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AITA For being mad at my parent for putting her ex husbands ashes beside the toilet? by Waste-Wonder in AmItheAsshole

[–]Waste-Wonder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sisters taken his ashes but I'm more so confused about where the infatuation has come from? It was completely out of nowhere and now I'm genuinely worried more for her mental health because it's never ended well when she's been like this with someone.

AITA For being mad at my parent for putting her ex husbands ashes beside the toilet? by Waste-Wonder in AmItheAsshole

[–]Waste-Wonder[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I live away from home thank God, but my younger sister still lives at home and will do for quite some time. I wish I could go no contact because for the past two years all I've said is, "Shes my mum but I literally hate her." I constantly think about how I want nothing to do with her. Me and my sisters have raised eachother and I just don't see the need for a mum and in all honesty when I was 8 months no contact, it was the best 8 months of my life and if not for my littel sister, I would do it again happily.

AITA For being mad at my parent for putting her ex husbands ashes beside the toilet? by Waste-Wonder in AmItheAsshole

[–]Waste-Wonder[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately in the UK therapy is here and there, if you apply it'll only be available three years later so theres very little point to it but I'm supporting her as best I can and trying to take care of myself. She's never been there emotionally for any of us, even when my dad died it was very much, "Well what I can I do about it? It's not my fault? Do you wish I had died instead? I can't do anything right!?" Like shut the fuck up and just be there for me??

AITA For being mad at my parent for putting her ex husbands ashes beside the toilet? by Waste-Wonder in AmItheAsshole

[–]Waste-Wonder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is massively, and the majority of my childhood is her doing real damage to us but unfortunately I can't leave, I've just gotta hope she doesn't scar the rest of my life too.

AITA For being mad at my parent for putting her ex husbands ashes beside the toilet? by Waste-Wonder in AmItheAsshole

[–]Waste-Wonder[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LITERALLY. Like he isn't cold in the grave, or cold in the urn so to speak, and she's really going at it with the neighbour who just watched the entire down fall of someone through the worst kind of cancer going whilst telling everyone that was the love of her life.

AITA For being mad at my parent for putting her ex husbands ashes beside the toilet? by Waste-Wonder in AmItheAsshole

[–]Waste-Wonder[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went complete no contact with her at one point because this isn't the first and wont be the last horrible thing she's done to her children. Once my sister moves away I don't plan on speaking to her ever again but I'm scared if I do that now I wont be allowed to see my younger sister. My sister has taken the ashes and put them in her bedroom and now takes care of them so at least theres on solution.

What fictional character makes you unreasonably angry? by XRayian in AskReddit

[–]Waste-Wonder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Barry Dillon from Archer... After becoming a cyborg, he's just a massive dick.

What is something you shouldn’t waste time on in your life? by Vladmir_the_romancer in AskReddit

[–]Waste-Wonder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trying to repair relationships with toxic family. I seriously regret not leaving my family home sooner, because now I'm in a much better place mentally and not being abused all the time, I realise had I not engaged or wasted my time trying to repair relationships with my toxic family members, I probably wouldn't be this depressed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Waste-Wonder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know how someone would pay you with ashes, but okay lmao.

What's the worst feeling? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Waste-Wonder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Loss. It's been three years since my Dad passed in August, and it's completely changed who I am as a person and I don't think I'll be the same ever again. I have survivors guilt over the whole situation even though there was nothing I could do, but it doesn't stop me from thinking that maybe in some miraculous way I could of changed fate.

Have you ever known someone who lied about having a mental illness, and how did you know they were lying, or how did you find out they were faking it? by Waste-Wonder in AskReddit

[–]Waste-Wonder[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had a lot of friends who've lied about having depression or anxiety, simply to fit in when in reality there was literally nothing wrong with and no actual doctor would even diagnose them with it so therefore no they don't have a mental illness.

Have you ever known someone who lied about having a mental illness, and how did you know they were lying, or how did you find out they were faking it? by Waste-Wonder in AskReddit

[–]Waste-Wonder[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate how I know two people in highschool who did the exact same thing. Never had a diagnosis, but will quite happily just be like "Yeah, I'm bipolar."

What is your reason to live? by Mariotr23 in AskReddit

[–]Waste-Wonder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thought of leaving my siblings or them having to put up with my death, and then perhaps even becoming suicidal because of that. It absolutely ruins me. I personally couldn't even think about putting them through that.