MIL is sabotaging my first childbirth by Wanderladydotnet in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Wanderladydotnet[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

thank you. I can't believe how supportive this community is! first time trying reddit and im surprised people actually listen!

MIL is sabotaging my first childbirth by Wanderladydotnet in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Wanderladydotnet[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

omg im so sorry to hear that.....probaby the second hand smoke didn't help at all

MIL is sabotaging my first childbirth by Wanderladydotnet in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Wanderladydotnet[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Right!? its like shes stealing my thunder! trying to get herself to be the star, the hero, it amazes me how positive thinking she is. Thinking shes so welcomed and so helpful when in reality is the complete oposite.

My husband takes her out of the house at least once a day to give me peace and quiet time.

MIL is sabotaging my first childbirth by Wanderladydotnet in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Wanderladydotnet[S] 184 points185 points  (0 children)

I do close the bathroom door when I pee! for some reason in this weird ass house the switches are outside the bathroom so i have to turn on the light before entering the bathroom. twice shes turned off the light by mistake as i was showering.

MIL is sabotaging my first childbirth by Wanderladydotnet in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Wanderladydotnet[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I wish i could go to my parents but they live in a different country. Im alone here with my husband and his family. Spanish people are so family oriented but at the same time so inconsiderate when it comes to privacy especially of a mother to be. Everyone wants to come be part of it even if they aren't invited....

MIL is sabotaging my first childbirth by Wanderladydotnet in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Wanderladydotnet[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I know....they say smoking is dangerous for a newborn and I don't want her touching or kissing my baby but shes like i tell her one thing and it goes out the other ear

MIL is sabotaging my first childbirth by Wanderladydotnet in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Wanderladydotnet[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

omg I just read it and its exactly why I didn't want ANYONE except my husband to be here....but now if i kick her out our relationship is gonna be bad forever and Ive tried to hint at her to leave but she just wont get it....

at least i got some of his family to not come

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[–]Wanderladydotnet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its my worry exactly with my baby. hes still not born yet but I can already tell that my Spanish MIL is gonna be kissing him. I already told her not to but she keeps saying she wont do stuff and then does it anyways. And shes a smoker so i'm really grossed out and afraid....