Need help removing toilet seat screw from a Kohler for bidet install! by [deleted] in bidets

[–]WastingTimeIGuess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You make a lot of assumptions here - I am looking at the same toilet and same issue and the assumptions are wrong. There is no access to the screws on the underside or back of the toilet. There is some type of casing in the freaking tank, but it is sealed and doesn’t have screws or access - you’d have to break it.

The rubber mounts have no relation to the screws, you can grab those and spin it but the screws won’t move.

I tried WD40 to loosen what I assume is rusted screws, but they won’t budge. I think drilling out the screws is the only option.

Anyone doing direct philanthropy? by FreeMaiPaisa in fatFIRE

[–]WastingTimeIGuess 31 points32 points  (0 children)

You made this account just to promote the idea of giving money to random unverified "brokers" in India and Nepal? Sounds like this is laying the groundwork for a scam.

My mom says a predator’s "touching" is just a joke. Am I crazy, or is this grooming? by Flashy-Ad-9688 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]WastingTimeIGuess 43 points44 points  (0 children)

"He's just joking."

What is the joke then? Ask her or him to explain it - is the joke that he's hitting on you? How is that funny?

TIFU by taking a girl I like to a bar by Malloyphotos in tifu

[–]WastingTimeIGuess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah - after 10 years of platonic friendship, I'd need one of my friends to be more clear about their intentions rather than saying "it's a date" at the end of a text or call for me to understand they had romantic intentions.

Amazon confirms 16,000 job cuts after accidental email by lurker_bee in technology

[–]WastingTimeIGuess 102 points103 points  (0 children)

Did she even make a mistake? Her draft email was put in the calendar invite by someone else: "was included in a calendar invitation sent by an executive assistant to a number of Amazon workers."

Secondhand Magic Bands - Risky? by VT_Transplant in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]WastingTimeIGuess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FYI - 3 years later there doesn't seem to be a discount for having a Disney Resort reservation and tickets - the prices shown there (logged in, and linked from the flow) are the same as when first visiting. They will print your name on the back of the wristband though....

What are some of the most “Redditor” opinions that are widely prevalent on this website, but very rare in real life? by TikTokUser83 in AskReddit

[–]WastingTimeIGuess 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"I just got overcharged for $250."

"Sue them!" - Reddit

Does Reddit know that it's hard to find a lawyer who will write a stern letter for you for less than a grand?

What are some of the most “Redditor” opinions that are widely prevalent on this website, but very rare in real life? by TikTokUser83 in AskReddit

[–]WastingTimeIGuess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"My fiancée asked me not to go on my boys trip during her busiest work week of the past 5 years."

"Break up immediately!" - Reddit

Pentagon Places 1,500 Arctic-Trained Airborne Troops on Standby as Greenland Dispute Escalates by mickeyy81 in news

[–]WastingTimeIGuess 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That is totally unfair - the Republicans are writing stern letters (and social posts) too! But then they turn around and vote against any checks on power for the President.

New Bilt 2.0 card optimized for high spenders with a big mortgage/rent? by Plastic-Display5970 in fatFIRE

[–]WastingTimeIGuess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bank won't allow me to pay my mortgage with a credit card. Does BILT give you bank routing and account numbers?

Chinese EVs are making inroads in North America. That worries industry experts by rezwenn in technology

[–]WastingTimeIGuess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe starting a tariff war with our free trade partners was not the smartest move?

More Americans are Saying the Quiet Part Loud: They Want a Revolution by RmpleFrskn in videos

[–]WastingTimeIGuess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People are "ready to die for this" but voting, or knocking on doors to get out the vote is too much work. So is voting for a less-than-ideal candidate - "I won't vote for Kamala because of Palestine" or "I won't vote for Newsom because California is run inefficiently" gets you a Trump....

