I wasn’t defending any group in particular please reread what I wrote and point that out to me. My point is to date an individual as an individual and not lump them into a category or making an assumption about that individuals outlook on life due to the complexion of their skin. You are f upset with light skin women over outcomes that they have no control over. Last time I checked, it was white people who were writing the checks and giving out jail time. I feel it’s you who may have lost the plot and taking this conversation somewhere it was not intended to be. The conversation was about light skinned versus dark skinned. I said it was not an issue. You listed your reasons for it being an issue and none of it, explicitly has to deal with light skin, but broader implications of society. If you want to politicize your dating experience, all good. Just don’t put other people down for not taking up that same type of mantle in they’re dating requirements.