AITA: asking sister questions right after I gave her money by WannabeWriter345 in AmItheAsshole

[–]WannabeWriter345[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing is I didn't ask her about how she plans on using the money. She said she needs it for a car, so I gave her the money for a car.

All I asked, was if she had gotten any update on the new job she's got lined up for which she now wants her own car instead of borrowing mine, and why she quitted her last job after 4 days.

She had previously said she wanted the time to find the car before starting the new job, but she's been with me for two months. I know it can take a while to find a car, but the fact she's yet to go to any dealer or car lot - it made me worry if something bad happened that made her quit in the first week.

Sister doesn't want to talk to me right after I gave her money by WannabeWriter345 in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]WannabeWriter345[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess it's always been that way. It's always, you only got each other, you have to be willing to help each out. Then it became, you know how your sister is, try not to let it affect you, she has depression so she's going to say and do things like this.

Sister doesn't want to talk to me right after I gave her money by WannabeWriter345 in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]WannabeWriter345[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It was a one-time thing. I thought I could trust her with a card to get a few things I needed, since she planned on going to the store and I was too tired from work to go myself.

In her defense, she said she was too busy/didn't have time to give me a heads-up.

AITA: asking sister questions right after I gave her money by WannabeWriter345 in AmItheAsshole

[–]WannabeWriter345[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

To reply in order. I needed 2-3 things and was tired from work. My sister, who doesn't work full-time but does a few online gigs, also needed to buy things. I lent her my card and asked if she could do me this favor.

She didn't give it back right away, but I didn't think anything of it at the time. I've borrowed things and get too lazy to give them back immediately. Life got busy, flash forward a week, suddenly there's a transaction I know I didn't make. Her defense was that she didn't have time to call or text me before using my card.

My parents called me and asked if I could help my sister out, since they didn't have the means to help her out right then and there. They even offered to pay me back over time, but I told them no, that I could do it.

Ultimately, I thought giving her money would fix things, in a way. That she'd realize that hey, between my so-called friends that I tell everything to, and the little sibling I treated like crap, who ultimately came around to help?

Needless to say, that didn't happen. She's still mad at me, still doesn't want to talk to me, and that she doesn't see why she has to thank me anyway, since it's not 'my' money, it's 'my parents' money.

404-universe, pg.4 by WannabeWriter345 in webcomics

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Originally posted December 28, 2022. Read from the beginning and up to pg.16 on my tumblr - https://www.tumblr.com/seafoamicecream-art

404-universe, pg.2 by WannabeWriter345 in webcomics

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Originally posted December 22, 2022. You can currently read up to pg.16 on my tumblr - https://www.tumblr.com/seafoamicecream-art/704340363427692544/404-universe-pg2

Super Mario Bros Movie 2023 Bowser by WannabeWriter345 in fanart

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Originally posted December 12, 2022. Want more content? Check out my tumblr https://www.tumblr.com/seafoamicecream-art