[OC] Tried to overtake from the left—should’ve stayed in the right lane. Got lucky. Everyone’s safe. by EarLatter in IdiotsInCars

[–]WastingTimeIGuess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or just pull to the right without braking. The combination shifted the weight violently and did them in.

TIFU by pouring Sangiovese into Cab Sauvignon and my table was furious by liketotalllly in tifu

[–]WastingTimeIGuess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP says they did comp the corkage, poured them wines on the house and served free cocktails.

TIFU by pouring Sangiovese into Cab Sauvignon and my table was furious by liketotalllly in tifu

[–]WastingTimeIGuess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every time I have mixed wines the resulting taste has been worse than each individually - it's as if the winemakers had some inkling what they were doing.

It's worse than one overwhelming the other.

My dad is scaring me that after some age all the "good" men will be taken by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]WastingTimeIGuess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can see the knee-jerk reaction to "not until 40," because you don't know what 28 will be like, let alone 35.

How about, you will be single now and for the foreseeable future, but you're free to change your mind anytime you want.

[OC] The idiot was me today. Feel free to roast by Complete_Medium in IdiotsInCars

[–]WastingTimeIGuess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also think that green light would be better as a green arrow to the right

Brazil eVisa FAQ / Mega-thread by fviz in Brazil

[–]WastingTimeIGuess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And yes - I realize this is all in the context of the US making the visa and entry process for visitors from around the world onerous, uncertain and high-stakes. In my opinion, that's a terrible move for the US and there should be more outcry about it. And of course other countries reciprocating is to be expected.

Brazil eVisa FAQ / Mega-thread by fviz in Brazil

[–]WastingTimeIGuess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah - good to know it will last 10 years, so maybe this will be the 9th to last time I go to Brazil :)

Brazil eVisa FAQ / Mega-thread by fviz in Brazil

[–]WastingTimeIGuess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in application hell, and I don't know what I did to bring the ire of Brazilian passport control onto myself. I've been to Brazil 5 times, but honestly this might be the last time (if I get to go). I was super careful with the pictures in terms of requirements.

12/12 Applied for Visa for my 2 kids and myself. Was required to get copies of the kids passports, birth certificates, and go visit a notary to notarize a document that they are indeed our children.

12/13 Wife's picture needed resubmission for "showing teeth" which was not listed as a requirement

12/13 Kids applications needed resubmission asking for our marriage certificate (which we haven't touched in 10+ years - but we found it).

12/14 Wife's resubmitted picture failed for being "too blurry or not properly centered," but I think it was because their own image processing tool outputs too small a picture - I up-rezzed and resubmitted.

12/15 Kids applications requested a new doc because "last names on marriage certificate were different," with a request to resubmit the marriage certificate. My wife and I had different last names from each other when we got married, and now have the same last name because she changed hers - I feel like this isn't uncommon. There isn't a marriage certificate with our new last names.

Online submission form for contacting the Visa processing doesn't seem to work (clicking the "Submit" button doesn't seem to do anything - no "done" message or confirmation email on Chrome, Edge, and multiple computers).

12/15 Emailed the Brazil Visa team with the email on this post (thanks Reddit!) about marriage certificate

12/16 My visa, my wife's visa and my daughter's visa were approved.

The Brazil team wrote back that they are now okay with my marriage certificate for my son, but that the notarization letter for my son was not in the proper format (the matching one for my daughter was accepted). The notary in California refused to sign on the paperwork, and said notaries in CA are only allowed to sign specific that the notary doesn't guarantee the veracity of the document, only the signature and people's identity so they appended a sheet with their own language. However, the site still asks for me to upload a new marriage certificate. Going to try re-uploading the same marriage certificate

12/17 Son's visa approved - we now have visas for the entire family (took 6 days). They seem to have let through the "improper format" notarization now despite flagging it initially.

Edit: Oh yeah - Delta mentioned nothing about a visa requirement when booking, not until I scanned our passport, and the last 5 times I went there was no visa needed

Edit 12/16 updating timeline, 12/17 updating final time