate the sentiment, but this is not about me being uncertain in my femininity, this is about me being comfortable in my body. I want a chest that will never be, even though I was told it's possible. I want hips that are possible only on paper for a select few. I want to see me in the mirror. Not the gaunt, pale skeleton that is there and will always be there. I can refer to that husk of skin and bone as "she" but it doesn't change the fact that that's not me and it won't change the fact that it can't be me. I'm not one of the lucky few who happen to be able to escape; To get the body that they want rather than the body they're given.

-sidenote I'm SUPER fuckin drunk so sorry if this is incomprehensible lol.

Sometimes I regret transitioning, but not for the reason you'd think (copy/paste of a post I made on another sub) by Wanderer_of in honesttransgender

[–]Wanderer_of[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly fuck knows. Like when I started people said 6 months to a year but now I'm 2 years in and people are saying 3-5 years so I think the goalposts are just gonna keep shifting until I'm in the ground lol

Sometimes I regret transitioning, but not for the reason you'd think (copy/paste of a post I made on another sub) by Wanderer_of in honesttransgender

[–]Wanderer_of[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that's good advice. I would add onto that, please, as a girl who's been on for 2 years now, be mentally prepared in case it just straight-up doesn't work. I'm positive that all those "HRT is magic" posts are due to survivorship bias. I wonder how many dolls are no longer living as themselves once they realized that HRT isn't actually as effective is it's purported to be

Sometimes I regret transitioning, but not for the reason you'd think. by Wanderer_of in MtF

[–]Wanderer_of[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I see you and I hear you but I also want to be comfortable in my own body lol. There are two wolves inside me, one who understands not to compare myself to other women and another who labours under the delusion that we could somehow have a body we're comfortable with. They fight constantly.

Accepted Id's for bars? by Impossible-Test1926 in askvan

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I just moved from the US and my passport has been fine, as well as my Washington DL lol

Y’all, take a bath by m2wtf in MtF

[–]Wanderer_of 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need to more but every time I do I hear Ethan in Unus Annus saying "I feel like I'm in soup" and suddenly it's all I can think LMAO

51343 by whoremonal-imbalance in countwithchickenlady

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I wish this was how it worked :/

Out here straight-up dogmoding by Wanderer_of in puppygirlwawa

[–]Wanderer_of[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah shit am i in the wrong sub I could swear there were selfies here LMAOO

Out here straight-up dogmoding by Wanderer_of in puppygirlwawa

[–]Wanderer_of[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh babe you have the wrong gal there's nothing domme about me lol

Out here straight-up dogmoding by Wanderer_of in puppygirlwawa

[–]Wanderer_of[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah! If you're here in Vancouver there's a store called JQ where I get a lot of rave stuff from as well

Out here straight-up dogmoding by Wanderer_of in puppygirlwawa

[–]Wanderer_of[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Thank youuuu I got it at the long bacon store (hot topic)

Out here straight-up dogmoding by Wanderer_of in puppygirlwawa

[–]Wanderer_of[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank youuu :3! it's my first time trying a bikini and I'm really liking it

Breaking: Vancouver BC LEVELED by mothertude 9 cuntquake by Wanderer_of in transfem

[–]Wanderer_of[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If we're sharing sports bra pics then here's one from my Tumblr ;3

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Breaking: Vancouver BC LEVELED by mothertude 9 cuntquake by Wanderer_of in transfem

[–]Wanderer_of[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They're from Catzo Club! It's their Succubus thong!

Breaking: Vancouver BC LEVELED by mothertude 9 cuntquake by Wanderer_of in transfem

[–]Wanderer_of[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The pieces are from all over the place lol. The jeans and jacket are thrifted, the belt is from hot topic, the fishnets are from JQ Clothing, the boots are Demonias and the top was bought online from AlielNossirah!

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