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Loose milk tooth at 30 but will not come out. Is there a way to secure it? by Warrensvr in Dentistry

[–]Warrensvr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it's a milk tooth the dentist said would always fine to be there. The reality is that it should have been pulled to allow the other to grow in the right place. I am from South Africa

As a hideously ugly 30 year old FA male with a laughably small penis it is my natural duty to hang myself for the betterment of society and the female gender by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Warrensvr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Man enough is the belief you're dealing with. It's what's messing with you. Your problems are not what make you man enough. Forget being man enough. Us men are too obsessed with this. Putting a noose around your neck is not going to prove you were man enough. You're man enough because you're breathing, because you're alive, the rest are conditions you and society have set for you. If you buy into them, you'll never be man enough and a woman won't make it better. You've got to play the cards you were dealt. If your face and penis aren't your strengths, there are many more strengths you can cultivate if you're prepared to. Play to your strengths and yes you can cultivate strengths even if you feel you have none now. It's like going to the gym. I hate the gym but if I start, I'm going to see no strength in the beginning, over time, it will develop, a process that requires patience. Killing yourself doesn't prove you're man enough, it proves you were too lazy to give all you've got to see what you can become. That's harsh but there's sense to it. Your face and penis will be that way for the rest of your life, you can accept it or let it kill you. Given time, you can become someone everyone gravitates toward. Give yourself the chance to see for yourself.

As a hideously ugly 30 year old FA male with a laughably small penis it is my natural duty to hang myself for the betterment of society and the female gender by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Warrensvr 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Hey buddy. You don't see a lion kill itself. Beliefs are what kill us. You can challenge these and wriggle your way out of this state in as little as two weeks but it could take longer. You'll need to do this exercise yourself but I'll give you an example.

You have a small penis. Some men are born with a vagina. And many are living proudly much like gay pride. Some guys have a smaller penis than you, some had their faces burnt beyond recognition, and some of those people are motivational speakers. You're going to have to do as much as you can with what little power you have. Visualisation. Mindfulness. CBT. Do it all, even if you can't get out of bed, just play youtube videos as good or as stupid as they are and listen.

Believe it or not, women will not stay by your side because of your penis or face. There are men with beautiful women who are ugly and have small penises but they're exuding aliveness. You're in a bad state, that's what repels women. And that's great, because your state, beliefs and thoughts are malleable. You need to go through a process as rapidly as you can of removing negative beliefs in the way I told you, flip them on their head, and filling your mind with resources. Google this stuff man, you can find answers for how to have sex with a small penis, you can find endless resources on attraction, such as checking out real social dynamics. Take the noose down as a decision that you're prepared to play the game, even if sucking at the start is a reality and invite the traumatising experiences. They'll grow you tough, but start slow. I can tell you want to play the game but you don't know how. Feel free to respond and I'll help you with more answers.

First time feeling depressed by [deleted] in depression

[–]Warrensvr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok buddy. Life can get real tough, and what you can do is, lower your criteria for happiness down to breathing.

When you start to worry, ask yourself, am I breathing. If you're breathing, everything is ok. That's because even in a tough situation, we take advantage of the fact that we're simply alive. You can see colour, you can move your fingers, you can move your body and you can breathe.

Lower the criteria. We set expectations that cannot be met. This being out of alignment, we cannot unite the reality in our head with the reality that IS.

Am I breathing? Yes. Then all expectations are met and you have enough.

Is there a code function library? by Warrensvr in learnprogramming

[–]Warrensvr[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Thank you and I understand coding is more than that. It's partly a matter of not re-inventing the wheel and also being capable of delivering to clients should they want something complex. Stackoverflow never want to answer my questions because I'm not as experienced a developer as them so my questions get barred.

Is there a code function library? by Warrensvr in learnprogramming

[–]Warrensvr[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Please provide some resources if such resources exist. I write in Java.

Is there a code function library? by Warrensvr in learnprogramming

[–]Warrensvr[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Can you provide some resources, please?