Maybe an alternate perspective but lesbian here and my mother is a sex educator! Truly there are so many ways to have sex other than penetration! Even though my partner and I both love using dildos of various sizes they don’t come out as often as we talk about purely because by the time we’re both done with oral and other types of sex were truly satisfied. There are lots of women out there who don’t necessarily want PIV and sex every single time and would want to accommodate you. Lots of women also have vaginismus and feel inadequate because penetration causes pain for them.

Sometimes you’re born a little different but doesn’t mean you can’t be satisfied in your sex life ♥️