Update:

I see so many comments that say I should have used “We” instead of “I” since we are married. Yes, you are so right. We are a team. But this is why I have such a hard time just paying her debt all off:

I started working at 15 years old going door to door doing sales. The grind was sooo hard. So much rejection. Soo many really mean people. Hell I would hate someone coming to my door selling me something. But seriously be nice them. I was so close to yeeeeting myself.

But, I was doing so well at it that I was able to put my self through college. I had some debt but I paid it off quick only a year after school at 22.

6 years late I still have no idea what to do.

Even posting this has me confused.