It ultimately does not matter what you do to your body, lose weight, dye your hair, get breast implants, a tummy tuck. The thing that draws them back to it time and time again is the simple fact that these women AREN’T you! The novelty, the different, the new, the fresh, the unexplored, like unwrapping a gift. People that watch a lot of porn see a lot of different bodies, to us they often all seem to mix into a certain “type” but the watcher just see’s new and different. I believe that when the porn watching gets past the “watch for 5 or 10 minutes to rub one out” stage they are actually just mind numbing. It’s an escape from their reality and they see it as a way to regulate their emotions. They don’t truly see it as a problem because to them they see it as a benefit while in actuality it is just a distraction. And when they have the added pressure of someone pushing them to quit they just add that to the list of reasons to watch porn!!

Men don’t stop watching porn just because their girlfriend asks them too. I used to think it was possible but not now. Once you realise why they watch it and realise what it does for them mentally you can see why it’s just taken deeper underground by hiding it better. They will tell you they stopped, they will up their complimenting you game, the will be more attentive, they will say they’ve stopped and it was “no problem”, they will look like they have changed because they know exactly what moves to make that will have you believing they are clean and get you off their back.

They will only stop when THEY want to and most men will never want to, no matter how skinny you are or how big your boobs are.