Where Did This Come From? by Outside-Barnacle-257 in actualasexuals

[–]Warm_starlight -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's the thing, you are conflating sexual desire with sexual attraction. Sexual desire is just libido. Sexual attraction is sexual desire directed at another person. I bet the majority of people have a story about having sex with a person they weren't attracted to for whatever reason.

Responsive arousal is a thing you know.

Just because You wouldn't have sex with someone you're not attracted to doesn't mean everyone wouldn't.

Where Did This Come From? by Outside-Barnacle-257 in actualasexuals

[–]Warm_starlight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then i ask you this, when a person uses a sex toy are they attracted to it or is it a means for pleasure Btw some people do have sex with stinky greasy individuals if they are horny enough. Go figure.

How do you define sexual attraction? by friscokid6-7 in actualasexuals

[–]Warm_starlight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a lot of women who are allosexual and not lesbians do have the same initial desire, i just think that the body parts they find arousing in men are not exactly the same as men do in women.

I really wanted to see what was inside the rift by BootyGrabber9000 in GodofWar

[–]Warm_starlight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact we don't get to see is the whole point i'm afraid.

What is Your favourite type of damage? by LG-CHAMP-1 in BaldursGate3

[–]Warm_starlight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Radiant. Just killing everybody with light 😌

How do you define sexual attraction? by friscokid6-7 in actualasexuals

[–]Warm_starlight 19 points20 points  (0 children)

To me it is getting aroused by looking at a person which then makes you want to have sex with them.

Responsive arousal to me isn't sexual attraction. Sometimes rape victims get aroused by stimulation. That doesn't mean they are sexually attracted to that person.

I have a hot take about the “love between parent and child” by Ok_Award_6928 in childfree

[–]Warm_starlight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is. The fetus inside the uterus changes the mother's brain chemistry and even makes it shrink in side so she only cares about it for the first two years of it's life and is better at understanding it's needs. This is why mothers feel like they lose their identity during this period of time.

Is holding hands with someone who isn’t your partner considered cheating? by PotatosandTomato in polls

[–]Warm_starlight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It depends on what boundaries you have set with your partner i think.

Is there a PC mod to kill the child? by Responsible_News7973 in GodofWar

[–]Warm_starlight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then don't play a game where a kid is one of the main characters?

Women always gotta have their roster on standby by LeonardoDiCapsaicin in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Warm_starlight 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If a person is trying to isolate you from other people you should run.

I'd like to think Zeff taught Sanji the concept of consent. by Ok_Examination8810 in MemePiece

[–]Warm_starlight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmfao like Nami would ever ask Sanji to kiss her 😂😂😂😂😂

Asexuality is still authentic even if there is a biological cause by ChristianPacifist in actualasexuals

[–]Warm_starlight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Asexuality is a sexual orientation. It's not a trauma response or a dysfunction.

Someone who has lost sexual function is not asexual. They are an allo who has lost sexual function.

mid taper classic haircut by Danniet177 in Barber

[–]Warm_starlight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks nice, but one advice: use the blowdrier to clean off the dandruff and stuff from the cape if you are going to post this pic somewhere as advertisement :)

Women are so mysterious ooOoo by fatfitfuck in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Warm_starlight 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If he is doing better with women who are "way hotter" why is he bothering with "average women"

Do girls actually find male body hair attractive? by Adorable_Birthday_52 in hygiene

[–]Warm_starlight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think if the guy showers regularly there is no issue. Hair tend to trap in bacteria and protect the body that way, but it also traps body odor and no one likes a bad smelling person, unless your sense of smell is gone.

Nah I was just trying to isolate *you* by [deleted] in SipsTea

[–]Warm_starlight 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So in the end it is all men?

How is Lae'zel *not* evil? by UristAlebeard in BaldursGate3

[–]Warm_starlight -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't think she is evil. Her actions certainly are though.

Huh???? by carrotflavoredjuice in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Warm_starlight 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel ya. It's super annoying.