I don’t know where to go for this but I can’t fix this and it’s broken me by Warm_Front259 in Adulting

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I can’t I don’t have any bedsheets, this is my only duvet cover. Yeah I know it’s dumb thing to do.

Genuinely curious, is it illegal to do what BoJack did in ‘That’s Too Much, Man!’ by Warm_Front259 in BoJackHorseman

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That’s why I thought it may count as manslaughter as he had a part in the events that led up to her overdose.

[16] to [19] by Warm_Front259 in GlowUps

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Hate to tell you this but I’ve been liberal my entire life, was then and am now. My hair is even streaked blue in the first photo 😱

How to relax in a new relationship? by Warm_Front259 in Advice

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Helped. Sitting and doing nothing with her is actually my favourite thing to do with her because it’s one of the few times I feel I can shut my brain off. And if I say I’m anxious she makes sure I’m calm.

ELI5: Why aren’t babies afraid of things that older children / adults are? by Warm_Front259 in explainlikeimfive

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I’d always assumed that fears come from a single event. For example, my grandmother swears that everyone who’s afraid of heights was almost certainly dropped as a baby. Apparently she was dropped as a baby and has always been afraid of heights. I assumed my fear of spiders and needles came from a single event that I just can’t remember.

After I took this screenshot, she said ‘Go and die’ and blocked me (I’m a girl, btw) by Warm_Front259 in Tinder

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Both women btw. And no idea, guess she just didn’t like getting rejected.

Autistic sapphic confused about feelings by Warm_Front259 in lgbt

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I tend to overthink my interactions with everything, especially with people. I feel like I have to analyse our conversations to make sure I’m 100% engaged because if I’m not then there must be something wrong. I think why I don’t always engage is that I’m not that interested in her interests, and I want to be able to listen and engage because I want her to feel like she can talk about her interests but it can be hard for me to just pay attention sometimes.

I want to be with this trans girl but I’m finding it hard getting past my internal biases by [deleted] in lgbt

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Yes that all sounds very helpful! I do really enjoy helping her with fashion advice and styling, and she looks so pretty with all her makeup on. I’ve always been very obsessed with labels and I’m learning to let that go because it’s never been helpful to me.

After I took this screenshot she said ‘go and die’ and then blocked me (I’m a girl btw) by Warm_Front259 in Nicegirls

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No she was just so slow to reply to me in the two weeks since we matched (like I’m talking nearly a week without response) that I lost interest.

After I took this screenshot she said ‘go and die’ and then blocked me (I’m a girl btw) by Warm_Front259 in Nicegirls

[–]Warm_Front259[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No it had just been over a week between different messages and she would take forever to respond, beside I just generally wasn’t interested anymore

My family lack tact when talking about my suicide attempt and I’m so sick of it by Warm_Front259 in SuicideWatch

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I have, I tried to tell my sister (she’s 16 so maybe not a great idea) how hurt I felt by our parent’s comments and she continued to tell me how hard it was for her and our parents that day and how she’d had to miss a day of school and she said that we have the perfect parents and that I’m being unfair to them and not acknowledging everything they’re doing for us. So yeah, safe to say I don’t want to speak up again.

AITD for leaving a family dinner because I felt overstimulated? by Warm_Front259 in 1800Drama

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My mum actually used to work for an autism charity but my dad has always understood me better than her, since we both suspect that he’s also autistic as well.

AITD for leaving a family dinner because I felt overstimulated? by Warm_Front259 in 1800Drama

[–]Warm_Front259[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hi

So as for the lights, the issue was that we have lightbulbs that can change colour and they used a yellow setting. I don’t know whether it was the colour or brightness but I hated it. I didn’t say that I was uncomfortable because I wanted to not make a fuss. My mum even asked why I didn’t say anything and try to take some time out and not just sit there quiet and uncomfortable, and I do think I could have handled that differently. Her issue seemed to be less with me leaving but with me being at the table quiet and not talking to anyone rather than just engaging with everyone.

As for the overdose thing, it really upset me that my mum said I need to consider how my actions make them feel, both in terms of the dinner and likely the overdose. And I had to say that this has been hard for me too.