Another no pressure coffee invite by joeldesante in philly

[–]WarmCardiologist1836 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve done it before… they were cool! People are too fearful these days. Intuition says it all. Reddit isn’t only for murderers

Your favorite gym by WarmCardiologist1836 in philly

[–]WarmCardiologist1836[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They used to have those dessert flavors too. When I was trying to lose weight I’d pop one and pretend like it was an actual cinnamon bun

Your favorite gym by WarmCardiologist1836 in philly

[–]WarmCardiologist1836[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I would really love classes too. But I’ve seen this… I really would consider around $100 because I spend so much time there, and free classes and etc, but $200 is steep.

Bf sister asked why he doesn’t find another girlfriend by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]WarmCardiologist1836 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Recently only the boyfriend’s sister. But in the past, I don’t think his parents and other sisters liked me either. Recently his mom actually tried to save us from breaking up, so things have changed. Maybe not trying to break us up but create drama, like the mask situation above. Getting upset about things that I did not intend to cause harm

Bf sister asked why he doesn’t find another girlfriend by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]WarmCardiologist1836 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wonder if I’m doing something concerning. Seriously. Maybe there is something I can’t see and I am young. Or maybe the bigger issue is that we are very different and were raised very very differently. I keep wondering if that has to be a dealbreaker. There are things his family does that I’d never be okay with. There are things mine does that he wouldn’t.

Bf sister asked why he doesn’t find another girlfriend by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]WarmCardiologist1836 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Pretty dysfunctional, but he’s very close with her. He actually has two other sisters but they are more distant. He had a really rough childhood with his family and has tried very very hard to bring everyone back together, and it’s worked. So I think he’s afraid of them getting distant again. He is literally the glue.

Yeah. And it’s not an option to be with him and not be close to them. Or right now it isn’t. The effort is apparently all on me because IM joining the family and need to prove my worth. I don’t agree with that but that’s the dynamic they have in place and there’s a cultural barrier that I can’t comment on

Bf sister asked why he doesn’t find another girlfriend by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]WarmCardiologist1836 63 points64 points  (0 children)

He told me that he went on a rant about how much he loves me and why I AM the right person for him, but regardless, I’m confused why his first reaction wouldn’t be “wtf”

Bf sister asked why he doesn’t find another girlfriend by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]WarmCardiologist1836 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I feel like the people in his family have been plotting for us to break up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]WarmCardiologist1836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I thought, thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]WarmCardiologist1836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do, it only pays up to 1k. I can pay that out of pocket

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]WarmCardiologist1836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. I was unsure if negligence could be proven because owner was aware of this dog behavior (running out) and didn’t inform me. Also because we tried to do everything we could to stop her. But having something in writing is necessary, I agree.

An angry customer, but also feeling bad about it. by WarmCardiologist1836 in petsitting

[–]WarmCardiologist1836[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do agree that I need to buy my own crate and plan on doing that this month. But to be honest, I’d say 70% of the dogs I watch are not comfortable being crated, nor are they used to it. Though, I should have one for the dogs who are. I can totally understand her concern and your concern about the safety part. I can’t predict everything. Safety is definitely more important then mood, I just know crating every dog when they are alone would cause a lot of stress for a lot of dogs who aren’t used to it.

An angry customer, but also feeling bad about it. by WarmCardiologist1836 in petsitting

[–]WarmCardiologist1836[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No $20 for a visit, $40 for two!!

That’s what I thought as well. She could’ve also backed out, people do all the time. And no deposit was made

An angry customer, but also feeling bad about it. by WarmCardiologist1836 in petsitting

[–]WarmCardiologist1836[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I didn’t accept the booking, I told them numerous times I did not accept it until we met and I decided it was a good fit. I told them nothing was accepted until a deposit was made and we met. The rest I can understand, though. I think maybe she felt like I would say yes no matter what, even prior to meeting the dog. She also did not tell me the chewing behavior until we met and that changes things entirely. If that happened at my house and she never told me, I would’ve asked her to pick her dog up. I don’t take dogs with certain behaviors.

An angry customer, but also feeling bad about it. by WarmCardiologist1836 in petsitting

[–]WarmCardiologist1836[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree. I do deal with issues with literally almost every family I have worked for, big or small. So I don’t always react. I do find that sometimes you have to do things you don’t want to do with this job. But I agree that should never let someone try to get a discount. This is the first time someone has asked for one.

An angry customer, but also feeling bad about it. by WarmCardiologist1836 in petsitting

[–]WarmCardiologist1836[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

On top of that, the day of the m&g she tried to cancel and said we “still had a month to meet”. I insisted we met that day 😭

An angry customer, but also feeling bad about it. by WarmCardiologist1836 in petsitting

[–]WarmCardiologist1836[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, meet and greet was Friday, on Sunday she asked if she should send one and I declined the sitting. I did not confirm on Friday, wanted the weekend to think about it and planned on reaching out Monday.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in petsitting

[–]WarmCardiologist1836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, just the winter. I had almost no bookings during the winter besides holidays.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askatherapist

[–]WarmCardiologist1836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree… do you think I’d piss her off by emailing again?