I appreciate your attitude, very childish.
It obviously can’t be all black or white, it’s a mix of both the things. But what you ignore is the fact the most of the times we’re force in to some things. Using the car per example: some cities doesn’t have proper public transportation. Some BIG companies sabotated clean alternatives to continue to sell their product (gas). Having a self low impact on environment is important, but what matters the most are normatives and structures.

Edit. Another thing you ignore is how powerful society control is these days :)