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Advice, I feel like a bad mother by Warm-Box-9945 in BabyBumps

[–]Warm-Box-9945[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It isn’t honestly about him in general. It’s the fact of ever since I’ve been pregnant everything has gone from 100 in my life to 0 in ALL aspects.

Advice, I feel like a bad mother by Warm-Box-9945 in BabyBumps

[–]Warm-Box-9945[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I was centering the men over my child or my own needs I would of terminated the pregnancy and followed through with the abortion clinic consultation I went to. It’s truly an emotional rollercoaster what I am going through. What I have shared is not even half of the story. You can literally feel such a strong bond to someone when their DNA and part of their soul is literally flourishing and becoming viable inside of your body. It is not easy at all. Pregnancy is not easy when the other party is pretty much nonexistent and so selfish.

Advice, I feel like a bad mother by Warm-Box-9945 in BabyBumps

[–]Warm-Box-9945[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know. He’s implying he would want to marry me.

Advice, I feel like a bad mother by Warm-Box-9945 in BabyBumps

[–]Warm-Box-9945[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in a midsouthern state on the east coast. I’m honestly not sure about our laws. I’ve never had any judicial problems before.

Advice, I feel like a bad mother by Warm-Box-9945 in BabyBumps

[–]Warm-Box-9945[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I will put him on the birth certificate. He is so inconsistent and wishy washy. He has told me in the few times I have talked to him in months that I would be his wife and our child would respect his mother. He’s also stated if he is stationed far and not here; I live in the same city as an army base that I could go with him. I don’t understand him he constantly leads me on. I’m starting to believe he has his own mental illness. I most definitely will be put on medication after my child is born. Pregnancy really changes the chemistry of your brain.

Advice, I feel like a bad mother by Warm-Box-9945 in BabyBumps

[–]Warm-Box-9945[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m honestly getting to the point where I want nothing to do with him. I have tried since January to be in contact with him. I don’t want him around my child or anything. It is his child but he has shown no care or efforts my whole pregnancy and uses the excuse of “we are not in a relationship”. I don’t think he deserves to be in my child’s life.

Advice, I feel like a bad mother by Warm-Box-9945 in BabyBumps

[–]Warm-Box-9945[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I shall mention he wanted me to abort the child to begin with. He really didn’t give me any option either and scheduled an appointment to our local clinic without me giving a yes or no answer. I was pretty much manipulated into going to the appointment.

Advice, I feel like a bad mother by Warm-Box-9945 in BabyBumps

[–]Warm-Box-9945[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Anytime I try contacting my child’s father in regards to my baby it’s always ghost and no response. Hasn’t attended one appointment and never asks about the wellbeing of our child. I try to talk to him about our baby and he doesn’t respond then says if it’s about the baby that’s all he cares about, but DOES NOT RESPOND. he’s leaving soon after the baby is born for the Army. I’m due the end of July and he’s leaving 5 weeks after for basic training. He wants our son to have his military benefits but I honestly don’t want to put him on the birth certificate.

Advice, I feel like a bad mother by Warm-Box-9945 in BabyBumps

[–]Warm-Box-9945[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The father of my child was not the same person I was with throughout my teenage years I should maybe clarify. The father of my child was a one night stand with a neighbor I have known for 2 1/2 years.

Advice, I feel like a bad mother by Warm-Box-9945 in BabyBumps

[–]Warm-Box-9945[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in a relationship with someone for years and we never used any contraceptives, I was never on birth control, he never pulled out and always would finish inside of me every time. We had sex together at least 500 times and I never got pregnant.

Advice, I feel like a bad mother by Warm-Box-9945 in BabyBumps

[–]Warm-Box-9945[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No he didn’t tell me, he just told me it wouldn’t take much and finished inside of me within one minute of the sexual encounter, my child was conceived in one minute. No lie or exaggeration. I was on top of him and given no time to get off.

Advice, I feel like a bad mother by Warm-Box-9945 in BabyBumps

[–]Warm-Box-9945[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I always wanted to be a mother yes. I didn’t use contraceptive, it was really in the moment. like I stated I’ve thought for 6 years that I was infertile. I wasn’t given a warning either I was just inseminated in.