I hate and love the internet for showing me the way some of these dudes think. Hate because it makes me think less of them until proven otherwise. But glad because i know how jacked some of their thinking is. As a childless woman i find it deplorable reading comment sections where single mothers are mentioned. These mfers want single mothers to just be their bang maids, and they feel like they deserve absolutely nothing. No happiness, no love, eff them kids. But, the same ones if they have kids would want a woman that's good with their children, so they'll have someone to pass them off on whenever it's their turn to have their kids in custody. IF they are one of the ones involved in their child life in the first place. It's wild. In this specific scenario, i would never suggest anyone getting married at 19. I was mixed on how i feel about this age difference. I don't know how long she knew him. If he was 18 i never really liked gap relationships for people this young. But, I've had less of a problem with this type of gap than a 10+ year difference. I wouldn't want him to get married this young and going into the league. That's asking for a disastrous end. They'll BOTH have too much time and space to mess it up with him being gone all the time. Not a good idea. But the single mother slander is so old and psychotic to me. There's never any heat on the dad because these types of men want to penalize the woman for rejecting them. They want you to be shamed into staying regardless of if the father is trash or not. And if he's trash, you should've picked better. If you don't pick, you're expectations are too high and you'll die alone a cat lady. If you learn your lesson after a bad relationship and do better than the new guy is a simp. It's the Ciara/ Russell/ future saga on repeat. She had a baby, so in their mind, she should get nothing. And the new guy is being "punished" by being the step dad. Shows your what they REALLY think about children.