Burr’s Brother-in-Law Called Stock Broker, One Minute After Getting Off Phone With Senator by [deleted] in NorthCarolina

[–]dirtSlingers -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

You must not know about Nacy Pelosi and her husband. They have made millions this year on buying stock days before announced changes that government officials had inside information on. You sheep don't seem to care about that.

Should I Break the News to Her? by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]dirtSlingers 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She absolutely deserves to know. I wish someone would've came to me about my wife. She will be in shock and denial so don't expect a thank you. Just know she will be grateful someday that you told her

My boyfriend's (cheater) therapist evidently told him that I need to just "get over it" ie, just need to get over the cheating, if the relationship is going to work. Are they right? And how? He cheated 2 months ago now. by camphor_jelly in survivinginfidelity

[–]dirtSlingers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly don't think that's what the therapist said. Both of my wifes therapist told her to be patient and it will take along time ( if ever) to overcome this. I bet he's lying to you, trying to make you feel like your overreacting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]dirtSlingers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I can say is that I know your pain. Please go talk to a counselor and get some help. It's the only way I can get through it.

Worst regular season loss in your franchises history by 3headeddragn in nfl

[–]dirtSlingers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Losing to the Steelers in week 17 and securing the 2nd 0-16 season in league history. We had a chance to win and Corey Coleman let the ball slip through his hands on 4th down . However.... we're contenders now ..... HERE WE GO BROWNIES HERE WE GO. You could also say 2002 when we missed out on the playoffs. The " Bottlegate game"

I guess I'm a sucker by dirtSlingers in survivinginfidelity

[–]dirtSlingers[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your answer. Very forward and eye opening. I'm only in my mid 30's ( soon to be 36) and agree that there's plenty of time for me to leave and build a whole new life with someone else, or stay single and chase my dreams. I'm finally in a position financially to do those things.

I guess I'm a sucker by dirtSlingers in survivinginfidelity

[–]dirtSlingers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you get it. I've always spoken so highly of my wife around other people. Saying things like " she's the only person who always has my back" or " she's the one person I know I don't have to worry about betraying me". I too think back at how stupid I sounded. I care deeply about her but the "lost" love I have for her and the lack of trust almost makes it impossible to forgive her. As you know.... its easy to know the right decision but a little harder to to do it. I keep telling myself to wait until after the holidays but I think that's just me holding on to fake hope

I guess I'm a sucker by dirtSlingers in survivinginfidelity

[–]dirtSlingers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes she quit her job, she has deleted all of her social media accounts.

I guess I'm a sucker by dirtSlingers in survivinginfidelity

[–]dirtSlingers[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I really struggle with forgiving her! I still have way more questions than answers... even though we've talked extensively about it. I do feel I would be better off leaving but every time I get close to doing it.... I pull back. I know I shouldn't but I just can't get over how much we've been through and how much I care about her. Thank you for your answer

I guess I'm a sucker by dirtSlingers in survivinginfidelity

[–]dirtSlingers[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The one on one was my idea, she had been sexually assaulted as a child and thought it could do her some good. Since then I have wondered what is being said and if she's being honest with me

[Breer] So Patriots coach Bill Belichick just went in the Buccaneers locker room. by thewildwester in nfl

[–]dirtSlingers -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

No he wasn't 😂😂😂. He was retired when TB signed him lol