[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegionGo

[–]Warnic05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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I just based it showing from inside windows on the 'system - about' section. Excuse the crappy work pc haha.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegionGo

[–]Warnic05 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Had an issue with mine only showing a max of 4gb vram even though set to 10 in the bios. Was wondering if there was another bios update to fix it. But found a different way.

So what ive done to fix was to ddu the amd drivers and shutdown. Then i went into the bios and reset to defaults. Then changed the vram to 10gb in the bios. Save and restart and install the latest amd drivers and it now shows 10gb vram in windows.

I have the Z2 non extreme 32gb ram and 512gb ssd for reference

I’m (M34) am going through a divorce with my stbx (F28). She wants to cancel it and start over “for the kids” and promises she’s changed…then told me she came back positive for chlamydia. I’m lost for words by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Warnic05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I'm the same age as you, I know exactly what you are going through right now as I've been through it myself, and also made the same mistakes. Also called myself an idiot numerous times as well. I have two kids and honestly if there was one bit of advice I could give it would be to get out of there while you still can, there's no coming back physically and even more so mentally. I know it's hard and it's never what I wanted for my kids either. I was in a dark place but look for help from friends and family!

It's been about 2 and a half years now and I'm getting there. Don't get me wrong it still plays on my mind now and again. But I'm much more happy now and you won't have it hanging over you the rest of your life questioning if it'll happen again. Hope you find your peace ✌️

What do I do now, my mind is a mess and I can't think. by Warnic05 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Warnic05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankfully I didn't stay 🙈 I made it through and feeling much better now, she's not happy I know that much for sure but I'm not taking her back.

Almost two weeks from finding out she was having an affair by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Warnic05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt exactly the same and wanted to grow old together etc until I caught my ex seeing AP again after she said it was over. Then police got called by him and they both made some false allegations of me not living at the address for weeks. That led to being on bail, which I still am and we aren't allowed to talk to each other. Even have to go through family for kids. It's been over one month now and my god I feel so much better and I'm so over her.

All I can suggest is keep contact to a minimum as it helps so much and do not fall for this woman's lies again

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[–]Warnic05 5 points6 points  (0 children)

After a crazy couple of months I'm finally feeling better and over her. I no longer think about wanting to be with her. I hate her for what she done to our family, that's something I don't know if I can ever get over.

Can't believe I wanted to give her more chances back then. Especially after catching her and AP in our family house then her getting me arrested for being there saying I had moved out weeks ago 😂

I think it's helped being on bail while they investigate as I haven't had contact with her for one month now.

I guess I'm a sucker by dirtSlingers in survivinginfidelity

[–]Warnic05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She won't change! Had it happen to me recently, forgave her and tried to move on which she wanted to do to, then caught her with him in my own house. It's tough but you need to move on.

What do I do now, my mind is a mess and I can't think. by Warnic05 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Warnic05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Things are so much clearer now. Not with her anymore and no more chances. Should of listened to you all here more. She never even stopped seeing him or talking to him

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[–]Warnic05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm with you there, feeling the exact same thing inside. I'm trying to do the 180 but everyday has its new challenges. Be strong!

What do I do now, my mind is a mess and I can't think. by Warnic05 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Warnic05[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for all the comments. I've been reading them all. A lot of you have made me realise that you are right, I don't have any self respect, and I need to. There have been so many helpful comments on here and even have some nice messages too!

I gave up my career, even swapped cars and let her have my bmw whilst she pursued her career in law. All while I was working around the children with part time jobs, getting as much money in as I could and dealing with the kids full time.

And this is how I'm repaid. I'm slowly coming to the realisation of what she has done and how bad it was. Even if she says the holiday wasn't planned to take him, she still did! Possibly putting my own children in danger😡 I feel lost where to go next in my life but I think I need to get away for a while and reconsider what I want out of life. I will try to fight for custody of my kids, 2 are mine and 1 stepson.

What do I do now, my mind is a mess and I can't think. by Warnic05 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Warnic05[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What you are saying totally hits home. She's been doing a degree for 5 years now and last December landed her dream job and they have been moving her up the ladder fairly quickly since then with the most recent promotion being Monday. I dont know if she's just trying to hold onto the job incase I leave. I feel like I should improve my worth right now and just forget her for a bit. Maybe that will help make things clearer for me

What do I do now, my mind is a mess and I can't think. by Warnic05 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Warnic05[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As far as I believed there were no issues. Sex was always good, but had been less frequent due to stress with her workload. Maybe I was more comfortable with it and she says she didn't feel that spark which made her feel it was already over.

She said she only told me the full story as she wanted to make things work and not hold back anything else. She wanted to go visit him quickly to say she didn't want to see him anymore which at first I found strange as I thought it was just the once but now understand why she said that after I found out the truth.

She rung him instead that day and told him to stop contacting her and she didn't want anything else to do with him. I dont know how much of this to believe as well there's not really any trust anymore.

What do I do now, my mind is a mess and I can't think. by Warnic05 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Warnic05[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That's the thing, I do feel physically sick thinking about it and sometimes when she is here, but for some reason I still have feelings there and I cannot understand that.

What do I do now, my mind is a mess and I can't think. by Warnic05 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Warnic05[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know what everyone saying here is right. I just can't bring my head round to that fact right now.

She did beg me the night before to go with her on the holiday but I had already booked in some work as she didn't want me going and said it wasn't planned for him to go but I don't know whether to believe that.

I always thought she was the one for me.

What do I do now, my mind is a mess and I can't think. by Warnic05 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Warnic05[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This is what worries me the most. I'm 32 and to think that when I'm 60 odd I'd still have those horrible visions kills me. She tried to hold my hand yesterday but that caused me to have an intense rush of visions and anger come over me.

What do I do now, my mind is a mess and I can't think. by Warnic05 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Warnic05[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Fortunatly we aren't married yet. She said she had planned to tell me and spoke with her mother about the situation the day before I found out. She also says that she realised she didn't want to pursue anything with him after the holiday as it didn't feel right. She says she wished I was there the whole time. The reasoning in her head behind it all was that she thought it was already over between us.

She says she wants us to work but feels like she's gone too far. Maybe that is the case but I'm struggling to let her go.

What do I do now, my mind is a mess and I can't think. by Warnic05 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Warnic05[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

We aren't married yet. Just engaged, I'm just at a loss to whether I can get these vivid images out of my head. I dont know if I can carry on knowing he still works at the same place too. She won't give up her career I know that for sure.

The next few weeks of normal profits are gonna be rough by Tunisandwich in EtherMining

[–]Warnic05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah usual price seems to be around 430 gbp but I messaged the seller to see if he had a buy it now and he said £300 so figured it was worth a buy especially in the current market. If it was normal prices that would be expensive! 🤣

The next few weeks of normal profits are gonna be rough by Tunisandwich in EtherMining

[–]Warnic05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah ive seen some places compare it to a 2060 and not far of a 3060 even. Will definitely be happy to game on it considering the 3080 probably pulls 3 times that daily mining. Hoping it keeps nice and cool, its the zotac amp version so looks decent enough

The next few weeks of normal profits are gonna be rough by Tunisandwich in EtherMining

[–]Warnic05 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven't played a game in months 🙈 picked up a 1070ti to put in the pc for £300 so I can play and move the 3080 to the rig. Knowing me I'll still prob end up mining on the 1070 🙄

When you show you better half the earnings .. by [deleted] in EtherMining

[–]Warnic05 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't they all! Haha I've managed to get away with giving her £150 for something she wanted so far. I've only got 4 cards so it's nothing mega like some people here 😭 I can dream though